Do you think about swinging before other leisure persuits?

4 Feb 2008

I can't help it nowadays. It seems as though if we have a few spare hours or so to kill, we think about spending it with our swinging buddies, not necessarily swinging, maybe just socialising. Rather than doing stuff we might of done pre-swinging. I'm certainly not complaining the time spent is precious to us. Just musing over how things have changed socially since swinging.

4 Feb 2008

We do a mix of the two, we've more vanilla friends than swinging friends, but to be fair our swinging friends are or can be vanilla friends also - depending on whether you play or how you want to interpret it.
But swinging has to come second in our lives to be honest we do more as a couple and family than swinging.

4 Feb 2008

So swinging isnt a myth then?

4 Feb 2008

Quote by helnheaven
So swinging isnt a myth then?

4 Feb 2008

Quote by Lost
I can't help it nowadays. It seems as though if we have a few spare hours or so to kill, we think about spending it with our swinging buddies, not necessarily swinging, maybe just socialising. Rather than doing stuff we might of done pre-swinging. I'm certainly not complaining the time spent is precious to us. Just musing over how things have changed socially since swinging.

i have to say if i had the chance to go out drinking with swinging friends or 'vanilla' friends id choose swinging ones every time, and i do just mean drinking, i just find it more relaxed you can say what you like and don't have to mind everything you say lol

4 Feb 2008

That is a huge bonus. To the extent that I try to let all the people that matter to us in on our secret....if it's possible.
It's no fun living a lie with your friends.

4 Feb 2008

Quote by naughtynymphos1
i have to say if i had the chance to go out drinking with swinging friends or 'vanilla' friends id choose swinging ones every time, and i do just mean drinking, i just find it more relaxed you can say what you like and don't have to mind everything you say lol

Same here, even if it is only to do vanilla activities, we often find that our swinging friends are much more open and you can (normally) say exactly what you want and not be worried about mentioning something you shouldnt.
Swinging is definately not the most important thing to us, but the friends we have met through the lifestyle and the site are very, very important.

5 Feb 2008

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

i have to say if i had the chance to go out drinking with swinging friends or 'vanilla' friends id choose swinging ones every time, and i do just mean drinking, i just find it more relaxed you can say what you like and don't have to mind everything you say lol

Same here, even if it is only to do vanilla activities, we often find that our swinging friends are much more open and you can (normally) say exactly what you want and not be worried about mentioning something you shouldnt.
Swinging is definately not the most important thing to us, but the friends we have met through the lifestyle and the site are very, very important.
I think we feel the same generally. The difference is that in our 'without the children' social time, I think we actively seek the company of swinging mates as opposed to vanilla ones because of the freedom it brings with it.

5 Feb 2008

Any night's off we have now, we certainly do think about swinging situation's first :twisted: but we also have a lot of friends and family that we socialise with so its not always possible to get away.
louise xx