apologies if its been written about b4 but done a search on here and found nothing,
having been members of 16 clubs in past 6 1/2 years we've taken part / seen / heard lots of action,which brings me to ask this question to guys and gals.
1) girls if you don't have one do you fake orgasms?
2) do you feel obligued to fake them?
3) obviously guys would like there partner to have one but if they don't, do guys like girls to fake them?
in my opinion a bad "faking" is worse than her not having one.
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Sex God
Can't see the point in faking - definitely wouldn't feel obliged to fake one for anyone!
Surely if you faked, your partner would think they were doing the right things and would presumably do them again if you met again? Better to make sure they know that what they are doing, isn't working. At least then you might have one with them in future, if they tried something else.
Surely if you faked, your partner would think they were doing the right things and would presumably do them again if you met again? Better to make sure they know that what they are doing, isn't working. At least then you might have one with them in future, if they tried something else.
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Can't see the point in faking - definitely wouldn't feel obliged to fake one for anyone!
Surely if you faked, your partner would think they were doing the right things and would presumably do them again if you met again? Better to make sure they know that what they are doing, isn't working. At least then you might have one with them in future, if they tried something else.
I never considered that, time for me to stop faking!
Sex God
No, dont see the point......
Sex God
Women should never fake an orgasm!
This is bad thing to do because it's the woman who loses out. A broken man's ego will repair itself very quickly.
I'd much rather a woman told me she didn't cum, then told me or showed me what did it for her, then let me try again.
and again
and again …
This is bad thing to do because it's the woman who loses out. A broken man's ego will repair itself very quickly.
I'd much rather a woman told me she didn't cum, then told me or showed me what did it for her, then let me try again.
and again
and again …
Sex God
Quote by bbw_lover
A broken man's ego will repair itself very quickly.
How do you come to that conclusion
Sex God
Quote by Dawnie
Nope, wouldn't fake. If the bloke can't manage it then I'd have to finish it off myself :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
Or maybe get him to finish it off for you *lick* *lick*
Sex God
I havent faked it, and would just do what Dawnie said if it was something the guy was or wasnt doing.
However, what about the times when it doesnt matter what you do, you just stay 'teetering' on the edge, not quite making it, and it is nothing to do with what your partner is/isn't doing?
However, what about the times when it doesnt matter what you do, you just stay 'teetering' on the edge, not quite making it, and it is nothing to do with what your partner is/isn't doing?
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
However, what about the times when it doesnt matter what you do, you just stay 'teetering' on the edge, not quite making it, and it is nothing to do with what your partner is/isn't doing?
I hate those times, really hate it!
I'd still never fake it though
I'd be worried I'd look like a poor impression of Meg Ryan or something 
in 5 yrs me an the wife have been married ive proberly maid her orgasm about 6 times if that, dont ask why cas we dont know lol. she cant even orgasm when she is showing me what makes her go, but we still love having sex togther and she still enjoys the felling. But then we bought her the cone from ann summers and problem solved lol.
I would be miffed if she faked it. and if any other woman did to.
I would be miffed if she faked it. and if any other woman did to.
Sex God
Quote by Fragglerocks
in 5 yrs me an the wife have been married ive proberly maid her orgasm about 6 times if that, dont ask why cas we dont know lol. she cant even orgasm when she is showing me what makes her go, but we still love having sex togther and she still enjoys the felling. But then we bought her the cone from ann summers and problem solved lol.
I would be miffed if she faked it. and if any other woman did to.
Good honest post fraggle!
My previous g/f had problems with orgasm's.
She loved sex loved the feelings she got until a certain point. At that point she started to hate the feeling and had to stop. It was so weird because she was quite voracious at times but hated getting near orgasm. Strange! But she was quite happy not orgasming(sp)? Though to me it was alays a little frustrating to do 'all that wirk'
to have to stop and leave it at that!Bless the girl i ended up with !!
Sex God
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
However, what about the times when it doesnt matter what you do, you just stay 'teetering' on the edge, not quite making it, and it is nothing to do with what your partner is/isn't doing?
If I feel that it's not his fault then I'd just push him out of the way and finish myself off
* I don't have to do it that often though! Last time we tried to have a shag I couldn't get into a position where I was comfy enough for long and when I started squirming, he couldn't get at me properly because it was too uncomfortable for me. Not his fault.
Probably too much information there
Sex God
1) girls if you don't have one do you fake orgasms?
Not since I left my husband :lol2:
2) do you feel obligued to fake them?
Nope - but it's rare not to.
3) obviously guys would like there partner to have one but if they don't, do guys like girls to fake them?
Oh, I hope not
Not since I left my husband :lol2:
2) do you feel obligued to fake them?
Nope - but it's rare not to.
3) obviously guys would like there partner to have one but if they don't, do guys like girls to fake them?
Oh, I hope not
Warming the Bed
like naughtynympho i have done for the same reasons but that was a long time ago before i tried swinging.
Now I wouldn't dream of faking it, as others have said no point. Was with one guy once and we both were having trouble so we did mutual masturbation which was huge turn on.
Normally tho i just wait until i have lol
Now I wouldn't dream of faking it, as others have said no point. Was with one guy once and we both were having trouble so we did mutual masturbation which was huge turn on.
Normally tho i just wait until i have lol
Sex God
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apologies if its been written about b4 but done a search on here and found nothing,
having been members of 16 clubs in past 6 1/2 years we've taken part / seen / heard lots of action,which brings me to ask this question to guys and gals.
1) girls if you don't have one do you fake orgasms?
2) do you feel obligued to fake them?
3) obviously guys would like there partner to have one but if they don't, do guys like girls to fake them?
in my opinion a bad "faking" is worse than her not having one.
a bad faking???
would they notice???
if they had what it took to not need to fake it?????
um nothing personal.............
but it`s sparing the guys feelings and they`re happy........
just waitin for fab 2 cut me down to size.....
pmsl
