Being a possibly older women at around mid 40's, I found my time on sh when looking for meets a lot of younger guys saying they prefer the older woman.
I am not being funny but I don't have the perfect body, a few stretch marks here and there and tell tale signs of having 3 children, surely younger unblemished woman would be more appealing to look at than a middle aged older woman like me.
I am very comfortable within my own body I suppose in my own way can be very sexy, but I really don't find myself sexy to look at, I was luck enough to have met guys that I felt found me sexy with the flaws and we are still friends without the sex.
So what is the attracting of the older woman?
This is something that I did wonder about in my times of meeting.
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Do younger men prefer older women?
Quote by Sexonfire
It's not necessarily looks that does it (for me) it's confidence in what you want, what your doing and confidence in yourself.
I love older women!
I do in my case believe confidence comes with age, I can not answer for everyone when I say that. But I have also found that is true with the older man too, in most cases, it is all knowing how to please and what the other enjoys without having to ask.
Whether that is confidence or just experience that comes with age I don’t know.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
It's not necessarily looks that does it (for me) it's confidence in what you want, what your doing and confidence in yourself.
I love older women!
I do in my case believe confidence comes with age, I can not answer for everyone when I say that. But I have also found that is true with the older man too, in most cases, it is all knowing how to please and what the other enjoys without having to ask.
Whether that is confidence or just experience that comes with age I don’t know.
I'd say experience, i was in a relationship with an older woman for a few years and i learned a lot! i'd say that i know how to please a woman because of that relationship.... but you'll have to take my word for that! lol
Sex God
As an 'older' woman I would not want a too younger male, as it just does not sit right with me. (30 + for me please)
But each to their own.
But each to their own.
I much prefer sex with older women but although its a terrible burden I regard it as my duty to society to educate younger women.
Seriously though, I think its perfectly natural for either sex to find experienced lovers attractive for obvious reasons. That said I've had lovers of my age who were terribly disappointing just as I've had younger partners who blew my socks off.
Seriously though, I think its perfectly natural for either sex to find experienced lovers attractive for obvious reasons. That said I've had lovers of my age who were terribly disappointing just as I've had younger partners who blew my socks off.
Speaking as a student of the mature female form I absolutely adore the fuller figure mature lady. Most ouze confidence and sex. Perhaps a little off the subject here being young 50's but there is perhaps another issue that no one has yet mentioned. If you are both agreeable to 'no condoms' then the risk of pregnancy is almost negligible as opposed to an 'accident' with a younger fertile lady. I have used condoms in the past when asked to but as always it destroys the spontaneity of enjoying those wonderfully intimate moments with a partner who has so much to give and teach.
Sex God
Older or younger does not matter, but mature, yes I like mature.
Travis
on the other hand if they throw themselves at me
Travis
on the other hand if they throw themselves at me
Sex God
Quote by benrums0n
I much prefer sex with older women but although its a terrible burden I regard it as my duty to society to educate younger women.
Seriously though, I think its perfectly natural for either sex to find experienced lovers attractive for obvious reasons. That said I've had lovers of my age who were terribly disappointing just as I've had younger partners who blew my socks off.
Benrums!!! you disappoint me
you mean to say you kept your socks on :shock: 
Sex God
I'm a younger woman at home :smug: but I've just realized I've always been "the older" woman when we meet 
Quote by Reacher359
Men don't actually care, as long as it has a pulse...lol. the rest i.e prefer older/younger etc is just saying whatever it takes to get what they want.
You mean we are meant to check for a pulse.... :shock:
And I thought they were just on the quiet side :doh:
And the smell??
I don't know why this happens..but I seem to only meet women between the ages of 32 and 36.
I don't especially seek them out..it just seems to happen that way.
honestly, I would not be adverse to meeting women in their 20's...but it just doesn't seem to happen
I'm not sure I'd push the "upper limit" much further than 36-37 though..
I don't especially seek them out..it just seems to happen that way.
honestly, I would not be adverse to meeting women in their 20's...but it just doesn't seem to happen
I'm not sure I'd push the "upper limit" much further than 36-37 though..
