Do you tell your friends.........

12 Dec 2009

This is something that has always been on the tip of my tongue on many occassions.
Have you ever had the erge to just blurt out to your chums that you swing?! Sometimes I just want to shock people and I last weekend I nearly did!
Or is it just me?!
- I will get my coat.

12 Dec 2009

i couldn't keep it to myself any longer and, recently, i told a couple of friends, one my work mate, the other is a lifelong friend....we were talking about the weekend and when they asked me, i said i was having sex with a girl from Coventry....they said my wife would kill me if she found out so, looking as serious as i could i said..."no she won't..she was doing her husband"..after a while, when they were sure i was being honest, they both said more or less the same thing..."you lucky bastard"
i think people that know us, more or less have an idea, but only those two know for sure!

12 Dec 2009

everyone close to me knows, as far as i am concerned, i am concerned i am not doing anything wrong so why should i hide it, many of my work colleagues know also, theres one or two on here anyway

12 Dec 2009

nope would not go about telling people what i do......friends r friends..i don t want to play with them n not be friends no more....so keep them out of my knickers....

12 Dec 2009

Not many people know, but we are lucky in that we have new friends now in the swinging world who we can chat to about things in general. lol

12 Dec 2009

Our close friends know, and I told our neighbours a few months ago. They're close friends anyway- so it made sense. I'm convinced our eldest knows- she's baiting me to tell her, and I will sometime within the next few days.

12 Dec 2009

Would just love to tell my father in law what his daughter and I get upto as he's a **** ans a born again Christian to boot!
And to think, I didn't think I could do fantasy.

13 Dec 2009

I have told my vanilla friends and family what I get up to as I would die if they found out without hearing it from me first. Most of them were curious - if they judge me that's up to them.

13 Dec 2009

i agree.
i only recently started showing my face on cam because i just thought sod it.
if people want to take the piss let with my family, i just dont care anymore what people think.
only the ones i meet are the ones that count.

13 Dec 2009

of course we tell em, after all, all our friends are swingers,lol.

13 Dec 2009

I told my neighbour today- she knew that we'd "swung" but today I told her I'd been in a 5 year poly-thing with a guy she's met on several occasions.
She was fab- but then I knew that anyway :inlove:

13 Dec 2009

Everyone in my life knows......even my dad.
I don't swing because it is mysterious and secret. I swing because I only intend to be on this planet once..and I love sex. Sex with lots of different people is good fun. I see no reason to deprive myself of fun that doesn't hurt anyone.
Worlass agrees with me.. so it is all good. x

13 Dec 2009

Quote by splendid_
Everyone in my life knows......even my dad.
I don't swing because it is mysterious and secret. I swing because I only intend to be on this planet once..and I love sex. Sex with lots of different people is good fun. I see no reason to deprive myself of fun that doesn't hurt anyone.
Worlass agrees with me.. so it is all good. x

You need to change that mattress then... innocent

13 Dec 2009

Quote by Witchy
Everyone in my life knows......even my dad.
I don't swing because it is mysterious and secret. I swing because I only intend to be on this planet once..and I love sex. Sex with lots of different people is good fun. I see no reason to deprive myself of fun that doesn't hurt anyone.
Worlass agrees with me.. so it is all good. x

You need to change that mattress then... innocent

not funny.

14 Dec 2009

i dont have "friends" as such, never really understood the concept, way to much like hard work lol
however i do have people i work with and people iv known over the years for various reasons
but no..... i would never tell any of them im a swinger !

14 Dec 2009

I told my best friend a cpl of years back and she was gutted she had been missing out lol

She also had a go of it herself but after about 6 months decided it wasn't for her as she wanted to meet a partner possibly who she will be with for the rest of her life. It caused a bit of a drift and a few arguments because she expected me to stop just coz she had :-? So I don't bother talking about it any more and if I do decide to meet, which these days is rare, I just keep it to myself.
Lil x

14 Dec 2009

a guy a worked with guessed but we r very close and he has done similar during his life so i suppose he picked up on it he told a friend of his whilst we were on a night out and she was cool about it but they spent the night pokin fun at me with mr bouncy givin them the amunition to do so smackbottom

my nickname is now casper lol

i have often wanted to say to other friends especially when mr b sends a txt about it that makes me giggle and they ask what i'm gigglin about i would love to tell the truth just to see their faces :lol: i don't as mr b is a much more private person than me and he would b horrified if i did he was only cool with my other friend cause he is of a very similar mind set to us
i think my mum and step-dad know as step-dad was using our puter one day and i saw him lookin at our history he left the cursor highlighting a swinging site and made a comment about not opening it as he wouldn't wanna embarrass me i just laughed n carried on talking to my mum hoping he would think nothin of it but i'm sure they put 2 n 2 together although not bothered as i know they would b ok with it i just don't see why i should tell um outright i mean i don't wanna hear about their sex life so y would they wanna hear about ours