My son who is 15 has a few friends that are no longer allowed around the house (by him) because they fancy me. I am 21 years older than them.
I asked my son why they would find me attractive and he says it is because they anticipate that I would be able to 'show them what to do' :shock:
I personally am uninterested in men that message me and say 'I love older women' as though my age is my sole attractive quality.
I find people attractive and their age is irrelevant to me. I want to be found attractive by people with the same outlook.