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I tried french kissing once but didn't like the garlic.............
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When we first started swinging I as the male half and 99% voyeur really didn't want to have my spouse kissing others, as Mrs cream says it seemed too intimate obscurely. After a little time I realised that seeing J kiss other fems was an interesting proposition so we discussed it and that was that fem on fem kissing was introduced. Good job too as its just a big bit of horny i think!
As time went on we discussed as one does and let the kissing become part of the couple play. Now I know people might think, but if kissing a bloke half of a couple is allowed why not single blokes? Well this is me Mr Lost's insecurity sort of through experience asking J not to kiss single guys. I'll try and explain why.
When first swinging we mainly entertained single guys and that was cool we met some really lovely men in doing so. One problem I found though being that i just watched was that i did use to get jealous. I'm not afraid to admit if during the play with single guys there was kissing and also whispering I'd be uncomfortable, i guess together with verbal exclusion of myself is a turn off for me. I might not be in the action but too me i'm still part of the 3sum even if its not physical.
I know it seems odd that i feel it ok for couples with J to kiss but inwardly i think to myself they are going home with each other. The experience of some single guys maybe being 'too' intimate and sort of trying to romance J a bit too much leaves me feeling awkward.
As its not an issue for J then its agreed that she doesn't kiss single guys. If it was then of course we would talk about it more. I think it all comes down to how we feel about ourselves and each other and coming to a satisfactory comfort point for both.
Does this read right? I think i might of just confused the issue coming across as hard on single guys i guess but hey if we met single fems the boundaries would be the same - no passion kissing sgl guys or women on meets.