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Luckier than I could ever imagine! :thumbup:
Right this minute now?
Erm yes and no: lucky and unlucky.
Luckier than some fo'sho. cool
In love? Always unlucky sad In lust, more often lucky than not :rascal:
I've also had a lot of poo to deal with over the years. But have always sworn to myself that no matter what, i am holding on to my positivity and inner happiness.
Sure i get a touch of paranoia at times, sure i'll shed tears and be upset. But despite all those outward signs of (temporary) distress, inside is a bubbly happy passionate woman, content with her life, and ouh so looking forward to what is to come.
So yes, i Am lucky and i Feel lucky :P
No matter what shite i'm going through every morning I am so glad to be alive and hear myself breathing and that is lucky just to be alive is lucky - So yes i consider myself lucky because the other option of not waking up is unlucky aint it?
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I've also had a lot of poo to deal with over the years. But have always sworn to myself that no matter what, i am holding on to my positivity and inner happiness.
Sure i get a touch of paranoia at times, sure i'll shed tears and be upset. But despite all those outward signs of (temporary) distress, inside is a bubbly happy passionate woman, content with her life, and ouh so looking forward to what is to come.
So yes, i Am lucky and i Feel lucky :P

I read your reponse and they are my sentiments exactly.
I have had heart aches and pain through things that have been out of my control. But through it all I have always drawn from the positives in life than the negatives.
I have always counted my blessings and thought through life how lucky I have been.
I think laughter and having a sense of humour through all the tough times helps.
My motto has always been.
Laugh in the face of adversity and let nothing get you down.
I guess it come from my Dad he always said when growing up "laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone.
So yes I feel lucky, lucky that I have the parents I have that have taught me the real tools of life to have made me happy and content with life. Sense of humour, consideration, caring and love.
life has a tendancy to throw shit at us, we all have things to deal with, some more than others, but we deal with it.
the way i see it, i am healthy, i am happy, i have family and friends that i love and love me back, i have a roof over my head, yes money etc is tight at the moment, but most are in the same boat
so am i lucky? definately, i am still breathing!
Earthy xx
Am I lucky?
Hell yeah!
I have some very good friends, I have some exceptional friends, I have had some fantastic experiences, I have some (to me) exciting plans and intentions.
It's all good...
bill whyman ( rolling stones) at a concert recently said ...
"He was LUCKY to be alive at his age "
and he is 70
.....
I don't feel that lucky things happen to me sad but I do feel that I have had a fortunate life so far. I don't take enough risks for the 'happy accidents' to occur, I feel that so-called lucky people are the ones that tend to take the road less travelled. I have my parents, my husband and my children, and we're all in reasonably good health. We keep managing to make ends meet, despite the spanners that get thrown into the works. I guess we are luckier than many biggrin
like dunno
I feel lucky to have had such loving a wonderful parents certainly. Do I feel lucky that my sons turned out to be (mostly) well behaved, caring, hard working boys? No - I put that down to good parenting biggrin
As for love, well rolleyes In the words of Clapton/Bruce/Baker - If it wasn't for bad luck, I wouldn't have no luck at all :dry:
wasn't :shock:
we have a saying in our house
if we didn't have bad luck we wouldn't have any luck at all lol
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Luckier than I could ever imagine! :thumbup:

Double that and add some more... to be honest I'm overwhelmed by just how lucky I am to have the family and friends that I've got.
Life is good! :inlove:
We have been going through a few difficulities after the Mr. lost his job which has been shite.
However, I have two beautiful,healthy happy children, a husband who isn't to much of a pain in the ass lol, a family who love me and I have my health. I consider myself incredibly lucky.
Not sure if i consider myself lucky as such after having been widowed young but every day i wake up with a smile on my face, and i have a happy and gorgeous little boy who thinks i am the worlds best mum lol despite not having the money to treat him to all that i would want to.
My family are healthy and happy, i have a roof over my head and most of all i have friends that care and love me for who i am not because i might be able to do something for them.
Lucky hmmmmm, fortunate - definately!!!
I think people can make their own luck. Sometimes by being positive and having that effect on the people around them - making them more likely to co-operate. Sometimes by taking an action - sending that letter, asking if xyz is possible, having a go.
If you take those factors away there are some truly lucky events, often about being in the right place at the right time.
I know that I've commented to someone that they seem to be blessed with good luck and that I am always struggling and they said "I was thinking exactly the same about you". Our struggles and doubts are often invisible to others - all that they see is our results and successes.
As for me right now? Life is pretty good - but work is threatening redundancies, the mortgage isn't arranged yet and son's uni application is still up in the air. So - lots to worry about. Same old, same old.
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I think people can make their own luck. Sometimes by being positive and having that effect on the people around them - making them more likely to co-operate. Sometimes by taking an action - sending that letter, asking if xyz is possible, having a go.
If you take those factors away there are some truly lucky events, often about being in the right place at the right time.
I know that I've commented to someone that they seem to be blessed with good luck and that I am always struggling and they said "I was thinking exactly the same about you". Our struggles and doubts are often invisible to others - all that they see is our results and successes.

As for me right now? Life is pretty good - but work is threatening redundancies, the mortgage isn't arranged yet and son's uni application is still up in the air. So - lots to worry about. Same old, same old.

I've seen that from both sides. There have been occasions recently where I've let trusted friends know the magnitude of some of the crap happening to us during the last two years. They've been gobsmacked and commented that they would never have known. That's the way I wanted it. I see no point dragging others into your misery pit when they have no need to be there. I'd rather just carry on having a positive impact in their lives.
I've also been in a situation where people have confided in me. There are many, many traumas going on, hidden away in peoples lives. Some of them have shocked me- some have made me think "I wish you could tell so & so- they have exactly the same situation"- but I can't confused All I can do is be there, and spread some happiness whenever I can.
Envying peoples "good luck" is a waste of a life. Chances are their good fortune is tempered by bad you just haven't seen.
When you're cursing the fact that you missed your bus, smile at the fact that it's not raining- and that you get extra time to enjoy the sun. cool