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Do you think it is time that SH was cleaned up?

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Do you think it is time that SH was cleaned up?

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hey where did you find the key? :shock:

In Sarge's undies where its always kept confused :? :?
If only you knew what we have to go through at times in ere!! rolleyes
You were brave enough to raid his undies??? :shock:
Now scrub your hands! :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I think accounts that have not been used for X months (6/12) should not be included in the "members" statistic - as it stands, it would appear the 1.5% of the UK population are members of SH! lol (I suppose stranger things could happen)
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what for ?

For the same reason you don't count dead people in the UK population! lol
I suspect the number of "active members" is substantially different to the number of "registered members".
I don't think accounts should be deleted, people dissapear from places for all sorts of reasons only to resurface at a later point, just the "members" statistic tweaked to reflect reality, whatever that is.
......sorry Six we meant .......why bother deleting them. We could give a s8%t about the stats lol
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......sorry Six we meant .......why bother deleting them. We could give a s8%t about the stats lol

Ahh! lol. Me neither, but I did chuckle when I signed up and saw nearly a million members - took it with a pinch of salt and made my own mind up from looking at the forums first!
there were three million originally Six. Then there was the great "Commercialisation Controversy" so that left two million. The other million were killed when Frecklebird baked a cake once for one of the mass munches.
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there were three million originally Six. Then there was the great "Commercialisation Controversy" so that left two million. The other million were killed when Frecklebird baked a cake once for one of the mass munches.

Oi! Cheeky bugger smackbottom My cakes are lovely, I'll have you know! biggrin
....sorry Frecks............I heard you were very keen on sprinkles, but I was told that was more to do with Buk kakes than Fruit kakes :-)
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....sorry Frecks............I heard you were very keen on sprinkles, but I was told that was more to do with Buk kakes than Fruit kakes :-)

Groannnnn - that was really really bad, G. lol
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there were three million originally Six. Then there was the great "Commercialisation Controversy" so that left two million. The other million were killed when Frecklebird baked a cake once for one of the mass munches.

Oi! Cheeky bugger smackbottom My cakes are lovely, I'll have you know! biggrin
don't know about that, but your meat was as tender as owt! lol
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....sorry Frecks............I heard you were very keen on sprinkles, but I was told that was more to do with Buk kakes than Fruit kakes :-)

Groannnnn - that was really really bad, G. lol
Hey I dont write the stuff......
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there were three million originally Six. Then there was the great "Commercialisation Controversy" so that left two million. The other million were killed when Frecklebird baked a cake once for one of the mass munches.

Oi! Cheeky bugger smackbottom My cakes are lovely, I'll have you know! biggrin
don't know about that, but your meat was as tender as owt! lol
That sounds rude!
Well, it did to me anyway redface
I can verify FB makes good cakes.... biggrin
Male and female ones wink
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exceedingly ?

Of course - I don't do anything in half measures! wink
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exceedingly ?

Of course.................
(ohh is it piccy time?)
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exceedingly ?

Of course.................
(ohh is it piccy time?)
Oooooooo yes!
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exceedingly ?

Of course.................
(ohh is it piccy time?)
Oooooooo yes!
They are in the thank you thread, but the search button hates me!!
72 % said yes
27 % said no
For those people who choose not to log in when browsing the forums lol
Dunno about the forum but I just cleaned out my saved messages and my friends list!
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Dunno about the forum but I just cleaned out my saved messages and my friends list!

I bet that took ages. Being so fluffy I bet you had loads of saved messages bolt
Dave_Notts
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Dunno about the forum but I just cleaned out my saved messages and my friends list!

I bet that took ages. Being so fluffy I bet you had loads of saved messages bolt
Dave_Notts
I did. I only have twelve now. biggrin
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Dunno about the forum but I just cleaned out my saved messages and my friends list!

I bet that took ages. Being so fluffy I bet you had loads of saved messages bolt
Dave_Notts
:giggle:
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72 % said yes
27 % said no
For those people who choose not to log in when browsing the forums lol

Is that 72% of all the 921,771 members? :lol:
dunno is it getting a clean up then?
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dunno is it getting a clean up then?
xx fem x

Probably not
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dunno is it getting a clean up then?
xx fem x

Probably not
I think I said earlier in the thread.... you show me how long is too long, and i'll show you a member that has come back after that period...... wink
and who gets to play god and sets the time limit, i am sure if someone said a year, people would complain it wasn't two..... if it was two, then people would complain it wasn't three.....
just because someone circumstance changes, or they decide to take extended time out, I don't see why they should be penalised..... I like to think of the door being permanently left open for those who may want to return.... rather than closing it on people who may of had an interest......
if you want to meet someone... the ads are in order of those who took the decision to update there add's... so you do know who is online and who has been........can I ask why that is not good enough?
just me liking things tidy i guess?
i know peopletake a breck from internet/swinging etc but im sorry i thinkleaving the door forever open is daft. if this is purely about pre takeover members keeping the free membership then i kinda feel that it was given to those who were making an active contribution as they made the site worth buying and people joining ? so if someone just happened to join 316 weeks ago cuse it was free, couldnt get the quick free shag left after a week never to return, cant even remember they ever came here then why should they come back and for free?
those who did pay and left? well whats the issue they will have to re pay so why not just re join.? the user name might be gone? well membership doesnt issue patents to user names, tough they left get a new name.
if the time a member has been a member is a signal to some as they must be ok and genuine swingers , but in truth they came here after a row with teh partner had another row, etc and have poped back then it gives a misguided impression.
sorry alot of ramballings and i know we can serch in date preference etc etc but ffs why keep sh towers clogged up?
to make membership numbers look good? personally id be more inclined if i joined now to stay if once here i saw a honest reprensentation of the ture members ship numbers than some fabricated total to lure me in.
i think 52 weeks is far from long enough. in fact to long. if when you joined you were informed accounts left inactive for longer than 20 weeks and it gets put into hibernation and must be reactivated within 20 weeks from that date or deactivated and closed then fair enough.
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The commercial owners must be in a bit of a quandry as to what to do really.
1) Clearing out the dead wood will mean that any of the 'old' members who joined when it was free would have to re-join as paid members if they came back which is good for the coffers.
BUT
2) Clearing out that much dead wood would have the effect of reducing the perceived commercial value of the Site at a stroke by reducing the membership numbers by about 80% if not more (just a guess).
To be fair - if it was me, I think I would probably maintain the status quo as I doubt that there would be that many who left a free site who would then pay to come back and there will always be a steady stream of new comers.
It is no big deal for anyone anyway is it? If you place ads - only active Members will answer and if you look at ads, just look on the profile as to when they were last on line. That way the Site stays current for your purposes.