I have been a member of this site for a good few months now...and not once have i had a reply to any of my adverts.
All i am after is a woman who can give me NSA sexual fun and friendship...surely that isn't too much to ask.
I have not posted a pic but have stated i will send them one direct.
Am i doing something wrong?..does anyone else get contacted?
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Quote by m8ty
I have been a member of this site for a good few months now...and not once have i had a reply to any of my adverts.
All i am after is a woman who can give me NSA sexual fun and friendship...surely that isn't too much to ask.
I have not posted a pic but have stated i will send them one direct.
Am i doing something wrong?..does anyone else get contacted?
Yes, the ads work.
Yes, people do reply to the good ads.
Yes, it is too much to ask for NSA sex
No, you haven't been a member on here for months. You may have ads running for months, but it's not the same. You definitely need to work on your ads. They look like they probably wouldn't work, but to be honest, i'm not going to re-write them for you.
People get to know people in these forums and invites come from there. But patience is required, a lot of patience. If you don't have any, go no further.
Mal
Sex God
TBH I don't have any kind of advert at all and I've had plenty of offers.
Unfortunately (as it says in my sig) I don't indulge with anyone but countess. (shameless flirt and that's it. Sorry).
So to answer your question, yes the adverts work for certain groups, BUT as a single bloke you can increase your chances by spending time getting involved in the site and talking to people.
If you're after some high-speed relief I recommend a massage parlour. Most towns and cities have them now.
Unfortunately (as it says in my sig) I don't indulge with anyone but countess. (shameless flirt and that's it. Sorry).
So to answer your question, yes the adverts work for certain groups, BUT as a single bloke you can increase your chances by spending time getting involved in the site and talking to people.
If you're after some high-speed relief I recommend a massage parlour. Most towns and cities have them now.
Sex God
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TBH I don't have any kind of advert at all and I've had plenty of offers.
Dont listen to him.....me and Mal's donkey don't add up to plenty.
Sex God
dammit i really need to get used to refresh buttons and actually submitting on the right bleedin' thread!
only MHO, but if you want to swing, the ads are the last place i'd look! i only go there to update my ad, in case anyones ever interested enough to go for a perv cos of other things i do on the site. browse and fire off replies? i couldn't tell you the last time i did that! have i ever had a single reply actually through my ad??? no! that's not to say the site doesn't work! it can be quite successful after 10 months and a 1000 posts, but there you have it! ;-)
in my experience it doesn't work like that, because single m's so over dominate, and chase the few girlie advertisers like mad! 300 replies a week? how many pages of men seeking women? how you gonna stand out? i know it works for some, but most of the "regular" ads are there to show willing, and give extra info to people who've come to know you throught the rest of the site! the actual meets tend to come from other parts of the site, for a single m like me anyways! very much IMHO, in my experience, which is limited!
is there a confusion between swinging and random sex? i think so! very much IMHO once again, but there it is! but then we've all been there mate!
neil x x x
neil ;-)
only MHO, but if you want to swing, the ads are the last place i'd look! i only go there to update my ad, in case anyones ever interested enough to go for a perv cos of other things i do on the site. browse and fire off replies? i couldn't tell you the last time i did that! have i ever had a single reply actually through my ad??? no! that's not to say the site doesn't work! it can be quite successful after 10 months and a 1000 posts, but there you have it! ;-)
in my experience it doesn't work like that, because single m's so over dominate, and chase the few girlie advertisers like mad! 300 replies a week? how many pages of men seeking women? how you gonna stand out? i know it works for some, but most of the "regular" ads are there to show willing, and give extra info to people who've come to know you throught the rest of the site! the actual meets tend to come from other parts of the site, for a single m like me anyways! very much IMHO, in my experience, which is limited!
is there a confusion between swinging and random sex? i think so! very much IMHO once again, but there it is! but then we've all been there mate!
neil x x x
neil ;-)
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I echo the theme of posts above..........
I do not have an advert, my intention was not the “get a quick shag†more of a “make some friends and see what happens†approach.
However, I have had maybe about 10 offers in the short time I have been here…. and am in the process of building on the early stages of what could turn into good friendships. I have also taken a few offers up and met and had a brilliant time...........
So…. Yes it happens, Yes it happens here, Yes it has happened to me, Yes you are asking to much (in my opinion) for NSA Sex from just an advert…..
This has been said time and time again…… put in the leg work and you will get results.
This site is the sum of what you contribute, the results that you get from it will be commensurate to the effort youput in!
I do not have an advert, my intention was not the “get a quick shag†more of a “make some friends and see what happens†approach.
However, I have had maybe about 10 offers in the short time I have been here…. and am in the process of building on the early stages of what could turn into good friendships. I have also taken a few offers up and met and had a brilliant time...........
So…. Yes it happens, Yes it happens here, Yes it has happened to me, Yes you are asking to much (in my opinion) for NSA Sex from just an advert…..
This has been said time and time again…… put in the leg work and you will get results.
This site is the sum of what you contribute, the results that you get from it will be commensurate to the effort youput in!
Click here for a spectacular result
and PS - yes, this site works!
and PS - yes, this site works!
