I know we should love them, but dads on his way to visit this evening and he's a pain in the proverbial!
I also had my outlaws live with me for a number of years of pure hell.
Should I go out or stay in?
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Quote by goodporking
I know we should love them, but dads on his way to visit this evening and he's a pain in the proverbial!
I also had my outlaws live with me for a number of years of pure hell.
Should I go out or stay in?
Be gald you have a father and spend as much time as you can with him cause when he's gone you really will wish you had.......Take it from someone who knows....
from someone else who knows !
Sexlightened
Quote by Steve_Mids
I know we should love them, but dads on his way to visit this evening and he's a pain in the proverbial!
I also had my outlaws live with me for a number of years of pure hell.
Should I go out or stay in?
Be glad you have a father and spend as much time as you can with him cause when he's gone you really will wish you had.......Take it from someone who knows....
Yeah ditto, i know what it's like too, over six years now!
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Oooh parents!
Don't start me on that one - feel like I've done the looking after for most of my adult life. I remember sorting financial things for them right back as a teenager. Counselled mum through an affair that eventually broke my dad's heart with her leaving - now that was a toughie. Had mum live with me, got dad out of a tricky situation and had them both back living with me, got dad out of another tricky situation and after about 11 years they are back together and have been for a few years now. Mum is overbearing with my kids as she was with me on and off for their early years. Both have jobs which aren't suited to their health but they stick to cos that's all they know, and I've pushed and pushed them to change.
Anywayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy,
for all this, and knowing that they are both going to need further looking after as they get older, as potentially we all do........
I love them soooooooo much.
I couldn't have managed without knowing they were there and however overbearing, they love my kids as much as they did me and my brother.
My dad phoned tonight. He actually applied for a different job after a lifetime of joinery/labouring/feckin hard graft - and he's got it! He's giving a weeks notice tomorrow and will never have to work outdoors again!
I'm so proud! They are finally having the guts to make changes - without having to be guided into things.....
Happy girl and really loved daughter
Cathy x
Don't start me on that one - feel like I've done the looking after for most of my adult life. I remember sorting financial things for them right back as a teenager. Counselled mum through an affair that eventually broke my dad's heart with her leaving - now that was a toughie. Had mum live with me, got dad out of a tricky situation and had them both back living with me, got dad out of another tricky situation and after about 11 years they are back together and have been for a few years now. Mum is overbearing with my kids as she was with me on and off for their early years. Both have jobs which aren't suited to their health but they stick to cos that's all they know, and I've pushed and pushed them to change.
Anywayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy,
for all this, and knowing that they are both going to need further looking after as they get older, as potentially we all do........
I love them soooooooo much.
I couldn't have managed without knowing they were there and however overbearing, they love my kids as much as they did me and my brother.
My dad phoned tonight. He actually applied for a different job after a lifetime of joinery/labouring/feckin hard graft - and he's got it! He's giving a weeks notice tomorrow and will never have to work outdoors again!
I'm so proud! They are finally having the guts to make changes - without having to be guided into things.....
Happy girl and really loved daughter
Cathy x
ok I don't do serious that often but this subject is always close to my heart. My mum died many years ago in her early forties and I still miss her to this day. If your parents are still with you then cherish those moments as if they were the last. I think we are all guilty of taking our parents for granted at one time or another
Quote by Steve_Mids
I know we should love them, but dads on his way to visit this evening and he's a pain in the proverbial!
I also had my outlaws live with me for a number of years of pure hell.
Should I go out or stay in?
Be gald you have a father and spend as much time as you can with him cause when he's gone you really will wish you had.......Take it from someone who knows....
It saddens me so much to read that someone would rather go out for the evening than spend it with his father. :cry: :cry: I would give up everything I have to do just that - mine died in 1998 and I miss him as much today as ever.
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I know we should love them, but dads on his way to visit this evening and he's a pain in the proverbial!
I also had my outlaws live with me for a number of years of pure hell.
Should I go out or stay in?
Be gald you have a father and spend as much time as you can with him cause when he's gone you really will wish you had.......Take it from someone who knows....
It saddens me so much to read that someone would rather go out for the evening than spend it with his father. :cry: :cry: I would give up everything I have to do just that - mine died in 1998 and I miss him as much today as ever.
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Mine died 18 yrs ago Jags at the ripe old age of 40...
It is still painfull at times and I doubt it will change.....Time heals?.......Not always.
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Parents are great, keep them close. Appreciate them, and tell them, something I don't often do enough.
So, so true....
And people will only realise just how important this is when it's too late.
My Dad died quite few years ago, and my Mum 3 years ago.
You never appreciate just what you have until it's gone.
ok, enough of this.
1 Love both me mam n dad to bits
2 Love both me mam n dad to bits
3 Love both me mam n dad to bits
4 Love both me mam n dad to bits
5 Love both me mam n dad to bits
6 Love both me mam n dad to bits
7 Love both me mam n dad to bits and lots and lots more copy and pastes!
same goes for my Nan and grandad that I lost over the last few years, boy do I miss them and the whole family get together thing that always took place at their house.
Anyway, the whole point of this was just a lark at how we sometimes feel about our parents, We love em to bits but they sure can be a pain in the ass at times (is that , woooaaaa, don't go off on one now everybody! Just a pun)
Those that have lost parents too early (theres never a 'right' time I know but sometimes its just 'too' soon) have my thoughts and hugs.
Enjoy the site everyone
1 Love both me mam n dad to bits
2 Love both me mam n dad to bits
3 Love both me mam n dad to bits
4 Love both me mam n dad to bits
5 Love both me mam n dad to bits
6 Love both me mam n dad to bits
7 Love both me mam n dad to bits and lots and lots more copy and pastes!
same goes for my Nan and grandad that I lost over the last few years, boy do I miss them and the whole family get together thing that always took place at their house.
Anyway, the whole point of this was just a lark at how we sometimes feel about our parents, We love em to bits but they sure can be a pain in the ass at times (is that , woooaaaa, don't go off on one now everybody! Just a pun)
Those that have lost parents too early (theres never a 'right' time I know but sometimes its just 'too' soon) have my thoughts and hugs.
Enjoy the site everyone
my dad is a veritable pain in the arse......
he sulks and whines....badgers me constantly to go up and fix something that isnt broke.....i bitch about him constantly...we argue and tell each other to f***off on a regular basis.........
the fact is...i love the old bugger with all my heart and i know its recipricated....but thats just how we show it too each other......
since my mum died hes turned into gran (not literally)....i go up every day for my tea but i wouldnt change him for anything....
lol...hes just come in as im typing this saying he almost slipped in the frost and i could of offered to pick him up.......FFS lol
he sulks and whines....badgers me constantly to go up and fix something that isnt broke.....i bitch about him constantly...we argue and tell each other to f***off on a regular basis.........
the fact is...i love the old bugger with all my heart and i know its recipricated....but thats just how we show it too each other......
since my mum died hes turned into gran (not literally)....i go up every day for my tea but i wouldnt change him for anything....
lol...hes just come in as im typing this saying he almost slipped in the frost and i could of offered to pick him up.......FFS lol
