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dont suppose anyone knows of any clubs that do nights where no one would bat an eyelid if MrA wanted to lead me aboutin boots and a collar??? I have looked for bondage nights but nothing has really seemed what I am after... Does anyone know where I could be submissive whore in leather for the evening???... this is SOOO gonna get some sad replies lol, but it is a genuine question
Andro x
Just sent you a pm, with details of a club in Manchester you might be interested in wink
club xtasia have a fetish evening where this kind of apparel would be more than acceptable, its held every third sunday after the birmingham bizarre bazarre, which is also a fetsih event where this kind of clothing would be ok.........
wrats
xx
Hello Andromeda,
You could try Club Selecta, just outside Bolton. A very freindly place and being on a collar and lead you would not be frowned upon, The club is swinger and dom / bondage orientated. Pj and Dee the hosts are really nice people and i am sure you would have a good time.
Hope is helps
John
thanks guys, not sure I'm brave enough for the links Ive looked at so far lol, surely there has to be a halfway house to break us virginal types in!
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dont suppose anyone knows of any clubs that do nights where no one would bat an eyelid if MrA wanted to lead me aboutin boots and a collar??? I have looked for bondage nights but nothing has really seemed what I am after... Does anyone know where I could be submissive whore in leather for the evening???... this is SOOO gonna get some sad replies lol, but it is a genuine question
Andro x

well seen this and just had to put some coment on it we have done this not only at clubs but at a munch once aswell have found most clubs will acept us wen were in even our "freakiest " dress although we did silence club once london is the best area for fettihsh clubs (now that gives some of u our reason why we go to london a few times a year lol )dose anyone know if chams still do there fettich night ? havnt bene ina yr or 2 now used to be good and we do beleve ther is one over the manchester way but we never got round to going ther for some reason anyhow let us know how u get on we have been quiet for too long with th e moving and all maybe time for some fun :twisted: evil
The link I sent you for Manchester Fetish Club is well worth checking out, and as I said, tonight is their monthly meet. The atmosphere in this place is fantastic, it is very laid back and the organisers are so friendly and helpfull. Mark, who runs the place, is great, he will show you round, introduce you to people and generally help you settle in.
The first time we went, we came home with an handbag full of paper, all with places to visit, web sites to check out and loads of phone numbers from people just wanting to be friendly and helpfull.
Personally, I would say go, it is a brilliant night out, with a fantastic friendly bunch of people.
well I'm posting again, I seem to have my moments and then not bother for ages... people seemt o either use the chat ron or the forum and never the twain shall meet ( guess thtat means I'm bored of the chatroom lol) Any way some of the links look interesting so thanks. Might well try a cple of the fetish nights advertised in some of the clubs and take it from there. I'll either be hooked.. or put off for life. xx
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dont suppose anyone knows of any clubs that do nights where no one would bat an eyelid if MrA wanted to lead me aboutin boots and a collar??? I have looked for bondage nights but nothing has really seemed what I am after... Does anyone know where I could be submissive whore in leather for the evening???... this is SOOO gonna get some sad replies lol, but it is a genuine question
Andro x

Hi Andromeda
were in to sub and dom scene also
We just do it at an swingers club we go to, we normally ring them up the first time though just to make sure its ok, we have never had a club say its not allowed yet and we have played at it in, 6 clubs.. nobody ever seems to have a problem with it at all
shaz xx
Thanks Shaz
Can I ask if youve played at Partners? thats the usual club we use....
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Thanks Shaz
Can I ask if youve played at Partners? thats the usual club we use....

