Does anyone ever meet up or is it all just fantasy

I met two lovely couples from here and become regulars with one of them but seems to be getting harder. Especially after lockdown, even messages are nothing more than hi , how r u? 

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something worth remembering ..

 Yes you certainly did read it right.     

I am a single paying female who hasn't been on here long (just over a month). I'm inundated with messages from straight guys asking, 'would you like to meet up'..... / would you like me to come over when you're available. The amount of men who have bailed on me when l've just bought the idea up in conversation, l've lost count. I know there are good genuine people out there and have the honour of chatting with someone who is. 

l'm sure there are plenty more out of you out there who are 'decent' maybe are paths may cross one day.

I would certainly like to think so Thomas1934, maybe the decent are more decadent but don't give up, you will hear the hoof beats as your knight in shining armour comes over the hill.

Thomas1934, Do not feel pressured by anyone. Go at your own pace and only with people you feel comfortable with and those that respect your boundaries. Over the years I have met some lovely people on here. Some that remain firm friends to this day.

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I am a single paying female who hasn't been on here long (just over a month). I'm inundated with messages from straight guys asking, 'would you like to meet up'..... / would you like me to come over when you're available. The amount of men who have bailed on me when l've just bought the idea up in conversation, l've lost count. I know there are good genuine people out there and have the honour of chatting with someone who is. 
l'm sure there are plenty more out of you out there who are 'decent' maybe are paths may cross one day.

 Clubs like eureka (an example in Kent) are good for meeting genuine people and if you want to play.

Thankyou all so far, (Oldflame/ Scotchlander/ Snuffles) for your points of view.

I would like to emphasise that it's just bought into the conversation, in a friendly context noth

l'm not comfortable with the idea of going to clubs.... to meet people such as Eureka... at the moment or may never,  who knows???

I've just started out and treading water....

Thomas1934 

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Thankyou all so far, (Oldflame/ Scotchlander/ Snuffles) for your points of view.

Thomas1934 

Well, we hope you find a way to engage you are comfortable with. Its not easy to get into (it wasnt for me even with my partners help) but it is lots of fun when you meet the right people and there are a great array of different interests and perspectives that swinging allows you to explore and there are, if you look hard enough, great people who will help you explore yours further. Best of luck. Sammy and Will

relax thomcat good things happen to good people. x

Thankyou.

It's was just part of a conversation nothing intended not on my part. I personally feel It's part a process of getting to know people, how fast they are (if they are) wanting to move and if l'm comfortable with it too, l have to be extremely cautious as being a single lady .....

Now, l've been on here a little longer. I'm starting to notice a 'pattern'. I'm sussing 'certain' things out and staying clear off. 

People's profiles are certianly intriguing..... That's another debate in itself, something l may put a post up on. 

Once again l'd like to thank 

Snuffles87 and asmjff for your points of view it's appreciated.

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Thank you osm for the tip on privacy as well I didn't realize any of that..

 I done that from the moment l joined. 

I see it as the 'red print' that nobody reads, as many other things in life.

Stay safe

asmjff

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Thankyou all so far, (Oldflame/ Scotchlander/ Snuffles) for your points of view.
I would like to emphasise that it's just bought into the conversation, in a friendly context noth
l'm not comfortable with the idea of going to clubs.... to meet people such as Eureka... at the moment or may never,  who knows???
I've just started out and treading water....
Thomas1934 

 Ensure you meet in a place you know and is in the public domain with people so if you need to exit stage left you can easily. If they are any sort of gentleman they should realise this from the start. I will keep banging on about SAFETY, SAFETY. I have heard a couple of horror stories from up north.