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Is it just me or do others get annoyed when people dont acknowledge a sent e-mail. I would be quite happy for a thanks but no thanks reply. In fact any reply would be nice.
Fran mad
This is not Chatroom related so I am moving it into the Cafe!! confused :? :?
I know all too well myself as a single guy where you're coming from Francis but couples and single women can be snowed under with dozens of remarkable how many DO actually reply considering!
That's true but there is a flip side to this. On our profile, as well as many others we've seen, people have criteria (for example, no single guys). So when you get emailed by someone who blatantly doesn't fit that criteria it's hard to be positive about it.
We're all for respect, but that includes people respecting what is on the profile of others and adhering to it.
Quote by lysistrata
That's true but there is a flip side to this. On our profile, as well as many others we've seen, people have criteria (for example, no single guys). So when you get emailed by someone who blatantly doesn't fit that criteria it's hard to be positive about it.
We're all for respect, but that includes people respecting what is on the profile of others and adhering to it.

:thumbup:
I also find it hard to reply to mails if they are quite obviously blanket mailing,and incude things that doesnt match up to our profile. So quite often i hit the delete without replying first.
But my number one biggest bug bear is those that send one liners with little information and have virtualy blank profiles dunno
Nicky
Quote by swing_fun_cpl
That's true but there is a flip side to this. On our profile, as well as many others we've seen, people have criteria (for example, no single guys). So when you get emailed by someone who blatantly doesn't fit that criteria it's hard to be positive about it.
We're all for respect, but that includes people respecting what is on the profile of others and adhering to it.

:thumbup:
I also find it hard to reply to mails if they are quite obviously blanket mailing,and incude things that doesnt match up to our profile. So quite often i hit the delete without replying first.
But my number one biggest bug bear is those that send one liners with little information and have virtualy blank profiles dunno
Nicky
Amen to that :thumbup:
Quote by lysistrata
We're all for respect, but that includes people respecting what is on the profile of others and adhering to it.

I totally agree with the above quote! For example, if I say "no winks please" and I get a wink, why would I reply? dunno
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Is it just me or do others get annoyed when people dont acknowledge a sent e-mail. I would be quite happy for a thanks but no thanks reply. In fact any reply would be nice.
Fran mad

I totally agree with you - Bad Manners is not just the name of a Ska band fronted by Buster Bloodvessel (having chart hits in the early 1980’s).
I for one would not wish to meet someone who totally ignored my emails/PM’s.
It makes you wonder why some people are actually here? I have noticed a fair number of people also seem to include a ridiculous list of preferences, which just seem to be nothing more than an excuse not to meet people.
So what if you are almost married and can only manage a quick daytime meet? You would think they would make the effort and be grateful of the offer. Don’t they realise that some people have other lives to live and if they want to swing they should be a little more adaptable.
Good for you for raising this issue…. I am surprised people like yourself have had the good patience not to raise this before and make some of these ignorant people stop and think about their actions (or more appropriately – lack of).
I couldn't possibly comment on this, cos I just don't get emails.......none.
Well, not exactly true, but none of them were swinging related.
Feeling a bit rejected now...... off to pout and sulk....
Polo, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm going to remove all criteria from my profile and reply to every ill-thought out, badly written and innapropriate pm I've received in the last month. What was I thinking.
H.x
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Polo, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm going to remove all criteria from my profile and reply to every ill-thought out, badly written and innapropriate pm I've received in the last month. What was I thinking.
H.x

No need for sarcasm rolleyes
lol
Quote by H-x
Polo, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm going to remove all criteria from my profile and reply to every ill-thought out, badly written and innapropriate pm I've received in the last month. What was I thinking.
H.x

:bounce: :happy: :bounce:
Quote by PoloLady
Is it just me or do others get annoyed when people dont acknowledge a sent e-mail. I would be quite happy for a thanks but no thanks reply. In fact any reply would be nice.
Fran mad

I totally agree with you - Bad Manners is not just the name of a Ska band fronted by Buster Bloodvessel (having chart hits in the early 1980’s).
I for one would not wish to meet someone who totally ignored my emails/PM’s.
It makes you wonder why some people are actually here? I have noticed a fair number of people also seem to include a ridiculous list of preferences, which just seem to be nothing more than an excuse not to meet people.
So what if you are almost married and can only manage a quick daytime meet? You would think they would make the effort and be grateful of the offer. Don’t they realise that some people have other lives to live and if they want to swing they should be a little more adaptable.
Good for you for raising this issue…. I am surprised people like yourself have had the good patience not to raise this before and make some of these ignorant people stop and think about their actions (or more appropriately – lack of).
I'm sensing a slight hint of sarcasm Miss Polo
(so unlike you rolleyes wink )
Quote by PoloLady
Polo, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm going to remove all criteria from my profile and reply to every ill-thought out, badly written and innapropriate pm I've received in the last month. What was I thinking.
H.x

No need for sarcasm rolleyes
lol
Hypercrit.
H.x
Quote by H-x
Polo, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm going to remove all criteria from my profile and reply to every ill-thought out, badly written and innapropriate pm I've received in the last month. What was I thinking.
H.x

