Hello peeps!
Just wondering,being new to the whole internet thing and all,am I approaching this in the wrong way ?(wouldnt be the first time,hee hee!),should I be sending messages that are friendly/conversational in tone or just describing in bald terms what i'd like to do with the lady in question?
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Does being a sensitive guy mitigate against meeting women?
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Hello peeps!
Just wondering,being new to the whole internet thing and all,am I approaching this in the wrong way ?(wouldnt be the first time,hee hee!),should I be sending messages that are friendly/conversational in tone or just describing in bald terms what i'd like to do with the lady in question?
Be whatever comes most naturally to you - if you're being false, people will see through it sooner or later. Anyway, it's not such hard work to just be yourself.
Martin I guess that ladies on here will know us fellas will have.. certain things in mind.
If they've an ad that is an explicit statement of their sexual desires then all well and good, respond to that freely, but they still deserve respect and tact and there's no harm in a friendly online chat on any topic as an that ice may be all the ice you ever break with them but it's all good, it still enriches and informs the whole SH experience one has.
If they've an ad that is an explicit statement of their sexual desires then all well and good, respond to that freely, but they still deserve respect and tact and there's no harm in a friendly online chat on any topic as an that ice may be all the ice you ever break with them but it's all good, it still enriches and informs the whole SH experience one has.
Orgasminator
I vote for friendly/conversational. I delete all messages that carry descriptions of what the men want to do to me or me to do to them. I also delete messages asking for a shag, plain and simple. Yes, we are all here to meet people and broaden our sexual horizons but there is no reason to forget we are talking to human beings with feelings and not just holes or tools.
Treating people just as I would in 'real' space seems to work. Being polite and respectful, even a little bit old fashioned perhaps, has managed to allow me my fair share of success in SH. Of course there is room for flirting, and after all this is SH and not the WI, but I always approach with caution and never resort to cheap crudities.
Works for me.
Works for me.
Sex God
Being yourself is always the best bet..
As has been said it doesnt take any concentration and it comes naturally..
Being natural is paramount as its nerve racking enough when you get your first meet without having to concentrate on being someone your not.
As has been said it doesnt take any concentration and it comes naturally..
Being natural is paramount as its nerve racking enough when you get your first meet without having to concentrate on being someone your not.
Sex God
Best be ignored for what you are.
Better than being shot for what you are not!
Better than being shot for what you are not!
