This is something that has always been on the tip of my tongue on many occassions.
Have you ever had the erge to just blurt out to your chums that you swing?! Sometimes I just want to shock people and I last weekend I nearly did!
Or is it just me?!
- I will get my coat.
i couldn't keep it to myself any longer and, recently, i told a couple of friends, one my work mate, the other is a lifelong friend....we were talking about the weekend and when they asked me, i said i was having sex with a girl from Coventry....they said my wife would kill me if she found out so, looking as serious as i could i said..."no she won't..she was doing her husband"..after a while, when they were sure i was being honest, they both said more or less the same thing..."you lucky bastard"
i think people that know us, more or less have an idea, but only those two know for sure!
everyone close to me knows, as far as i am concerned, i am concerned i am not doing anything wrong so why should i hide it, many of my work colleagues know also, theres one or two on here anyway
nope would not go about telling people what i do......friends r friends..i don t want to play with them n not be friends no more....so keep them out of my knickers....
Our close friends know, and I told our neighbours a few months ago. They're close friends anyway- so it made sense. I'm convinced our eldest knows- she's baiting me to tell her, and I will sometime within the next few days.
Would just love to tell my father in law what his daughter and I get upto as he's a **** ans a born again Christian to boot!
And to think, I didn't think I could do fantasy.
I have told my vanilla friends and family what I get up to as I would die if they found out without hearing it from me first. Most of them were curious - if they judge me that's up to them.
i agree.
i only recently started showing my face on cam because i just thought sod it.
if people want to take the piss let with my family, i just dont care anymore what people think.
only the ones i meet are the ones that count.
of course we tell em, after all, all our friends are swingers,lol.
I told my neighbour today- she knew that we'd "swung" but today I told her I'd been in a 5 year poly-thing with a guy she's met on several occasions.
She was fab- but then I knew that anyway :inlove:
Everyone in my life knows......even my dad.
I don't swing because it is mysterious and secret. I swing because I only intend to be on this planet once..and I love sex. Sex with lots of different people is good fun. I see no reason to deprive myself of fun that doesn't hurt anyone.
Worlass agrees with me.. so it is all good. x
i dont have "friends" as such, never really understood the concept, way to much like hard work lol
however i do have people i work with and people iv known over the years for various reasons
but no..... i would never tell any of them im a swinger !