Well I nearly said old swingers but knew I'd get jumped on lol... (wishful thinking maybe)
Anyway just thought I would ask any experienced swingers (there must be some out there by now lol) if after a time do they lose some of the excitement they first had when meeting couples?
Also do you think meeting the same couples over and over is a good or a bad thing?
Reason I ask is that although we love meeting new couples we have found were really happy with the couples we regularly play with.. we say regular one couple its only like twice a year but another maybe every other month or so.. We have found it just gets better and better each time, great fun so far. Another couple we have met will only meet once with anyone as they say it gets boring after that!! No we didn't play first lol.. we prefer couples who like to make some kind of friendship if possible..
Whats your thoughts??
Mike (and Julie) xx
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Sex God
each to their own.....
we`ve stayed good friends with some people...
others it`s just a 1 off....
really depends on the chemistry
we`ve stayed good friends with some people...
others it`s just a 1 off....
really depends on the chemistry
Quote by twos_company
each to their own.....
we`ve stayed good friends with some people...
others it`s just a 1 off....
really depends on the chemistry
Don't get us wrong... we have played one nighters lol we just prefer longer term as we find it has just got better and better.. One off's could still be a big thrill with the right ones..
Any offers lol??
Mike xx
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Quote by mdr2000
each to their own.....
we`ve stayed good friends with some people...
others it`s just a 1 off....
really depends on the chemistry
Don't get us wrong... we have played one nighters lol we just prefer longer term as we find it has just got better and better.. One off's could still be a big thrill with the right ones..
Any offers lol??
Mike xx
Well I have said before that we have had one experience but thats not exactly right we have had more than one experience but with the same person. Yes for us it did get better, however we decided to stop as things could have got complicated.
Mr Tweeky
personally i think it does yes, i have to admit i got to a point where i actually got bored with it all, i got bored with home meets so we started using clubs more, then it was a case of...oh yeah loads of single guys pounching on you...... was good can't be arsed now, so started going to parties and tho i like private parties best myself there never seem to be many about, so then it was back to home meets 
i think you get get to a point where after a while you have done everything a hundred times over and you really need something new, problem is you run out after a while :shock: i mean i have got to the point where i meet single guys for 1 on 1 for a bit of a change ffs :shock:
It deffo does loose its spark after a few years
i think you get get to a point where after a while you have done everything a hundred times over and you really need something new, problem is you run out after a while :shock: i mean i have got to the point where i meet single guys for 1 on 1 for a bit of a change ffs :shock: It deffo does loose its spark after a few years
Sex God
The point where things start feeling everyday and normal I take a break from the scene. I want it to feel exciting and naughty, racey and hot...... not going through the motions to feel like last weeks soggy dish cloth.
The break did me a world of good and I'll keep doing things that way until I'm bored of it totally, then I'll go find something else to do while keeping in touch with my good friends I've made through the swinging scene.
Gem. x
The break did me a world of good and I'll keep doing things that way until I'm bored of it totally, then I'll go find something else to do while keeping in touch with my good friends I've made through the swinging scene.
Gem. x
Sex God
I agree Judy! 
Sex God
Quote by HuxleyNSusie
We play in lots of diff ways clubs hotels parties etc and meet for one offs with no worries ,
BUT the best fun we have in our swinging life is with a cpl that have become our closest friends too we find the trust developed lets us push boundrys that would never be reached with a one of meet .
The buzz is still there for us with the one offs even after 6 years but we dont usually go out with the idea of thanks and goodbye unless its a club meet .
we have realised recently though that we no longer have vanilla friends not by a concious choice but their company just isnt the same and we have drifted away.
At least if we go out with another cpl from the scene socially I KNOW he wants to shag my wife.
That made me think, do you not know when a vanilla wants to shag your wife? Ive spotted quiter a few friends of many years taking a look at Mrs Tweeky whilst they thought no one was looking. No doubt some of them have seen me look down there wives clevage at some point in time :twisted: Mr Tweeky
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Quote by tweeky
The swinging friends are usually honest enough to admit it, whereas the vanilla ones are usually too frightened to admit it