No need for sarcasm rolleyes
lol
Hypercrit.
H.x
:shock:
Quote by PoloLady
Polo, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm going to remove all criteria from my profile and reply to every ill-thought out, badly written and innapropriate pm I've received in the last month. What was I thinking.
H.x

No need for sarcasm rolleyes
lol
Hypercrit.
H.x
:shock:
rotflmao
H.x
Still no mail........ rolleyes
I'm really sorry about not answering your email. redface
I have hundreds of replies to do nearly every week. What with all the meets etc in between, I'm finding it almost impossible to meet the demand. wink
But I will eventually get round to your email. rolleyes
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Still no mail........ rolleyes

Nope me neither :roll:
hi xxxx ere av sent u sum messages ,and can send pics lol ,cant c y u aint replied av cum 2 conclusion u r a timewaster or a cockteaser.

to which I replied suggesting he may have more luck if he wrote properly.
argh so u suggest i type in english ,well just for u r head lol once u av pulled it outta u r arse. most people i av talked to on ere seem 2 do the same ,so if u dont like it then that just for anything else u might av gotta nice butt ,but i aint senna u r face so it notta good idea to giv it plenty of gob wen u r hidin behind a camera !!!

to which I replied that I did have pics but was a little picky as to who I showed them to.
thanks for the reply,yeh this issa gettin entertaining 1 .i av tried downloading pics to my profile but they wont download mpeg for sum reason .and if u r boasting u av got pics on u r profile then y not show u r face ? is it because it matches u r arse?actually if it does then i wont complain as u av gotta gorgeous arse even mo so u into anal sex as well lol ,defo a true blooded woman or just another COCKTEASER , i if u r so genuine then message me u r e-mail addy n i'll defo send sum 4 insulting my intelligence ,r u granted authority to use academic initials after u r signature?U keep thinkin u r shit dont smell lol n un day sumun will make u eat it n then u'll just realise it smells like everyun elses! havva nice day! xxx ( oh i luv u r butt)!

At least it was more than one line though, eh?
H.x
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hi xxxx ere av sent u sum messages ,and can send pics lol ,cant c y u aint replied av cum 2 conclusion u r a timewaster or a cockteaser.

to which I replied suggesting he may have more luck if he wrote properly.
argh so u suggest i type in english ,well just for u r head lol once u av pulled it outta u r arse. most people i av talked to on ere seem 2 do the same ,so if u dont like it then that just for anything else u might av gotta nice butt ,but i aint senna u r face so it notta good idea to giv it plenty of gob wen u r hidin behind a camera !!!

to which I replied that I did have pics but was a little picky as to who I showed them to.
thanks for the reply,yeh this issa gettin entertaining 1 .i av tried downloading pics to my profile but they wont download mpeg for sum reason .and if u r boasting u av got pics on u r profile then y not show u r face ? is it because it matches u r arse?actually if it does then i wont complain as u av gotta gorgeous arse even mo so u into anal sex as well lol ,defo a true blooded woman or just another COCKTEASER , i if u r so genuine then message me u r e-mail addy n i'll defo send sum 4 insulting my intelligence ,r u granted authority to use academic initials after u r signature?U keep thinkin u r shit dont smell lol n un day sumun will make u eat it n then u'll just realise it smells like everyun elses! havva nice day! xxx ( oh i luv u r butt)!

At least it was more than one line though, eh?
H.x
Is it just me or does anyine else need subtitles for those quotes? blink
Quote by Sassy-Seren
hi xxxx ere av sent u sum messages ,and can send pics lol ,cant c y u aint replied av cum 2 conclusion u r a timewaster or a cockteaser.

to which I replied suggesting he may have more luck if he wrote properly.
argh so u suggest i type in english ,well just for u r head lol once u av pulled it outta u r arse. most people i av talked to on ere seem 2 do the same ,so if u dont like it then that just for anything else u might av gotta nice butt ,but i aint senna u r face so it notta good idea to giv it plenty of gob wen u r hidin behind a camera !!!

to which I replied that I did have pics but was a little picky as to who I showed them to.
thanks for the reply,yeh this issa gettin entertaining 1 .i av tried downloading pics to my profile but they wont download mpeg for sum reason .and if u r boasting u av got pics on u r profile then y not show u r face ? is it because it matches u r arse?actually if it does then i wont complain as u av gotta gorgeous arse even mo so u into anal sex as well lol ,defo a true blooded woman or just another COCKTEASER , i if u r so genuine then message me u r e-mail addy n i'll defo send sum 4 insulting my intelligence ,r u granted authority to use academic initials after u r signature?U keep thinkin u r shit dont smell lol n un day sumun will make u eat it n then u'll just realise it smells like everyun elses! havva nice day! xxx ( oh i luv u r butt)!

At least it was more than one line though, eh?
H.x
Is it just me or does anyine else need subtitles for those quotes? blink
I read all that outloud just so I understood it right and I sounded like a robot lol
just reading the above, i have finally realised its good to be a single male
my thoughts and apologies go out to you ladies
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just reading the above, i have finally realised its good to be a single male
my thoughts and apologies go out to you ladies

kiss you're a gent.
H.x