I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
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Quote by m1970
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
well ther not playing with this fire( or phoenix ) without a condom lol no seriously it is dangerous with all the deseses about but then its ther life isnt it to lead however they chose as we all lead a non mainstream lifestyle here who are we to start judging and critisising how pple lead ther lives to those who dont swing were strange and wiered so why do we judge our own but no harm in pointing out AIDS HEPITITUS btw make no apology for the caps ther ther to make a point
PS go on frekkled i need spelling correcting lol
Quote by m1970
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
Each to their own
The fact you think things like a gang bang is disgusting really does show you don't have a clue on accepting people for what they are and are judging others by your own personal standards.
Are you sure you are a swinger
Quote by Dawn_Mids
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
Each to their own
The fact you think things like a gang bang is disgusting really does show you don't have a clue on accepting people for what they are and are judging others by your own personal standards.
Are you sure you are a swinger
Agreed, gang bangs are loads of fun....as swingers we should be freethinkers and not judging how others wish to live their lives. As, already pointed out, most of the population would judge just the mere act of 'swinging' to be 'disgusting and depraved'. Nobody is forcing anyone to have sex without a condom, it's all about choice.
Calling swingers ads 'disgusting' just shows to us that you are, as already mentioned, not really thinking 'freely'.
Just checked your profile, m1970, it says you are into 'threesomes' and 'gangbangs'..so now we are totally baffled by your post....are you a tad confused? :roll:
I think what m1970 was saying is he finds the wording of the ads rather than the lifestyle of the members is disgusting. I've read some ads which are very graphic in their detail and some I have found to be a bit degrading and a turn off. That said, it IS each to their own. I'm not into cream pies, gang bangs or playing without condoms but I understand and accept there are people who do and if that's their lifestyle then good luck to them!
Whatever butters your muffin
Whatever butters your muffin
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I think what m1970 was saying is he finds the wording of the ads rather than the lifestyle of the members is disgusting. I've read some ads which are very graphic in their detail and some I have found to be a bit degrading and a turn off. That said, it IS each to their own. I'm not into cream pies, gang bangs or playing without condoms but I understand and accept there are people who do and if that's their lifestyle then good luck to them!
Whatever butters your muffin
Maybe it's the wording but, no matter how often we read it, it seems to imply he finds 'gang bangs' disgusting. Seeing as his profile says he is into them it's just very odd.
Quote by flidais-media
I remember seeing an ad from a single fem advertising for "Pregnancy Risk Sex" :shock:
Trust that ad was deleted, that sounds like a seriously disturbed person? :shock:
I don't like these ads myself but just because someone wants to take risks or even get pregnant, I don't see why they are 'seriously disturbed'
Stupid yes but disturbed
Sex God
Quote by m1970
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
I think we are talking about a couple of different things here.....
I do find some of the ad's graphic... but there is a simple solution to that... if you find one you don't agree with... don't answer it... simple as that
If you think there is a problem with gangbangs then why have you put it down as one of the things you enjoy.... personally i am not a great fan of them, but nothing wrong with them at all
and the no condom fun.......well at least they are honest.....and we know who they are, i think the more worrying thing is the people who answer the ad knowing all the info, and we rarely get to find out who these people are......
sean xxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Dawn_Mids
I remember seeing an ad from a single fem advertising for "Pregnancy Risk Sex" :shock:
Trust that ad was deleted, that sounds like a seriously disturbed person? :shock:
I don't like these ads myself but just because someone wants to take risks or even get pregnant, I don't see why they are 'seriously disturbed'
Stupid yes but disturbed
Well, we all say each to his/her own, but trying to get pregnant from a swinging encounter?????? Guess it's how you define disturbed, but (and I am speaking with my 'professional hat' on now) it takes a certainly mentality to want to get pregnant that way but I would define it as 'disturbed'. Someone who places an ad like this has certain issues going on in their head and it wouldn't be right for someone looking for a 'quick shag' to exploit them when really they need counselling not shagging.
Quote by flidais-media
I remember seeing an ad from a single fem advertising for "Pregnancy Risk Sex" :shock:
Trust that ad was deleted, that sounds like a seriously disturbed person? :shock:
I don't like these ads myself but just because someone wants to take risks or even get pregnant, I don't see why they are 'seriously disturbed'
Stupid yes but disturbed
Well, we all say each to his/her own, but trying to get pregnant from a swinging encounter?????? Guess it's how you define disturbed, but (and I am speaking with my 'professional hat' on now) it takes a certainly mentality to want to get pregnant that way but I would define it as 'disturbed'. Someone who places an ad like this has certain issues going on in their head and it wouldn't be right for someone looking for a 'quick shag' to exploit them when really they need counselling not shagging.
