I am having a problems with Whats app and social media. I give guys my number for security reasons and to make meeting up easier. I met up with a guy and asked him to keep messages to my phone business like (discreet), which he did not. I humoured it up to a point and met up, which was fine. I didn't agree to meet him again though because I didn't want to get involved - he started to send dirty messages about our meet to my personal phone when I was out with my mum (awkward) and also would send dirty messages when I was obviously at work. He then found out who I was and followed my Twitter account (I said keep it discrete). I then blocked him and I has contacted me a week later with a new number.
I always get badgered for repeat meetings and pressurised. I wondered if this was normal behaviour, it's becoming more work than a boyfriend.