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Just reading some of the other threads tonight I wondered how many people here have been offered cash for sex? How did you feel? did you accept? Is there an amount you would do it for? Would anyone get turned on by the suggestion? Could be an interesting conversation.
For our own contribution then yes some years back Mrs Tweeky was offered cash for sex. It was actually with someone we had already played with. On another night that had not been specifically set up as a play night he asked if there might be a chance of getting busy. There was some joking a bit of teasing and the question was asked what would you do for it, beg, prey or pay (something like that anyway) At which point they made it quite clear they were willing to pay for it. It was all abit of a jokey situation but the payment offered was defintely serious. We didnt pay much attention and for those that will wonder no we didnt play on that night due to other reasons.
I have been offered cash to fuck off lol
and that was Alex
Dave_Notts
Yes, about 3 years ago in the chat rooms here, got offered £250, I said make it £500 lol :lol: and you might have a deal.
Said person was banned!
i have been offered cash for sex via chat rooms and as emails on this site and another one
also a man i used to meet via this site apparently often gave sex for money to others and wanted me to join him with this venture ... i said no to all !
When I was 15 or 16 and roaming the centre of my home city, a man approached me at a square and invited me to follow him to his hotel room. He said I would receive "a gift worth £££", or "a gift of £££" - couldn't quite tell which of the two he meant, as he repeated his offer to me. He didn't mention whether I had to do anything else to qualify, other than joining him. He was politely spoken, very well groomed, lower middle class, in his 40s, not particularly attractive (was too young to appreciate a good beer belly lol). The encounter startled and confused me in its vagueness, but also aroused me with the sleaziness of it all. Even though I would never have gone with him it or anyone like him, I don't think, my horny virgin's curiosity etched this incident in my memory.
Here in chatrooms in the last three months I have been offered cash to have unprotected sex with complete strangers (not with the person paying), but the money was offered as an extra incentive (in case I wasn't tempted enough? :lolsmile rather than payment for doing it. I have also been offered (little) money for my worn knickers - I might have followed that one up if I could remember who it was I was talking to.
These days there is no amount in the world that would convince me to go with somebody I didn't care for. In a fantasy mode, I wouldn't mind a lover handing over a grand or two, if that was the sort of money they would find fallen behind the sofa cushion. On the flip side of this, in a casual sex setting I think I would like to be given a debasingly small amount of money, as a token gesture. To be paid, AND be paid extremely little would be double assault.
I have a local swinger friend that I have met a couple of times on a strict no-touching basis, to his merit he has stuck to it though he desires more and is very vocal about it. One horny morning I offered him a handjob for a fiver. Despite him always flirting with me and pressing for more, he turned me down saying that he never paid, and tried to barter with oral sex. I didn't think it was a worthy exchange so we didn't reach an agreement :lol:
Must add a disclaimer - I have very clashing opinions on prostitution. While it is something that has always fascinated me in its multiple expressions, I do believe that mixing sex exchanges with money exchanges is extremely problematic, and ultimately wrong in a society that operates like ours does. This is actually one more thing that makes me uneasy about the swinging scene, that there's a fringe of it that crosses the barrier.
Churchill: Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds?
Socialite: My goodness, Mr. Churchill… Well, I suppose… we would have to discuss terms, of course…
Churchill: Would you sleep with me for five pounds?
Socialite: Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?!
Churchill: Madam, we’ve already established that. Now we are haggling about the price.
Says it all really......
We've been offered cash several time in the chatroom or via mail. The ridiculous thing is that we have been offered cash by people that met our profile and would have got it for free if they weren't so keen to insult us with money!
Linda had always fancied Barry, her husband John's best mate but did nothing about it.
One afternoon Barry dropped in for a cup of tea, he complimented Linda on how she looked and was overtly flirting with her. She enjoyed the attention and it did stir her to her very core. It was the kind of thing that John used to do often but not so much now.
The conversation quickly turned to sex and fantasy's and ended up with the "how much would you be paid to have sex with someone". John suggested several amounts and Linda suggested that it would depend on how much she fancied them.
After a while Linda jokingly asked how much Barry had in his pocked, to which he replied £200ish.
Linda was slightly shocked and gave him a saucy grin...and said "deal".
They had hot/heavy and furious sex for an hour at which point Barry excused himself, leaving Linda in bed. As he walked out of the room he said he'd leave the £200 on the hall table. The fantasy was complete.
Shortly after, John came home from work and slightly surprised to find Linda sleeping in bed, he gently woke her and said " I see Barry came over and left me the £200 he borrowed from me"
wink
Yet again we seem to be going wrong.
Never been offered anything for sex. Mind u minx keeps tellin me I look cheap.
Only once been offered cash for sex, i forget what his name was now.......
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I have been offered cash to fuck off lol
and that was Alex
Dave_Notts

