After chatting to a few people in the chat rooms last night, faking orgasms was discussed
After chatting to a few people in the chat rooms last night, faking orgasms was discussed.
Before swinging I had never faked an orgasm and so far haven't need to either. But would I with a play partner, I honesty don't know, there might be a situation I find myself in, to save an embarrassing situation maybe, but I would not like to have to lie, I would rather be honest.
Someone said people could fake one and the other person wouldn’t know, I am sure I would know if someone faked one with me, surely you know the sign when someone is having one or not. In the changes of body movement face etc.
Have you ever caught someone faking or would you ever fake an orgasm?
Why would anyone want to fake one?
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Sex God
Oooh, just off to make a cuppa - I shall come back to this.
But, in the mean time, yes I have.
But, in the mean time, yes I have.
I have done it but it was because I had really gone off someone I was actually going out with and know he was going away for 6 months and didnt want the hassle of breaking up with him before he went as I know he would take it bad, so just faked a few orgasms for a while until he went away. I dont know if he guessed but if he did he didnt say anything.
I have never and would never fake an orgasm.
I don't meet with someone just for the orgams or I could just have a lady wank. Its about the whole experience. If orgam doesn't happen, so what as long as you've had fun and giggles.
I'd also not be best pleased if someone faked with me and never told me how to make it better for them.
No, never :twisted:
I don't meet with someone just for the orgams or I could just have a lady wank. Its about the whole experience. If orgam doesn't happen, so what as long as you've had fun and giggles.
I'd also not be best pleased if someone faked with me and never told me how to make it better for them.
No, never :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by noladreams
Oooh, just off to make a cuppa - I shall come back to this.
But, in the mean time, yes I have.
I just remembered I think I 'fessed up in here.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/290867.html
Quote by flower411
Oooh, just off to make a cuppa - I shall come back to this.
But, in the mean time, yes I have.
I just remembered I think I 'fessed up in here.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/290867.html
Awww minx !! Are you repeating yaself again ??
Spose we might just as well go read the other thread now !
I looked for it but didnt go back far enough.
Gawd I only thought it was a couple of months ago, don't time fly?
Anyone that knows how to use the search button, please send me directions, I dont think it likes me :cry:
Sex God
Okay, I just re-read the original thread which I remembered being a pretty good read, hence why I linked to it.
I have a question: it was touched on towards the end of that thread, can/do guys fake or is this just a female thing?
When faking orgasms is mentioned I must admit I think of it as a female issue - however I'm fairly sure that it is nowhere near as simplistic as that.
So, is it blokes too?
I have a question: it was touched on towards the end of that thread, can/do guys fake or is this just a female thing?
When faking orgasms is mentioned I must admit I think of it as a female issue - however I'm fairly sure that it is nowhere near as simplistic as that.
So, is it blokes too?
Sex God
I never fake it with Mr Fun. I am a very convincing actress though, if I may say so myself, and sometimes mess about in a 'when Harry met Sally' style and Mr Fun has questioned me about it quite often!!!
I have to confess that I have faked it a few times on meets as I dont cum easily and when they are trying so hard .... well I suppose I have felt sorry for them. I'm not the only one though because Mr Fun has said to me after a meet that I should have faked it as the guy was working so hard to get me there!!
I dont feel bad if it makes someone feel good and, no I am sure they couldnt tell that it wasnt real.
I have to confess that I have faked it a few times on meets as I dont cum easily and when they are trying so hard .... well I suppose I have felt sorry for them. I'm not the only one though because Mr Fun has said to me after a meet that I should have faked it as the guy was working so hard to get me there!!
I dont feel bad if it makes someone feel good and, no I am sure they couldnt tell that it wasnt real.
Sex God
Don't know about orgasms but i tried to fake an erection once........i failed and had to get a real one
I find it a worry why anyone would have sex with someone and then fake it. :shock:
I really cannot see any logical reason why honesty is not called for, or is it that somebody who does/has faked it, is not wanting to upset that person?
If that is the case then to have sex with that person again, would not be the best of ideas.
There may well be on occasions a valid reason, but I used to know a woman who faked it all the time with her husband....as I said to her " what a waste of your life ".She obviously did not enjoy sex with him, so why the heck bother?
I really cannot see any logical reason why honesty is not called for, or is it that somebody who does/has faked it, is not wanting to upset that person?
If that is the case then to have sex with that person again, would not be the best of ideas.
There may well be on occasions a valid reason, but I used to know a woman who faked it all the time with her husband....as I said to her " what a waste of your life ".She obviously did not enjoy sex with him, so why the heck bother?
Sex God
Kent will you please stop making posts i agree with it's becoming quite disturbing 
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I find it a worry why anyone would have sex with someone and then fake it. :shock:
I really cannot see any logical reason why honesty is not called for, or is it that somebody who does/has faked it, is not wanting to upset that person?
If that is the case then to have sex with that person again, would not be the best of ideas.
There may well be on occasions a valid reason, but I used to know a woman who faked it all the time with her husband....as I said to her " what a waste of your life ".She obviously did not enjoy sex with him, so why the heck bother?
Like I said earlier, I dont fake it with my hubby because I dont need to ... he knows exactly which buttons to press with me but I dont cum easily.
Just becasue I dont cum with other people doesnt mean that I dont enjoy the sex ... its not all about cumming. I have had some really great sex with other people but they just cant get me over the edge so, on the odd occasion I have faked it .... its not their fault that I dont cum easy and I suppose in a way it is my way of saying thanks, you were great!!!! I dont do it often and wouldnt do it if I had not thoroughly enjoyed myself!!! :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I find it a worry why anyone would have sex with someone and then fake it. :shock:
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i faked an orgasm once .. lol was about orgasm number 8 for me that night .. there was fuck all left and hadnt been for the last two or three cums .. the girl i was with was intent on getting one more out of me and quite frankly i was bored , and knackered so i pretended to cum.. i considered it one back for the lads!
Staggy
Sex God
My whole life is fake :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: 
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I find it a worry why anyone would have sex with someone and then fake it. :shock:
Cos you're fine when you start and halfway through your hangover kicks in and all you want to do is lie down and go back to sleep. She'd had hers, i didn't want mine just then...nothing wrong there eh?
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
She'd had hers
Not if she faked it as well
:lol: :lol: Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
She'd had hers
Not if she faked it as well
:lol: :lol:She wanted to come all the way down from Aberdeen the following weekend :shock: (i errr, sort of 'found' her in a club
) so i think i must have done something right :mrgreen: Quote by meat2pleaseu
She'd had hers
Not if she faked it as well
:lol: :lol:She wanted to come all the way down from Aberdeen the following weekend :shock: (i errr, sort of 'found' her in a club
) so i think i must have done something right:mrgreen:You got a mansion in the country and an Aston in the drive?
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
She'd had hers
Not if she faked it as well
:lol: :lol:She wanted to come all the way down from Aberdeen the following weekend :shock: (i errr, sort of 'found' her in a club
) so i think i must have done something right:mrgreen:You got a mansion in the country and an Aston in the drive?
I've met someone with a country mansion and i've had a drive through Aston in Birmingham....is that close enough?
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
She'd had hers
Not if she faked it as well
:lol: :lol:She wanted to come all the way down from Aberdeen the following weekend :shock: (i errr, sort of 'found' her in a club
) so i think i must have done something right :mrgreen:Now you're just bragging, and she was being kind :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
