has anyone had this problem- at a party with several couples have you encountered favouritism in other words perhaps one woman or man or both seem to be favoured by all at the expense of the rest!
do some of us end up being gooseberry?
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Well i suppose if your at a party and there is one woman/man who lots of people like and 1 woman/man who not many people like, whether that be looks/personality or whatever, then yeah i would expect the popular one would get favoured.
fair no... of course not... because if you are in a couple both of you are identical and in being so are equally attractive in everyway to everybody.
That is the joy of swinging..........
I think that I would look at it as a compliment to my unerring good taste.. but hey- thats' just me and maybe is why I am single.
That is the joy of swinging..........
I think that I would look at it as a compliment to my unerring good taste.. but hey- thats' just me and maybe is why I am single.
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yes but if you are there as a couple and you or your partner becomes the focus of a lot of attention......is that fair to the other partner?
Jeeeeeesz sorry, but NOT a dig at you at all rob, it's just all starting to sound like being at school, the couple in question should just chill out and enjoy themselves, been there done it ourselves cannot be bothered anymore.
Where did the honest fun in swinging go? :cry:
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yes but if you are there as a couple and you or your partner becomes the focus of a lot of attention......is that fair to the other partner?
Its life!
Nothing you can do about it ............... get a drink have a dance and enjoy yourself...............
Only worry about the things you can control.............. not the things you cant
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by jaymar
yes but if you are there as a couple and you or your partner becomes the focus of a lot of attention......is that fair to the other partner?
Jeeeeeesz sorry, but NOT a dig at you at all rob, it's just all starting to sound like being at school, the couple in question should just chill out and enjoy themselves, been there done it ourselves cannot be bothered anymore.
Where did the honest fun in swinging go? :cry:
Well said....... no ones for everyone after all, some you win some you lose!
Mike x
Quote by blonde
yes but if you are there as a couple and you or your partner becomes the focus of a lot of attention......is that fair to the other partner?
Its life!
Nothing you can do about it ............... get a drink have a dance and enjoy yourself...............
Only worry about the things you can control.............. not the things you cant
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Ohhh Another favouite saying..... well said yet again xxx
Isn't that just life? Favouritism, or personal choice?
Yes, it might be demoralising if you're sitting on your own whilst everyone is clamouring over George Clooney/ Halle Berry look alikes (wtf those name came from I'll never know!). But if you cannot accept that possibility, dont put yourself in that kind of environment.
I know Im insecure, so I choose not to put my iffy self esteem through it.
Yes, it might be demoralising if you're sitting on your own whilst everyone is clamouring over George Clooney/ Halle Berry look alikes (wtf those name came from I'll never know!). But if you cannot accept that possibility, dont put yourself in that kind of environment.
I know Im insecure, so I choose not to put my iffy self esteem through it.
Quote by robhambledon
has anyone had this problem- at a party with several couples have you encountered favouritism in other words perhaps one woman or man or both seem to be favoured by all at the expense of the rest!
do some of us end up being gooseberry?
no ...i end up being a voyeur :twisted: :twisted:
i was going to put :wanker: then thought better of it :lol:
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:inlove: :rose: 
bring your 'iffy self esteem' over here & I'll massage it for you :smitten:
