Every Mans Fantasy

21 Apr 2008

Quote by flower411
I often hear people in chat saying that to be with two or more women, is every mans fantasy .
Now ...I can understand that from a completely selfish standpoint this could be true
But for me , a large amount of my pleasure in sexual encounters comes in the form of mutual satisfaction. Before anybody has a go at me ....I am not necessarily talking about orgasm ! Just mutual pleasure.
But I`m pretty sure that personally, I`d be hard pushed to pleasure more than one woman at the same time ....whereas , we all know that women in general appear to be able give pleasure to more than one man
So, is it "every mans fantasy" or is it "every mans SELFISH fantasy" OR do you think it`s possible for ya average man to pleasure more than one woman ??

Over a period of weeks perhaps....or just leave em to it and join in at the end..maybe

21 Apr 2008

wor lass and I know from bitter experience the 'average' man can't pleasure two women at once.
What can and does happen is that the man watches the women and joins in at the end for the 'ultimate' act. rolleyes

Now, the extraordinary man.... yeah, he can have us both worn out and happy as the proverbial pig.
We avoid the men who see 'watching us' as being a huge thrill as they think we are just a porn show for their amusement.
and yes, a MASSIVE amount of men think that it is the ultimate thing to do. It is very annoying but only to be expected. It is just a shame that what they actually fail to realise is that wor lass and I have a full sex life without them. Just like other couples, we don't needothers in our sex life.
We have had one experience with a 'straight' couple and I believe that was a wonderful experience particularly as the man wasn't so hung up on the fact that he was the only man. He treated us as a couple first.
have I stayed on topic or have I waffled? I am worried about my head at the moment. I find myself saying loads of things I shouldn't really be saying.

21 Apr 2008

Don't know about 'every' man's fantasy ... Pom just doesn't find the thought of two woman together especially erotic (although he doesn't find it repulsive either). dunno

21 Apr 2008

Speaking for myself it certainly was NOT my "every mans fantasy"
The 1st time it happened I was with two fantastic fems that I would at any time be proud to call very good SH friends of mine & it just seemed a natural thing to do!
Yes I was happier than a happy thing but my fantasy is far more closer to my own boundaries than "every mans fantasy"
And after a few times after I've corrected my mindset & gotten used to the "every mans fantasy" thing, yes you can pleasure more than one woman!

21 Apr 2008

I love watching two women play together, its a huge turn on for me :cool: I also love watching two women and one man. two men one woman, all very good to watch. I really think it's different to porn too. It's a bit like advertising thats all, it gets you thinking about something, but then the art is getting you to buy into it. Porn isn't anything i'm really into, maybe use it just once in a while to get things going if needs be.
I would say also that if my watching sex doesn't include Mrs Lost then it really doesn't do anything for me at all. The fact that Mrs Lost expressed her like of me watching her with others was happy coincidence. One I believe if it had never happened we would probably still be unfortunately none the wiser.
I don't feel in anyway that I am being humoured or placated in any way by Mrs Lost in myself watching her with another woman. The last thing she would do is something she didn't want to for my sexual benefit, Thats not to say that she hasn't said something like "would you like to see me with her" or "you enjoyed that didn't you" or things to that effect.
I do suppose you could say that a I don't like the idea of Mrs Lost playing without me being there might in someway be controlling or over possesive. well maybe it is. She's my partner my love my mate. Sex is something between her and I, just because we like to get another 1 - 2 - 3 - 4.... involved that doesn't change the fact that is still us two together. As thats her wish too then to me theres nothing sinister or alterior or controlling about it.

21 Apr 2008

am i the only female who has a fantasy about Rich, me and 5 bi fems? smile

dee

22 Apr 2008

the very reason i joined SH and am loving it
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yes we can...barrack obama

22 Apr 2008

oh..identical twins is mine !!!! :twisted:
any on here !!!!