H, just found this thread. I agree with what almost everybody has said. If before( not knowing because i've not been on the chat, if anyone going on drop me a line, it would be cool to talk to some of the people in realtime that i talk to here) you knew who was watching you on cam but now they can hide, it is creepy. It's like drilling a hole in someones bathroom wall and videoing them. And these winks, i'll admit i sent a couple last night, but afterwards i thought that they are just a tad impersonal. After that i sent a message. nicer and not a note that says " i fancy you. do you fancy me?" it's just like being in school.
Rant over and i'm thinking pixie dust to calm down. how is everybody?
jeff
H, just found this thread. I agree with what almost everybody has said. If before( not knowing because i've not been on the chat, if anyone going on drop me a line, it would be cool to talk to some of the people in realtime that i talk to here) you knew who was watching you on cam but now they can hide, it is creepy. It's like drilling a hole in someones bathroom wall and videoing them. And these winks, i'll admit i sent a couple last night, but afterwards i thought that they are just a tad impersonal. After that i sent a message. nicer and not a note that says " i fancy you. do you fancy me?" it's just like being in school.
Rant over and i'm thinking pixie dust to calm down. how is everybody?
jeff
And no ones winked me, gay or straight. I'm starting to feel left out :cry:
Also does anyone elses computer keep on coming up with server busy? mine been doing it for 2 days now. It might just be my crappy prehistoric computer.
Jeff
And i haven't had any winks yet, gay or otherwise. i'm starting to feel left out :cry:
Also has anyone else been getting "server unavailable" messages since the extras started?
jeff
according to another thread if you go in the chatroom most of the guys in therre are winkers, makes them go blind too, well i think it said winkers
staggy
i know it will take more time but instead of deleting the winks send a very clear message back saying that due to the fu**ing laziness and ignorance they have shown by sending a wink they will now be ignorned. maybe they will get the hint that winks are not welcome and stop fecking winking.
xxxx lou xxxxxx
can someone explain to me how the winkers find us? I mean if you do not have an ad. I have been winked all day, sick and tired of it :fuckinghell:
I have put a comment on my profile - that 'winks' will be deleted, so not to send them.
The volume has now dropped - but the ones I get now tend to be followed by an apology PM a few minutes after :grin:
my homepage is currently telling me that 12 people have looked at my profile today, and gives me links that i can use to see exactly who those people were ((( for a payment of 25 quid that is. )))
if 12 people have looked at my profile, and not seen fit to send me a PM, well i have to assume that they had a quick look, and decided they weren't interested, yet i now have the facility to kind of spy on those who view my profile, spam everyone who clicks into it, send PMs to those clearly not interested in me, and not let them wriggle away quite so easily?
that also means that if i click on the profile of an extras users, i'm making my actions online, that should IMO remain private unless i actively choose to disclose them, available to them, which is obviously not something i really want to be doing, is it?
am i alone in not quite getting that one?
neil x x x ;)
:lol: 
, twice while i was trying to send it.
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