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Does your taste in sex get wilder the longer you go without

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So how does abstinence affect you ?

Actually if I go without I kinda lose interest too
My fantasies stay pretty much the same
I do get kinda Sluttier/Hornyier the longer it gets
I get Hornier and my fantasies become wilder
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motorcyclerob
Sexpert
My FB is currently er offline for the want of a better phrase and has been for a while now. As a result my thoughts have been turning to sex rather a lot ( like I didn't before lol ). I even had a dream the other night involving my ex ( and there's no love lost there I can tell you, the woman drives me nuts ).
So as I find that my fantasies get much wilder the longer I go without sex and then it makes me much more open to trying things as a result. I was wondering if this is unusual or do many people find this ?
I posted this on my AFF blog but would like to know how the fair folk of SH think too.
motorcyclerob
Sexpert
Well there was a 5th option too about whether the fantasy becomes something you'd try too. But SH systems wouldn't let me post it. It just said there was an error, I gave up trying to post then I come in here again and it's posted twice with 4 options strange.
laskimpy
Forum Virgin
I tend to find that if I go without for a while when I do have sex I got nuts. I seem to be much more dominant after abstaining for a while when I'm normally very passive.
tmann
Sex God
I would say that the longer I go without the less concerned I am with how or what form sex takes, and more about when.
The more sex I have the more I think about how, who and so forth.
Lost
Sex God
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I would say that the longer I go without the less concerned I am with how or what form sex takes, and more about when.
The more sex I have the more I think about how, who and so forth.

Think that's pretty much how I feel too t_man. The more sex I get the more I want and the more I get and want the more variation and kinky stuff i like to indulge in.
In the case of sex - Less is definitely not more lol
Unknown User
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I find that the longer I abstain, the more I think about it and my fantasies / daydreams become more detailed and vivid.
It gets to the point where I have to text them to my GF just so I can get some work done! wink
I also find after a dry patch that I swap positions more frequently, move quicker and become more sensitive and therefore finsh quicker. Oddly it feels more draining and I am more breathless... lol
Funlovers2009
Sex God
Quote by Lost
I would say that the longer I go without the less concerned I am with how or what form sex takes, and more about when.
The more sex I have the more I think about how, who and so forth.

Think that's pretty much how I feel too t_man. The more sex I get the more I want and the more I get and want the more variation and kinky stuff i like to indulge in.
In the case of sex - Less is definitely not more lol
What they said! :thumbup:
tweeky
Sex God
Its a fine line
To long without it and I want it more and get more excited. However at the moment arrives I am likely to under perform due to lack of control. I find the best sex comes when I have had sex already around two days previous and the sex gets hotter as it goes along. Ive got much more staying power that way. To much pre excitement can fuck it right up.
Unknown User
I broke my leg in April, and then became single in July! So a combination of being single and broken is not doing me any favours! Being off work I filled my days with coming on this website - which I do not think helped the hornyness at all! I've had sex twice since July and its bloody killing me off slowly! So yes i defintely think the longer you go without sex the more you want it!
Big_Fraser
Orgasminator
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being single and broken is not doing me any favours!

Unless they have plastered your legs together I think you are just making up excuses :lol2:
Unknown User
Not in plaster, try a metal frame!! Not the most attractive of things!!!!!!
Unknown User
We'll let you know if we ever o without for more than a couple of days biggrin
tmann
Sex God
Quote by Funlovers2009
I would say that the longer I go without the less concerned I am with how or what form sex takes, and more about when.
The more sex I have the more I think about how, who and so forth.

Think that's pretty much how I feel too t_man. The more sex I get the more I want and the more I get and want the more variation and kinky stuff i like to indulge in.
In the case of sex - Less is definitely not more lol
What they said! :thumbup:
Think we have a 3some?
Now that is a fantasy. Must have been having lots of sex of late. lol