You're presuming a person can get pregnant by this when they might just be living the fantasy of unprotected sex
Quote by Dawn_Mids
I remember seeing an ad from a single fem advertising for "Pregnancy Risk Sex" :shock:
Trust that ad was deleted, that sounds like a seriously disturbed person? :shock:
I don't like these ads myself but just because someone wants to take risks or even get pregnant, I don't see why they are 'seriously disturbed'
Stupid yes but disturbed
Well, we all say each to his/her own, but trying to get pregnant from a swinging encounter?????? Guess it's how you define disturbed, but (and I am speaking with my 'professional hat' on now) it takes a certainly mentality to want to get pregnant that way but I would define it as 'disturbed'. Someone who places an ad like this has certain issues going on in their head and it wouldn't be right for someone looking for a 'quick shag' to exploit them when really they need counselling not shagging.
You're presuming a person can get pregnant by this when they might just be living the fantasy of unprotected sex
True, but if all she wanted was 'unprotected', 'bareback' sex then why not advertise as such? :?
Sex God
I would ask yourself this question;
If we lived in a perfect world, without the risk of std's would you still find these ‘bareback’ activities disgusting?
If the answer is yes, you might want to re evaluate your reasons for being here. If however the answer is no, then maybe you need to be a little more tolerant about peoples preferences. There are people out there risking life and limb every day of the week, take mountaineering, pot holeing, <sp> bungee jumping and all the other extreme sports that cause death and mutilation on a regular basis.
I personally don’t like any of them, but I would never condemn those that take part because I understand that the thrill for them is in the risk.
As for sexual risk, definitely not my scene, give me a rubber shield every time, but as long as those taking part are honest and open about it, its their thing. not for me to condemn or otherwise.
I have to admit though that the wording in some of the adds does leave me a little cold, personally I prefer to leave the more graphic utterances to the bedroom :rascal: but as has been pointed out, I don’t have to answer them so its not really a problem.
If we lived in a perfect world, without the risk of std's would you still find these ‘bareback’ activities disgusting?
If the answer is yes, you might want to re evaluate your reasons for being here. If however the answer is no, then maybe you need to be a little more tolerant about peoples preferences. There are people out there risking life and limb every day of the week, take mountaineering, pot holeing, <sp> bungee jumping and all the other extreme sports that cause death and mutilation on a regular basis.
I personally don’t like any of them, but I would never condemn those that take part because I understand that the thrill for them is in the risk.
As for sexual risk, definitely not my scene, give me a rubber shield every time, but as long as those taking part are honest and open about it, its their thing.
not for me to condemn or otherwise.I have to admit though that the wording in some of the adds does leave me a little cold, personally I prefer to leave the more graphic utterances to the bedroom :rascal: but as has been pointed out, I don’t have to answer them so its not really a problem.
Quote by Pete_sw
I would ask yourself this question;
If we lived in a perfect world, without the risk of std's would you still find these ‘bareback’ activities disgusting?
If the answer is yes, you might want to re evaluate your reasons for being here. If however the answer is no, then maybe you need to be a little more tolerant about peoples preferences. There are people out there risking life and limb every day of the week, take mountaineering, pot holeing, <sp> bungee jumping and all the other extreme sports that cause death and mutilation on a regular basis.
I personally don’t like any of them, but I would never condemn those that take part because I understand that the thrill for them is in the risk.
As for sexual risk, definitely not my scene, give me a rubber shield every time, but as long as those taking part are honest and open about it, its their thing.
I have to admit though that the wording in some of the adds does leave me a little cold, personally I prefer to leave the more graphic utterances to the bedroom :rascal: but as has been pointed out, I don’t have to answer them so its not really a problem.
Exactly
Quote by flidais-media
True, but if all she wanted was 'unprotected', 'bareback' sex then why not advertise as such?
Why should they if its not their bag
Still doesn't make a person disturbed
Quote by Pete_sw
I would ask yourself this question;
If we lived in a perfect world, without the risk of std's would you still find these ‘bareback’ activities disgusting?
