im a single fem, always have been, ive had swinging buddies, ive met as mmf,fmf, group,mf,
but i have never met another couple as a couple.
ok this thread my even contradict itself in parts, thats cuse im trying to understand the wholething myself and i am posting to see if i just have a odd outlook if if its the typical situation.
ok i seem to be coming across it more often not just on this site but other places.
single swingers pairing up purely to swing. and elluding they are a established couple
theres several aspects to this that just dont sit right with me.
dont couples chose to meet established other couples cuse they feel they are secure and trusted in their own relationships and it reduces the chances of one person trying to convince the true hubby/wife to cheat?
why do the guys of made up couples get so dam rightgous? NO SINGLE GUYS WANTED and stuff??
why do guys approach me purely to become a tag team in swinging? then cant understand why i hate the morals behind the idea.
now i know thi smight sound odd, cuse i dont want it to sound like im saying singles cant be trusted, i mean i am one, i think its more i hate the setting out to con people.
i think i would feel angery if after meeting a "couple" i found out they actually wernt a couple.
ive also seen a female in a couple in chat advising single guys to hook up with any old female just to gain entry into a "couples" onlyclub.
sorry ive probally really rambled, but what i guess im saying is.... is it just my perception or is it distastefull when singles pretend to be a couple purely to swing?
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established couple?? really ??
As one half of a couple who always play together in any situation I can see where you're coming from,we hav'nt swung with any couples that are singles who meet just to swing,but thats not because we have anything against it its just that they may not be what we're looking for.
We are on another site and were contacted by a couple who also both have single profiles,we were then contacted by a single guy who swings with a girl.... low and behold it was the same girl in both
What are the chances of that? I really don't know how normal that is
Maybe in the search for fun and frolics it generates more meets to be versatile
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We are on another site and were contacted by a couple who also both have single profiles,we were then contacted by a single guy who swings with a girl.... low and behold it was the same girl in both
What are the chances of that? I really don't know how normal that is Maybe in the search for fun and frolics it generates more meets to be versatile
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Sex God
well we are a real couple as in we have been married for 20 years all but and i agree kinda with what you say
i do not have a prob with singles hooking up to swing but to mislead and let others think you are a real couple that i think is wrong
but to hook up to gain entry to a clun i don't see that as a prob as long as your honest with anyone you chat with just so peeps can make honest informed choices then thats fine i think
i do not have a prob with singles hooking up to swing but to mislead and let others think you are a real couple that i think is wrong
but to hook up to gain entry to a clun i don't see that as a prob as long as your honest with anyone you chat with just so peeps can make honest informed choices then thats fine i think
Sex God
As long as people are upfront about stuff I don't see the problem. Seems to me that its a good way for singles to enjoy the MMFF scenario or even as the couple in an mmf or ffm situation. Also i'm with bouncy as regards the singles pairing up for club entry, That makes good sense surely
Good topic :thumbup:
Good topic :thumbup:
i dont know about the club bit,, isnt there single welcome nights?? ive not been to a swinging club but if i were a couple i think id only want real couples there.
lol i dunno ive never been a couple, maybe in my simple mind or dream i see being a swinging couple as some beautiful rare thing and if i was fortunate to meet a guy who i was in love with who swang then id want to meet only such lovely couples lol
i have this nieve idea that established couples have more respect and would not act wrongly lol
im thinking maybe ive just been coming across so many fakes lately lol
i had a couple
contact me looking at doing a mff, when i said oh im not looking for couples, he imediately said , oh were not a real couple so meet me as a single.
xx fem xx
lol i dunno ive never been a couple, maybe in my simple mind or dream i see being a swinging couple as some beautiful rare thing and if i was fortunate to meet a guy who i was in love with who swang then id want to meet only such lovely couples lol
i have this nieve idea that established couples have more respect and would not act wrongly lol
im thinking maybe ive just been coming across so many fakes lately lol
i had a couple
contact me looking at doing a mff, when i said oh im not looking for couples, he imediately said , oh were not a real couple so meet me as a single.xx fem xx
Fem
The way you have put it I agree with you.
I believe everyone should be honest with people they are hoping to meet, but I am afraid that isn't always the case. Sometimes people would always do something for self gain. I don't disagree with single males and females getting together for fun but I believe they should be upfront with it to everyone and not put themselves out as a couple.
If people could lie about being a couple how does anyone meeting them know if indeed they are married to others that have no idea what they are up to?
I am not against anyone playing just would like to see honesty.
Btw we are a couple have been for 29 years but only meet guys so this wouldnt affect us, but I can still see where you are coming from.
The way you have put it I agree with you.
I believe everyone should be honest with people they are hoping to meet, but I am afraid that isn't always the case. Sometimes people would always do something for self gain. I don't disagree with single males and females getting together for fun but I believe they should be upfront with it to everyone and not put themselves out as a couple.
If people could lie about being a couple how does anyone meeting them know if indeed they are married to others that have no idea what they are up to?
I am not against anyone playing just would like to see honesty.
Btw we are a couple have been for 29 years but only meet guys so this wouldnt affect us, but I can still see where you are coming from.
For me it would not matter one bit. If I like the female and mrs777 liked the guy ( and the female ) , then for us we would not see a problem.
We meet guys who say they are single, but probably are not. For us as long as we get out of it what we want, then I for one do not really care whether they are married or single or fuck buddies.
We are looking to shag, not become best friends with them. Unfortunatly dishonesty is rife in the swinging scene.
, then for us we would not see a problem.We meet guys who say they are single, but probably are not. For us as long as we get out of it what we want, then I for one do not really care whether they are married or single or fuck buddies.
We are looking to shag, not become best friends with them. Unfortunatly dishonesty is rife in the swinging scene.
Sex God
yFem you asked about why couples meet single guys. Well we meet single guys,why? Because its great tha s why. I as a rule don't play but i like to be there and watch as does J like me being there watching. OK I have joined in occasionally if J has asked but mainly I'n just on the sidelines. I don't wank while watching or particularly direct, though i might encourage and chat along with them both. I have taken photo's when requested etc but mostly its J with another guy. I like watching her get f*cked, am I bad? My jollies come after when J is really horny and I am too and the other guy has left.
When a woman can enjoy two guys then why not let her if the opportunity arises. When I have actually played as part of an mmf then it is still horny, though I always feel uncomfortable however the guys we have met get turned on by the scenario - come on its great to see a woman sucking a cock whilst being fucked or even being DP'd -its not an every day experience for mamy amd its still sort of really naughty but really nice :-)
Does this make sense?
When a woman can enjoy two guys then why not let her if the opportunity arises. When I have actually played as part of an mmf then it is still horny, though I always feel uncomfortable however the guys we have met get turned on by the scenario - come on its great to see a woman sucking a cock whilst being fucked or even being DP'd -its not an every day experience for mamy amd its still sort of really naughty but really nice :-)
Does this make sense?
That does make sense,we meet with single guys and also couples,my hubby loves to see me with another guy,and I love the attention of 2 guys,He does join in though and thats how I like it
Its fabulously horny and exciting but then again so is playing with another couple
Me greedy??......never
Its fabulously horny and exciting but then again so is playing with another couple
Me greedy??......never