Lucky you.....I just get told to Fuck Off with not a hint of financial reward :lol2:
(and that wasn't by Alex) ;-)
No, we have, as yet, not been offered money for sex.
However we have played elaborate games where we have acted out fantasy's of such things
We have wanted to do the hooker fantasy for a while.
But for us we cant just fake it.
It has to be as real as possible.
But we feel we might be over stepping the line.. by charging someone we may have partied with anyway.
When I was about 19, I went for pee in a gay bar in Liverpool and noticed the older chap next to me waggling something between his fingers.... confused
When I plucked up the courage to have a swift sideways glance, as we do lads... :0) I saw it was a rolled up £1 note. I was insulted ... I'd have done stuff for a fiver though! rotflmao
I've paid for sex though lol
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But we feel we might be over stepping the line.. by charging someone we may have partied with anyway.

Even if they agreed to it and got a kick out of it? Compensate by offering a BOGOF? (sorry lol)
Lol.. that sounds like a plan.
Maybe we could do something with monopoly money.
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But we feel we might be over stepping the line.. by charging someone we may have partied with anyway.

Even if they agreed to it and got a kick out of it? Compensate by offering a BOGOF? (sorry lol)
I was once asked by my then lover to join her as an escorting couple to meet businessmen for threesomes for money. I declined.
Ironing services are often charged by weight......
ever been offered cash for it? Yes....frequently, and almost always by married men.
:-|
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When I plucked up the courage to have a swift sideways glance, as we do lads... :0) I saw it was a rolled up £1 note. I was insulted ... I'd have done stuff for a fiver though! rotflmao
I've paid for sex though lol

So if I can get £10 for your services can I keep the difference??? :twisted:
IMO .....We have all paid for sex (one way or another ;) ), I think thats why the OP specifically mentions cash :lol2:
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When I plucked up the courage to have a swift sideways glance, as we do lads... :0) I saw it was a rolled up £1 note. I was insulted ... I'd have done stuff for a fiver though! rotflmao
I've paid for sex though lol

So if I can get £10 for your services can I keep the difference??? :twisted:
I'm negotiable :lol:
In the chatrooms here, I have been offered both £43k and £50k for the weekend by 2 separate people, £1000 for a shag, £50 for a pair of dirty knickers and an all expenses paid holiday to Cyprus for the both of us (but only to play with me).
We declined all offers. I'm sure I'd have had to pay them back when they discovered how shit I am in bed! lol
offers in my opinion are just that offers.
i bet if anyone decided to take them up on there offers, they would never be seen again.
where is the fantasy thred? lol
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In the chatrooms here, I have been offered both £43k and £50k for the weekend by 2 separate people

:-o wow! That must be above the going rate by a bit, no? What Starlight said, where they serious?
Quote by pebble
In the chatrooms here, I have been offered both £43k and £50k for the weekend by 2 separate people

:-o wow! That must be above the going rate by a bit, no? What Starlight said, where they serious?
I doubt it! lol
Quote by Funlovers2009
In the chatrooms here, I have been offered both £43k and £50k for the weekend by 2 separate people

:-o wow! That must be above the going rate by a bit, no? What Starlight said, where they serious?
I doubt it! lol
I can only speak from personal experience...I've never contemplated paying a woman for sex...I don't find it offensive in any way, and I've known a couple of working girls personally, but I've just never wanted to shag a woman who didn't wish to shag me.
More to the point ...I only ever got offered £60 for the "session". Just cheap I guess :sad: or what you pay for is what you get :lol:
Sara was chatting to a fem(part of a cple) in the chatrooms a while back and she said that about every 2 months she has a gangbang session with between 4 and 6 guys and they all pay to join in the fun. She said she walks away with between £300 - £400 for a few hrs, what she actually said was that she really enjoyed gangbangs and also walked away with money for it, don't know if it's actually true or not but she did ask sara if she was interested in it at all, my wifes reply was a thanks but no thanks.
Sounded really dodgey and wouldn't really want to be involved in this.