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Do younger men prefer older women?

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My son who is 15 has a few friends that are no longer allowed around the house (by him) because they fancy me. I am 21 years older than them.
I asked my son why they would find me attractive and he says it is because they anticipate that I would be able to 'show them what to do' :shock:
I personally am uninterested in men that message me and say 'I love older women' as though my age is my sole attractive quality.
I find people attractive and their age is irrelevant to me. I want to be found attractive by people with the same outlook.
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Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol

Easier? :shock: lol
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. :lol:
I thought that they would be easier to get into bed! lol
I was 18 and very naive so don't judge me to harshly!
I am not judging, you just make me feel old and desperate rolleyes :lol:
Well i don't think that anymore!
Also it doesn't matter what other people think of you either
Then why does it feel like it does matter when people tell you you're too old for them to entertain the idea of playing with you sad It's bad enough reading "We will not reply if you're over 40 etc." I am not decrepit compared to 6 months ago when I was still under 40 :roll: Their loss I guess wink
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it's also true, more often than not, that girls their age look up to slightly more mature guys..meaning they have to do the same or fight to the death over the "few" girls that are actually interested in guys of their own age group.
of course it's not always true..but often enough to create the idea that competition is less fierce if you look for older ladies.

melting pot are you trying to say the older woman is more grateful!!
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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it's also true, more often than not, that girls their age look up to slightly more mature guys..meaning they have to do the same or fight to the death over the "few" girls that are actually interested in guys of their own age group.
of course it's not always true..but often enough to create the idea that competition is less fierce if you look for older ladies.

melting pot are you trying to say the older woman is more grateful!!
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
oh oh no win answer to this run away.... bolt
rotflmao :rotflmao:
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it's also true, more often than not, that girls their age look up to slightly more mature guys..meaning they have to do the same or fight to the death over the "few" girls that are actually interested in guys of their own age group.
of course it's not always true..but often enough to create the idea that competition is less fierce if you look for older ladies.

melting pot are you trying to say the older woman is more grateful!!
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
oh oh no win answer to this run away.... bolt
rotflmao :rotflmao:
rofl.. nope..what I am saying is that there's more of them around, and they're not adverse to a bit of "young meat", whereas the girls of the younger group quite often look for older guys.. :lol:
*takes to the hills