ettiquate,

28 Jun 2005

right how ever its spelt,
is it rude to add someone to your msn???
generaly better to PM im guessing, and im guessing no reply will mean please do not add me! i havent added or PM'd anyone yet just checking the way to go about it!
ALSO what if ya see someone thats part of a couple? do ya pm them or not???
do ya generaly chat alot on msn or not??
to couples and women really lol

28 Jun 2005

Quote by essex_young_gun
right how ever its spelt,
is it rude to add someone to your msn???
generaly better to PM im guessing, and im guessing no reply will mean please do not add me! i havent added or PM'd anyone yet just checking the way to go about it!
ALSO what if ya see someone thats part of a couple? do ya pm them or not???
do ya generaly chat alot on msn or not??
to couples and women really

I'd say it's polite to ask first by pm, whether YOU can add someone to MSN. If they don't reply to YOU then I'd agree, that probably means no. If YOU see someone who is part of a couple, what difference does that make to whether you pm them or not? I chat on MSN a lot, others maybe don't.

28 Jun 2005

Not that I use it , but Ive always wanted to know .....why would you add someone to your MSN if you hadnt spoken a word to them anyway ? Its like taking random numbers from the phone book and adding them to your address book !

28 Jun 2005

Quote by essex_young_gun
right how ever its spelt,
is it rude to add someone to your msn???
generaly better to PM im guessing, and im guessing no reply will mean please do not add me! i havent added or PM'd anyone yet just checking the way to go about it!
ALSO what if ya see someone thats part of a couple? do ya pm them or not???
do ya generaly chat alot on msn or not??
to couples and women really

I find it really rude to be added to someones MSN or before being asked first! Also if you are PMing them first.....make sure you add more than a one liner......we generally want to know more about you before we consider adding you!...
I have noticed its usually the newer members rather than the older members who ask to add you....sometimes its better getting to know someone in the forum first before chatting on MSN or .
However if you really want to know that person better....go for it....but remember ask them first before adding!

28 Jun 2005

how comes the YOU's are in capitals????
also thought people might be offended at young blokes talking to their other halfs, the one ive seen looks amazing and i would love to see more of her and talk to her but im a bit redface

i supose they can only say no i dont wanna talk or just ignore me..............

28 Jun 2005

Quote by essex_young_gun
right how ever its spelt,
is it rude to add someone to your msn???
generaly better to PM im guessing, and im guessing no reply will mean please do not add me! i havent added or PM'd anyone yet just checking the way to go about it!
ALSO what if ya see someone thats part of a couple? do ya pm them or not???
do ya generaly chat alot on msn or not??
to couples and women really

I'll reply to each of your questions in turn.
1. YES! It is RUDE to add someone to your MSN without asking them first.
2. Whether or not to send an uninvited PM is more open to debate. Personally I HATE getting PMs from people I've never spoken to on the board unless it is about modding, especially those "fancy a fuck" ones - yes, I even hate the ones that dress it up a bit with flowery language - sad, so sad..... confused

Some people are more amicable and won't really mind a PM (if it is polite, obviously).... but in my view it is better to converse with them on the board first, and by no means assume that someone is up for it JUST cos they post on this board - not everyone here is an active swinger. Worst case scenario you will wind up banned if we get complaints about you annoying people in PM.
3. So what if someone is part of a couple - see the advice above
4. Some people chat on MSN, some don't confused

5. Men could give you some good advice, don't just talk to women and couples - it looks like you are just after a shag rather than some advice.

28 Jun 2005

ok sorry that first post makes me look like an idiot dont it! sad

i have made myself look stupid, im not going to add anyone without asking or give oneliners or anything i just wanna talk to some people while im online! wink

i can see what ya mean about the women only thing sorry about that,
its gonna take time to get to know people on here aint it, cant blame me for being eager.......
sorry if the first bit looks rude

28 Jun 2005

Quote by essex_young_gun
ok sorry that first post makes me look like an idiot dont it!

Nope , as unlike 99.9% you have bothered to try and find out what is polite and what is not.... credit on you young-gun... biggrin

29 Jun 2005

well ill try and be polite about it and thanks for not going mad at me biggrin

thanks guys.