Don't drink too much wine before swapping!!!

14 Apr 2004

We were to have our first swap on Sunday,we got in some wine to ease tensions and have a chat before we got down to the nitty gritty.
I was extremely nervous and ended up downing a comsiderable amount of result of which was that we could'nt do the full swap because i could'nt get it up. redface

So here is the leson to all new swingers going for their first,please don't drink too much,just enough to relax yourself.
It was a good experience though and i now know for the a twat i am. :cry:
Steve

14 Apr 2004

Quote by clarensteve_lincs_69796
We were to have our first swap on Sunday,we got in some wine to ease tensions and have a chat before we got down to the nitty gritty.
I was extremely nervous and ended up downing a comsiderable amount of result of which was that we could'nt do the full swap because i could'nt get it up.
So here is the leson to all new swingers going for their first,please don't drink too much,just enough to relax yourself.
It was a good experience though and i now know for the a twat i am. :cry:
Steve

You have my sympathy - coz we did exactly the same thing first time out. And by the time I had guzzled my millionth glass of wine I was fit for f*ck all. But it was still a good evening
Paul

14 Apr 2004

Cheers fun365,at least i've learned not to do it again.
Made it up to the missus the day after,tho biggrin

14 Apr 2004

i know a lot of people say alcohol makes them less able - even girls, but for me i actually find myself even hornier than usual.
i cant say say how it actually effects my performance (its not MY opinion that counts there)... but I atleast have a good time!
:twisted:

14 Apr 2004

yeah same here well busty babe but there is that line i find.... the line of no return where all has the ability to go pear shaped!.
But yeah i find , a few swallys most definately Aid what i call "the Filth factor"
Magik

21 Apr 2004

It's a fine line. I foudn it very hard first time and I was sober as a judge!! So could have done with a little something to quell the nerves....
You live and learn though hey redface

21 Apr 2004

know a lot of people say alcohol makes them less able - even girls, but for me i actually find myself even hornier than usual.
i cant say say how it actually effects my performance (its not MY opinion that counts there)... but I atleast have a good time

Well said wbb............... we had our first swapping experience a very short while ago and after a couple of drinks all my inhibitions went out the window! Everything i said were no-no's (ie full swap) all of a sudden seemed SUCH a turn on!! boink

Anyway, in the end, it wasnt due to the alcohol, it was cos i GENUINELY enjoyed the whole experience and WANTED to do it!! And will most definitly do it again!!

21 Apr 2004

try gin n tonic....boy it dose it for me....better than viagra

21 Apr 2004

There are so many factors that affect peoples performance from alcohol to first night nerves to stage fright and any other combination in between.
I have never suffered from the old wilts due to alcohol but have suffered in a number of other ways. Once, after defuzzing myself with Veet Mousse, I somehow managed to end up with a chemical burn on the old scrote! We went to the meet - a first one at that and things were going great until my scrote got wet and the burning sensation was out of this world. I immediately lost my erection! However - rather than beat myself up and apologise until the cows come home or try and get it back I accepted it for what it was - I never let it mind fuck me for one moment and got on with pleasuring the lady in hand (so to speak!) The next time we met I made up for it (I hope I did anyway!) and passed it by without a thought. rolleyes

On another occasion I took a steroid inhaler because I had a reaction to a dog in the house we were visiting and got such a bad case of the shakes because I overdosed on Steroids that I lost it again! :cry:
It is easy to get into the mind games about it and feel all sad and wondering if you have let someone down and that but to be honest I have always just accepted the odd failure for what it is and moved on. I have never met a lady yet that complained! cool

(Not to my face anyway! :shock: )
The only time I got tanked up was when we had no idea a social meet was going to turn into a swing and I had a large amount of Real Ale to drink and after what seemed hours of grinding we had to stop as I just kept a raging hard on but could feel nothing from the waist down! We were smokin'! redface

and she turned into a Viking God - Thor!
Relax - It has happened to most of us at some time or other - and will no doubt happen again. You just need to have a sense of humour about it and not beat yourself up!
Fred

21 Apr 2004

The voice of "experience", eh Fred wink

Sorry, I don't want to hijak this thread with the topic of another, but I couldn't resist this time redface

:wink:

21 Apr 2004

Ahhhhhhh - shaddup! wink

Fred

22 Apr 2004

Well thanks for all the replies to this everyone.I'm hoping to make ammends at the weekend and feel much better about the whole thing biggrin

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In all probability it was more down to the nerves than the alcohol,but i'll be making sure that i keep an eye on the amount i !!!