I guess it can be done, depending on the type of relationship you have with your swinging buddy though people have got together as a 'proper' couple after meeting through swinging. It depends what you and your swinging buddy want from each other I guess.
what about couples?
i met a great couple and had some great timesw with them,
but the fem side asked to start meeting alone and it seemed a little to much so i stopped seeing them, think i did the right thing?
Nah we're just the nightworkers, homeworkers and skivvers :giggle:
Emotions ???
I think that if everyone is honest then it is easy to keep emotions out of swinging (in terms of love and all that “stuffâ€)
I was fucking someone who said that they understood that was all we would ever have.
She eventually expressed intentions that can only be described as some sort of ownership to a friend of mine. I ended it with her as it was then clear that she was waiting for me to “see the lightâ€
I believe that she was being dishonest with herself at the very least, and definitely with me.
I have no intention of getting involved with someone emotionally at the moment. That isn’t to say that I don’t get more than just sex from the people that I swing with. But it is definitely not the basis for a love relationship. This is because we set the boundaries before hand.
I know that others have developed relationships on here and I think that is wonderful. But is not something I am open to, at all, anywhere.
At the first signs of anything more intimate I walk away.
Like any “relationship†to me the answer is honesty and openness.
now who wants a shag ? :twisted:
Had this convo the other day with Stormy and our conclusion was this:
We can't completely seperate sex from emotion. Often when we have played we form a little attachment to that person. Hard to explain but I suppose a warm fuzzy feeling sort of does it. Maybe also a little fizz of excitement when you see their name come up in the forum etc etc.
We talked about the possibility of either of us getting attached to a person we play with and the result was that we feel it's highly unlikely to happen to me as I definately do not want a romantic relationship with a woman at all, ever. I love the flirting and the sex but thats all. So it will only ever be sex and friendship for me, but obviously Stormy is a man and we play with women so there is we feel the potential for a relationship or for feelings to develope either on his side or the lady concerned. There is always going to be this risk with what we are all doing on this site because we are all human.
The important thing is how you deal with it if it happens.
Love FIRE xxxx
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