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Ever paid for a prostitute?

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Quote by Marya_Northeast
I've known loads of men ( who have paid for sexual services and quite a few men and women who have worked in the sex industry. Doesn't appear to be that uncommon.
For some it might be an easy hassle-free way of getting their rocks off but from the conversations I've had, it would seem the whole idea of the transaction itself is a massive part of the kink.
Many moons ago, a friend and I had a light-hearted discussion about hiring a fit, attractive young man for our pleasure but it never came about. Even back then, I think I'd rather have shagged someone who actually fancies me not someone who's paid to.

oh it came up twice, sorry lol

Maybe it was more funny the second time round? ;)
yep that smashes a chord id rather someone was trying than some one whos actions and compliments where all part of the service
I myself have waited outside a brothel for two lads while they were serviced on a holiday to Amsterdam. I had very mixed feelings about the whole situation, but we all made light of it. However, both of them felt that they had been ripped off as they were charged more than was originally stated, and I don't think either of them had that much fun
I also have another friend who recently admitted going to a prostitute twice when he was younger, unconfident and overweight. He found the whole situation bizarre and said he would much prefer someone he liked and knew who liked him.
You know there is a brothel in Prague where men can go 'as customers', but they don't get charged, the footage is simply shown online
Quote by Jboss
You know there is a brothel in Prague where men can go 'as customers', but they don't get charged, the footage is simply shown online

Now thats enterprising! A pornographer who does not have to pay half the talent!
How about going to swinging clubs... does that not equate to "paying for sex"? Assuming that one does get to have sex (I know sex it's not guaranteed etc. but for the sake of the argument etc. etc.)
Quote by awol
How about going to swinging clubs... does that not equate to "paying for sex"? Assuming that one does get to have sex (I know sex it's not guaranteed etc. but for the sake of the argument etc. etc.)

Clubs are clubs. I go to nightclubs I may or may not dance lol The price is just the price for entry covering costs staff wages etc. What anyone does when they get inside is their business as long as its within the establishments rules.
Quote by awol
How about going to swinging clubs... does that not equate to "paying for sex"? Assuming that one does get to have sex (I know sex it's not guaranteed etc. but for the sake of the argument etc. etc.)

... same as buying them a couple of drinks or forking out for a hotel. Everyone has their price, I guess. If you have to ask mine, you clearly can't afford me ;)
Quote by Marya_Northeast
How about going to swinging clubs... does that not equate to "paying for sex"? Assuming that one does get to have sex (I know sex it's not guaranteed etc. but for the sake of the argument etc. etc.)

... same as buying them a couple of drinks or forking out for a hotel. Everyone has their price, I guess. If you have to ask mine, you clearly can't afford me ;)
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Quote by awol
How about going to swinging clubs... does that not equate to "paying for sex"? Assuming that one does get to have sex (I know sex it's not guaranteed etc. but for the sake of the argument etc. etc.)

It is not that far removed from prostituting yourself. Is it really that much of a big deal, whether it be swinging or simple out and out a husband or wife simply selling sexual services.
Either way, if money and sex are involved, the argument of prostituting and who is paying won't be far behind.
Quote by awol
How about going to swinging clubs... does that not equate to "paying for sex"? Assuming that one does get to have sex (I know sex it's not guaranteed etc. but for the sake of the argument etc. etc.)

But by that criterion you might also say that this site organises prostitution for its paying members. :shock:
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?
Quote by M1ssVery
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?

:mrgreen:
How much?
Quote by M1ssVery
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?

Mmm, I'd rather have you sinking into my arms than have your arms in my sink.
How much for that? redface
Quote by skinny
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?

:mrgreen:
How much?
KitKat Chunky :grin:
Quote by skinny
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?

:mrgreen:
How much?
KitKat Chunky :grin:
Quote by M1ssVery
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?

:mrgreen:
How much?
KitKat Chunky :grin:
I would offer you the peanut butter flavoured one. lol
Quote by MikeNorth
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?

:mrgreen:
How much?
KitKat Chunky :grin:
I would offer you the peanut butter flavoured one. lol
Try again with the white one.. :bounce:
Quote by M1ssVery
Does anyone want to pay me to do their washing up?

:mrgreen:
How much?
KitKat Chunky :grin:
You're too cheap......washin' up's bound to be substandard...just 'cause I don't do it doesn't mean I don't know how it should be done lol anyway, loads o' choccy here, any colour or flavour ya like. I'm prepared to give you a two day trial....the first one'll be spent tied to the bed, so I don't expect much in the way of results from you...the second day will give you the opportunity to make sure you're invited back.
I'm as ugly as fook, i'm a scouser with no personality, bad personal hygene, poor dress sense and the most dishonest person you'll ever meet, who'd be willing to let me pay them???????????
so nope....
...I paid a male "escort" and f**k me it was good! no way I am thinking about what I paid! It was awesome! teehee!... (ok I totally expect all the hate replies now, lol! go on girls you know you want to respond with a tainted disdained reply, sob sob... tut tut bad lil me! lol "it was a joke!")
ok sillyness aside now folks.... omg... I would say 75 percent of single guys on this website have probably gone down that route! c'mon people be realistic?? I have been reliably informed there is a shortage of single females on swinging websites so I am assuming guys would go to escorts? am i bothered? no? not at all... we are way behind USA they have virtually legalised places in fact even the uk has almost legalised places where "escorts" work!
Ok so shoot me now, but just remember it was only a few years ago that if you wore hair extensions you were labelled as "fake" and now everyone has them... not that I am comparing the two, but a lot of things are now becoming more accepted.. look at the fifty shades epidemic which raised the interest of bdsm throughout the uk and other countries?... it's one of those things that lots of people shake their heads to and mutter "no, no, no" to, but secretly think... "hhmm what if?" OR "mmm yes I would do that" OR "Yeah.. that's my secret.. I do that because it gives me great pleasure!"... or on the other hand they will say"oh no I could never do that, never ever"...
I do like to challenge the majority but usually it turns out the real majority remain silent, they say what they think is acceptable but not what they really think.. and I don't just mean on this particular subject either!x
I'd love to know where people get their statistics from with regards to how many blokes they reckon have actually paid a "working girl" for sex...
I'm fairly sure that most of a prostitutes clients are married guys, not single guys.
Quote by Steve

Virtually what I was going to say. I need the woman to be turned on regardless of situation or it just wont work for me. In the Fantasy world like Belle de jour where she gets off on sexual acts with some of her clients I would be ok that. A hump with a sack of spuds though, does nout for me.

Same for me....
If the lady isn't enjoying it then neither will I.....
Time for the old joke.
How do you make a woman orgasm?
Who cares bolt
Quote by Ian

Virtually what I was going to say. I need the woman to be turned on regardless of situation or it just wont work for me. In the Fantasy world like Belle de jour where she gets off on sexual acts with some of her clients I would be ok that. A hump with a sack of spuds though, does nout for me.

Same for me....
If the lady isn't enjoying it then neither will I.....
Time for the old joke.
How do you make a woman orgasm?
Who cares bolt
it reminds me of a girl i was dating once she was a little pissed off after i had convinced the waiter in the restaurant that she was my elder single cougar sister and the guy wouldn't leave her alone lol
when we got home i removed my trousers in the bedroom, she glanced over and said " just who do you think you are going to please with that"
i looked at her with a big smug grin and calmly said " me why "