... there seems to be atleast one thread where a guy his bemoaning his lack of action/responses. You may say just ignore them however i keep seeing threads with innocent titles such as 'Help Required', upon clicking i find the usual whinging and unfortunately the forum does facilitate a 'claim back your 5 seconds' option so maybe a new forum rule could be in order. i.e. Any threads fitting the forementioned description should have the title prefaced with - standing for 'Pathetic Single Guy Moaning'.
views? ideas? I reckon i might be onto something.... :twisted:
Since the only one apparently of that nature on the first page is mine, I'll respond.
I suggest that you didn't waste 5 seconds reading it (and I did include "single men" in the thread title, rather than going for anything oblique, which must have been a hint ?) as I haven't, didn't and am not going to bemoan lack of action or responses.
There's a q there to which I genuinely didn't know the answer, though now I do, which could arguably have been better put, as to whether ad posters are overwhelmed with responses that waste their time, and, yes, a moan - but it was about the level of hostility from some advertisers and posters, not about action or otherwise.
I now comprehend the origins of the apparent hostility, several 'old hands' of both sexes responded, the thread's job is done. It need not trouble you.
JonJon
When i waste 5 seconds of my time in such an unnecessary manner it does trouble me. Regardless, i wasn't commenting on a specific thread per se but a specific type of thread... if your thread comes under that criteria then so be it. This isn't hostility towards single guys regards the swinging scene, infact it isn't hostility at all... more my right to moan/criticise the constant stream of same old same old threads from single guys regarding there 'luck'.