Sorry, never tried partners hun
we have played with me being sub :twisted: at
X-tasia
Chams
Garden of Eden ( before it burned down, plus we was just beginners there )
g-spot
club one 2 one
And none of them had a problem, and we do it to quite an extreme :twisted:
your best just to give them a ring babe and tell them exactly what your in to and see if they would object.
Shaz xx
ooh i feel some fun coming on xxx
Cant do the manchester thing tonight ( babysitters!!!! mad ) but I'll definitely look at it the next time they do one. I have the link bookmarked as a fave and I@m sure its just a metter of time before I go. Have new lead and polished the boots!! all I need now is the courage lol
Although i haven't been, i have heard that lovelush is a good place to go... only thing is though, its in Leicester, if you ever go, let us know and we will come and say hello...If i'm allowed lol
Shaz x
Who mentioned Lush?? :bounce:
Oh you said lovelush :doh: bolt
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The link I sent you for Manchester Fetish Club is well worth checking out, and as I said, tonight is their monthly meet. The atmosphere in this place is fantastic, it is very laid back and the organisers are so friendly and helpfull. Mark, who runs the place, is great, he will show you round, introduce you to people and generally help you settle in.
The first time we went, we came home with an handbag full of paper, all with places to visit, web sites to check out and loads of phone numbers from people just wanting to be friendly and helpfull.
Personally, I would say go, it is a brilliant night out, with a fantastic friendly bunch of people.
how come u never pmed us the link rolleyes
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The link I sent you for Manchester Fetish Club is well worth checking out, and as I said, tonight is their monthly meet. The atmosphere in this place is fantastic, it is very laid back and the organisers are so friendly and helpfull. Mark, who runs the place, is great, he will show you round, introduce you to people and generally help you settle in.
The first time we went, we came home with an handbag full of paper, all with places to visit, web sites to check out and loads of phone numbers from people just wanting to be friendly and helpfull.
Personally, I would say go, it is a brilliant night out, with a fantastic friendly bunch of people.
how come u never pmed us the link rolleyes
I hae now, and if you want someone to go with, let us know :twisted: Saying that we cant go tongith and cant go to the May one but will be there end of June wink
ooh ' I'll have to try for june too then and you can hold my hand ... and lead... and anything else tat happens to be about lol
well why not make it a sh club fettish meet thingy type thing then ?? wed make one for it
now theres a thought, have to look into sorting that,
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how would one.................... you know....................... go aobut it ...........lol
Looks like I'm about to post in the lets meet up section hehehe
well im shure nwc wouldent mind organising something of the like its ther area biggrin
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well im shure nwc wouldent mind organising something of the like its ther area biggrin

Just you wait!!!!
I will get in touch with the club and see if they could accommodate a few of us wink and let you all know!!!
ooooooooooooh i like to take for walkies :twisted: ..... just a note really to say hope you find what your looking for NWCs advice is always good , helped me loads . once again ...all the best biggrin
Right just to let you know, I have been in touch with the club and they have offered us a guided tour of the place in June, along with 'Guest membership' for the night. I am now going to put a post in Lets Meet Up, along with details of the night etc. They are having a theme night which is 'Back to School' so start getting your stuff ready!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/77728.html
See you all in June wink
Carpetfitter redface
Here's a link to a site with many fet clubs on......there is also an interesting discussion about swinging and bdsm on the message boards.

As regards to clubs, we have been to many, and, imo, the best outside of London is Nemesis. Lots of space, equipment and really friendly.
There is a munch on this saturday and the following saturday in Manchester-
Manchester LifeStyleUK munches

The munch takes place on first saturday of every month between 1pm - Dresscode: vanilla. The munch is followed by the Subversion party. Members only for the party, but membership can be taken out at the munch if legal ID is shown to the organisers. Membership is free. Subversion Party that evening is between 9pm and 2 am and is at the same location. See website or "Clubs" section under 'Manchester Subversion' for more info.
Manchester Munch

The Manchester Munch is held every month, same place, sametime. Everyone is welcome.
If anyone is interested in meeting others, knowing more etc Would be happy to meet anyone who wanted to give it a try.
Lord James, you you have quoted above, is the guy who runs the Manchester Fetish Club wink
Yes .He is a really good, informative and sociable bloke.
For first timers to a bdsm munch I would recommend His.
If anyone has any interest in Nemesis in Huddersfield, We would be happy to take people as guests. Though limited to one couple per night.
HOw cool are you guys xxxxx
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Lots and Lots for me to look at tonight... roll on june!!
oh and thanks for the PM's I'll get back to you, its really great to have such fab offers to "hold our hands" hehehe... Its scary starting out!
We have all been there once upon a time.....We feel the same with the swinging!
It's all gone quiet out there ....