Experiment in Bi ruined (frightened off)

15 Apr 2007

Hi all
I'm a 53yr old straight guy who,like most blokes loves sex with ladies...of all shapes colours and a child of the sixties and one who likes to indulge in most thing sexual, i wondered what it would be like to experiment,as i hadn't before in Bi Oral.
Now as some of you may know,there are some woods between Coventry and Kenilworth that are frequented by blokes who,as is their pleasure,like meeting other blokes.I had one very succseful liason with a guy who was curious in the same fashion as myself, then one abortive session due to prowling 'heavyweights'(i'll come to them later)and one absolutley ghastly time due to a 'heavyweight'.
Now these heavyweights are guys who are genuinely 'gay'(which does not present itself) as a problem to me)and they wander through the woods pushing themselves on guys who aren't as experienced or confident as themselves to the point that they make the sex feel unseemly and illustrate my point..i was in the woods masturbating waiting for a bi curious or not so pushy guy,when i saw one of these heavey weights go with another guy...whether it was full sex or just oral i'm not sure,but all the same they had some sort of sex...immediately it was over, the 'heavyweight (wearing just shorts and an Aussie rules football shirt cams over to me "asking if there was anything that i would like to do me to him or visa versa..no problem there..it was the way he said it making it sound really 'shitty',as he got closer penis out slowly wanking..bloody hell i could smell spunk all over him and his dirty foreskin that had just been up another bloke..
i just said no and walked away..he followed me right to my motor still pulling himself off.
Anyway needless to say that experience has put me right off any further experiementation..why is it there are always some people who do not know when to stop and end up ruining things for others by going over the of my adverte says please no single blokes in the headline but still they do.
No wonder dogging,male sex,stress releivers(prostitutes,what a horrible name) get bad press,when most of us just want to have a bit of clean sexual fun,whatever the prefernce.
Pete

15 Apr 2007

I wonder how many of the ‘heavyweight’ gay guys have a chat and go on a gay-user website to moan about ‘the bloody wannabe bi-curious’ guys wandering round their woods?
If you are curious – why not go to a club on bi-night rather than what sounds to be a gay dogging spot?

15 Apr 2007

Quote by PoloLady
I wonder how many of the ‘heavyweight’ gay guys have a chat and go on a gay-user website to moan about ‘the bloody wannabe bi-curious’ guys wandering round their woods?
If you are curious – why not go to a club on bi-night rather than what sounds to be a gay dogging spot?

What if ur shy..and want to see what goes on.
I went into the dunes of a nudist beach and lots of guys naked some standing constantly looking others wanking others pairing off it's a bit intimidating.
Agree what u say about clubs, but too soon for me....likewise the woods!!!!!!!!
Don't let it put you off.........!

15 Apr 2007

I think if you are just curious and want to see what goes on and are after a gentler introduction to sex with people of your own gender, then cottaging, dogging or beaches full of naked men probably isn't the best way to go about finding out.
Those activities have thier own rules and codes and I would imagine to a new person they would seem pretty ntimidating. I certainly wouldn't go to them (or know where to find them) - but for a bit of hot boy on boy action I'd go to a gay club and cop off, or arrange a one on one meeting from here with someone I had got to know who I clicked with.

15 Apr 2007

Quote by Gothic-punk
I think if you are just curious and want to see what goes on and are after a gentler introduction to sex with people of your own gender, then cottaging, dogging or beaches full of naked men probably isn't the best way to go about finding out.
Those activities have thier own rules and codes and I would imagine to a new person they would seem pretty ntimidating. I certainly wouldn't go to them (or know where to find them) - but for a bit of hot boy on boy action I'd go to a gay club and cop off, or arrange a one on one meeting from here with someone I had got to know who I clicked with.

Well said that man :thumbup:
Brandon, it's a shame your experience wasn't all you expected it to be. I'm not sure (from what you've said) how they were to be expected to know you were curious, given that you were wanking. They probably took it as a come-on (which isn't unreasonable given the circumstances and location).
Bit unfortunate one of them followed you to your car - most take "no" for an answer and move onto the next person. Sounds like you were unfortunate with one of the few "can't take no for an answer" types.
If you have a problem with single men replying to your ads I believe there's a way of blocking messages from them. Perhaps a Mod or other experienced user could provide some advice on this.

15 Apr 2007

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16 Apr 2007

Yeah 'woodcraft' can be dodgy. There's a park near to me with a small wood area. This had become overgrown with bushes and paths running through it. It had become the meeting point of lots of guys and a few women. But it ran into big trouble. There were several raids and arrests.
This year its been totally cleared and you can see through the trees. So it will be a few years before it can be used again.
At its height of popularity, guys and women were walking in there getting into it, day and night. But some of them were real nasty looking and would hang about getting drunk and far too obvious for the more squeamish.
So I'm not surprised you had a rough time out there 'lumberjacking'. Its lawless territory in the great outdoors. wink