Quote by Sexonfire
Men don't actually care, as long as it has a pulse...lol. the rest i.e prefer older/younger etc is just saying whatever it takes to get what they want.
You mean we are meant to check for a pulse.... :shock:
And I thought they were just on the quiet side :doh:
And the smell??
Channel No. 5
Quote by Reacher359
Men don't actually care, as long as it has a pulse...lol. the rest i.e prefer older/younger etc is just saying whatever it takes to get what they want.
You mean we are meant to check for a pulse.... :shock:
And I thought they were just on the quiet side :doh:
And the smell??
Channel No. 5
That works?... i'm making notes
Quote by Sexonfire
Men don't actually care, as long as it has a pulse...lol. the rest i.e prefer older/younger etc is just saying whatever it takes to get what they want.
You mean we are meant to check for a pulse.... :shock:
And I thought they were just on the quiet side :doh:
And the smell??
Channel No. 5
That works?... i'm making notes
Make sure there in the right postion before rigger mortis sets in
Sex God
Quote by Mr-Powers
Younger men assume older women are easier,because they expect older women want younger men!
I am glad you said that... because I have been trying to think of a way of saying that for the last 48hrs without offending anyone....
sometimes I think they think there is too much "competition", for want of a better word, at there own age.. or lack of numbers where there does tend to be more if there look "older"
plus for some i am sure there some older woman/mummy complex thing... but not touching that one with a bargepole... :shock:
it's also true, more often than not, that girls their age look up to slightly more mature guys..meaning they have to do the same or fight to the death over the "few" girls that are actually interested in guys of their own age group.
of course it's not always true..but often enough to create the idea that competition is less fierce if you look for older ladies.
of course it's not always true..but often enough to create the idea that competition is less fierce if you look for older ladies.
Quote by fabio
Younger men assume older women are easier,because they expect older women want younger men!
I am glad you said that... because I have been trying to think of a way of saying that for the last 48hrs without offending anyone....
sometimes I think they think there is too much "competition", for want of a better word, at there own age.. or lack of numbers where there does tend to be more if there look "older"
plus for some i am sure there some older woman/mummy complex thing... but not touching that one with a bargepole... :shock:
i love my mum
wait.. what?
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
Quote by Sexonfire
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
Easier? :shock:
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. :lol:
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
Easier? :shock:
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. :lol:
I thought that they would be easier to get into bed! lol
I was 18 and very naive so don't judge me to harshly!
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
Easier? :shock:
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. :lol:/quote]
Oh, yes, go for it Minxy...will watch that one with interest!!
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
Easier? :shock:
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. :lol:/quote]
Oh, yes, go for it Minxy...will watch that one with interest!!
Quote by Sexonfire
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
Easier? :shock:
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. :lol:
I thought that they would be easier to get into bed! lol
I was 18 and very naive so don't judge me to harshly!
I am not judging, you just make me feel old and desperate
:lol: Quote by Theladyisaminx
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol
Easier? :shock:
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. :lol:
I thought that they would be easier to get into bed! lol
I was 18 and very naive so don't judge me to harshly!
I am not judging, you just make me feel old and desperate
:lol:Well i don't think that anymore!
Also it doesn't matter what other people think of you either
I suppose I have to now admit to being an "older woman"!! As the big 5-0 draws ever close I have thought about what I look for in a man. I have always gone for the younger man; my ex was 11 years younger than me. But then I have always felt younger and my outlook on life is much the same as when I was in my 20's.
It used to be that the only males that turned my head were quite a lot younger than me buy I do now look at those my own age. However I have still not been attracted to many in their 50s but part of that would involve the acknowledgement of my own ageing!!
I do think confidence has a lot to do with attraction and the more mature women know what she wants and usually won't hesitate to ask for it! We don't have time to waste!!
Wench x
It used to be that the only males that turned my head were quite a lot younger than me buy I do now look at those my own age. However I have still not been attracted to many in their 50s but part of that would involve the acknowledgement of my own ageing!!
I do think confidence has a lot to do with attraction and the more mature women know what she wants and usually won't hesitate to ask for it! We don't have time to waste!!
Wench x