Sex God
Quote by Frogster
This site is the sum of what you contribute, the results that you get from it will be commensurate to the effort you put in!
damn good line!
i sooooo need to get the hang of this succinct thing eh! that equally applies to the non-swinging, just here for a laugh and a social type thing! but that's another issue . . . . . ;-)
neil x x x ;-)
Sex God
i suppose i would be another success story from the ads here.... not got an ad of my own , but look thru then and if i find someone i feel partically feels so then maybe i will send an e-mail,
but for the main part i am on the forums... i have met lovely people here and had many fun experiences....but i took the time to learn about them and hopefully they learn from me as well
i am with neil in the fact that not enough single men know the difference between random sex and swinging... as you can tell in the "lets meet up" section.... if you are in it for NSA sex only then you may as well leave, it is not that type of place.....you will find that people will swing with Friends....and would you really want to go with someone you don't know......
so take time.... get to know people... be friend and the result will be a million times better than you could imagine....
sean xxxxxxxx
but for the main part i am on the forums... i have met lovely people here and had many fun experiences....but i took the time to learn about them and hopefully they learn from me as well
i am with neil in the fact that not enough single men know the difference between random sex and swinging... as you can tell in the "lets meet up" section.... if you are in it for NSA sex only then you may as well leave, it is not that type of place.....you will find that people will swing with Friends....and would you really want to go with someone you don't know......
so take time.... get to know people... be friend and the result will be a million times better than you could imagine....
sean xxxxxxxx
Sex God
Quote by neilinleeds
This site is the sum of what you contribute, the results that you get from it will be commensurate to the effort you put in!
damn good line!
From you Neil, that is praise indeed, I thank you Sir!
Sex God
m8ty~
I have to say that Vix & I have been so impressed by the level of response we've received from the photo ads we posted just over a month ago, we've lost count! And, to their credit, there were only and handful of one-liners and most everyone seemed to read and understand what we were looking for. So far, we've responded favourably to only about a half dozen of these, but we do make it a point to send everyone else a simple "thanks, but no thanks" letter to let them know we appreciate their interest and that they're not forgotten (and often get further replies from these thanking us for the kind, albeit negative, reply). Of the six or so that we'd pursued further via e-mail, three of our correspondents ultimately dropped by Glasters for a face-2-face meet...and we ended up hitting it off and taking two of them to bed with us. For all the horror and disappointment stories we've heard, our experience with the photo ads here has been nothing but positive...
Cheers,
~Reese!
P.S. ...ever consider "going bi-", m8ty?! Could raise your chances here exponentially! ;) :P
I have to say that Vix & I have been so impressed by the level of response we've received from the photo ads we posted just over a month ago, we've lost count! And, to their credit, there were only and handful of one-liners and most everyone seemed to read and understand what we were looking for. So far, we've responded favourably to only about a half dozen of these, but we do make it a point to send everyone else a simple "thanks, but no thanks" letter to let them know we appreciate their interest and that they're not forgotten (and often get further replies from these thanking us for the kind, albeit negative, reply). Of the six or so that we'd pursued further via e-mail, three of our correspondents ultimately dropped by Glasters for a face-2-face meet...and we ended up hitting it off and taking two of them to bed with us. For all the horror and disappointment stories we've heard, our experience with the photo ads here has been nothing but positive...
Cheers,
~Reese!
P.S. ...ever consider "going bi-", m8ty?! Could raise your chances here exponentially! ;) :P
We get alot of response's.
Some are completely ridiculous (badly written, irrelevant to our ads etc etc)
and some are wonderful (well written, informative email's from ppl who have read our ad's and are replying because they fit our requirements).
And some of these email's have progressed into meeting's.
So in summary - These ads do work.
Dx
Some are completely ridiculous (badly written, irrelevant to our ads etc etc)
and some are wonderful (well written, informative email's from ppl who have read our ad's and are replying because they fit our requirements).
And some of these email's have progressed into meeting's.
So in summary - These ads do work.
Dx
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMars
P.S. ...ever consider "going bi-", m8ty?! Could raise your chances here exponentially! ;) :P
TART!
Venusxxx
Pot, kettle, black! :rude:
~Reese!
P.S. At least I'm a relatively quiet tart, comparatively speaking!
Sex God
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one long term partner,
a handfull of regular lovers,
a lot of one of meets
and inumerable new mates...
.. yeah.. i think this site workd for me!
Sex God
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:P . .....very, very much tongue in cheek.
Hmm. Mine or yours, Judy?! ;)
Hi People, just my own experience, when i first posted an ad, As A Single Male, well i expected to be inundated with offers, Wrong!!!! and i always have a wry smile on my face when i read single males post "IVE HAD LOADS OF REPLYS TO MY AD"
Yeah right.
When i started i didnt understand the friendship thing about the site forum, and chatroom, i still cant work the bloody chatroom thing out. but as ive got more into it, and im still sort of on the outside looking in, ive had some pms from nice people on here, and no not in that way, just friendly ones, and that is nice.
In the time ive been on this site, ive had probably 15 replys of which 9 were picture collectors and 6 geniune.
Ive found more sucess in replying to adverts, but you have to be carefull.
So my only advice is keep going and dont be put off, i suppose it all depends what you are looking for.
Yeah right.
When i started i didnt understand the friendship thing about the site forum, and chatroom, i still cant work the bloody chatroom thing out. but as ive got more into it, and im still sort of on the outside looking in, ive had some pms from nice people on here, and no not in that way, just friendly ones, and that is nice.
In the time ive been on this site, ive had probably 15 replys of which 9 were picture collectors and 6 geniune.
Ive found more sucess in replying to adverts, but you have to be carefull.
So my only advice is keep going and dont be put off, i suppose it all depends what you are looking for.