If the answer is yes, you might want to re evaluate your reasons for being here. If however the answer is no, then maybe you need to be a little more tolerant about peoples preferences. There are people out there risking life and limb every day of the week, take mountaineering, pot holeing, <sp> bungee jumping and all the other extreme sports that cause death and mutilation on a regular basis.
I personally don’t like any of them, but I would never condemn those that take part because I understand that the thrill for them is in the risk.
As for sexual risk, definitely not my scene, give me a rubber shield every time, but as long as those taking part are honest and open about it, its their thing. :dunno: not for me to condemn or otherwise.
I have to admit though that the wording in some of the adds does leave me a little cold, personally I prefer to leave the more graphic utterances to the bedroom :rascal: but as has been pointed out, I don’t have to answer them so its not really a problem.
Good post Pete
Quote by Dawn_Mids
True, but if all she wanted was 'unprotected', 'bareback' sex then why not advertise as such?
Why should they if its not their bag
Still doesn't make a person disturbed
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A person trying to get pregnant from a swinging advert (if that was the case) is pretty bloody disturbed to me :shock:
But quite clearly, from their post, and your suggestion that they may be doing it and not trying to get pregnant, they are asking for unprotected sex? I give up
Orgasminator
i find the most scary ads are the ones from obnoxious couples who like to talk down to single males in general,they clearly state that they will not tolerate single males at all then post the ad in the couples seeking men section :shock:
it always makes me chuckle/wreck the joint
it always makes me chuckle/wreck the joint
With regards to the STI issue of bareback - as raised earlier in this thread...
I would just like to comment that during the few times I have taken a look through some of the photo ads - it is apparent there are some people on there who would never be at risk of catching and STI if they never bought a condom in their life :grin:
I would just like to comment that during the few times I have taken a look through some of the photo ads - it is apparent there are some people on there who would never be at risk of catching and STI if they never bought a condom in their life :grin:
Sex God
Quote by m1970
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
Some might say that playing with a married man is playing with fire.
Each to their own, hmm?
Quote by freckledbird
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
Some might say that playing with a married man is playing with fire.
Each to their own, hmm?
You have an excellent eye for detail, well spotted
Shaz x
Sex God
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
Some might say that playing with a married man is playing with fire.
Each to their own, hmm?
You have an excellent eye for detail, well spotted
Shaz x
With all this free thinking what about when the two above combine and someones unsuspecting partner ends up with HIV?
Does that not matter as long as we were all free thinking?
Mr Tweeky
I may be free thinking but i am not mad !
Even meeting a new partner, one can't be sure . I myself have a checkup at the GUM clinic somtimes. I wonder if any one else bothers unless there is somthing wrong ?
In a way I wonder if people can't ever be certified free of STD ? I understand the Dutch have a system with "working girls " where they must have regular checkups , not cert, no job ? but in general I supose it would not work here if people are too lazy to even be bothered about their own health let alone others.
Even meeting a new partner, one can't be sure . I myself have a checkup at the GUM clinic somtimes. I wonder if any one else bothers unless there is somthing wrong ?
In a way I wonder if people can't ever be certified free of STD ? I understand the Dutch have a system with "working girls " where they must have regular checkups , not cert, no job ? but in general I supose it would not work here if people are too lazy to even be bothered about their own health let alone others.
Sex God
Quote by peenut
I may be free thinking but i am not mad !
Even meeting a new partner, one can't be sure . I myself have a checkup at the GUM clinic somtimes. I wonder if any one else bothers unless there is somthing wrong ?
I would say normaly we wouldent bother but we were both checked for STD's around 3 years ago due to an unrelated medical condition. As we havent swung in that time then ..... guess that makes us safe with each other.
Mr Tweeky
Quote by Pete_sw
There are people out there risking life and limb every day of the week, take mountaineering, pot holeing, <sp> bungee jumping and all the other extreme sports that cause death and mutilation on a regular basis.
I personally don’t like any of them, but I would never condemn those that take part because I understand that the thrill for them is in the risk.
The thing is though that if someone is injured doing one of the above activities, the only person who get's hurt is themselves. People who get "injured" (as in copping some pox or other) having unprotected sex risk harming a lot of other people and spreading more STD's throughout society, particularly if they are swingers. And whilst they may be upfront in their ads on here are they always going to mention to someone they cop off with in the real world that "hey, had a great gang bang last night, 5 guys shot their loads up me ,or wow, I went sloppy 32nd last night...."
