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Favourite method of swinging?

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Do you have a favourite type of meet?
Do you like meeting folk in clubs? Do you plan a meet for ages or do you prefer spontaneity? Are you a dogger? Is it strictly couples? Do you get to know the person/people before or do you like stuff to be quite impersonal?
It's a while since I had a 'new' meet... I think my fave is the type where I have time to plan and look forward to it but it's not aaaages off, otherwise I get bored of the anticipation and a little of the 'edge' goes. I also like hotel meets - I find that they add a certain frisson of filthy anonymity. I'm not big on social meeting beforehand.
Oooh, I think I'll have to get organising! :rascal:
thinking about it, both Mr B and myself are/were fans of the spontaneous meet....cos of the kids and difficulties getting sitters, if we find ourselves with some spare time, or one of us does, its better to be able to arrange a meet thats almost imminent.
i find that quite sexy too.....not having time to think and analyse too much, and to just 'do it' and go with the flow!
We plan way ahead, not because we like it that way but with a young family, we have to get a sitter etc. We like to meet once before hand to see if there is some chemistry. Most of these have ended in some form of fun though.
Spontaneous, up till now, but I am trying to change that.
Walking into a bar and locking eyes on someone. Feeling their eyes move over my body. Chatting, finding out something about them. May be not facts, if I like them or not. then finding out just how far they wish to go. :twisted:
Often going back to old lovers, is that a PC word here?
...but know I have a person or two I want to meet, but there is a curse of distance, and I know I will have to wait and combine it with something else.
travis
Being a 'traditionalist' I always Swing from the Chandelier.....