I have only just started using this site and have been trying through ads with a photo to arrange a meet with like minded bi-guys. I am rapidly becoming disillusioned because of the number of time wasters and idiots that seem to get off just making replies with no intention of a follow up.
Are there any long time users that can give me advice as to how long I need to be advertising before attracting genuine replies?
Suppose I am just naive in expecting people to have the same intentions and honesty as me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dave
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Perservere is all I can say. 
When I used photoads I used to get timewasters (it's almost inevitable) but there are serious people out there too and you will find some. :P
It's just a numbers game really and the timewasters usually end up wasting more of their time than yours. :twisted: :twisted:
I don't bother with the photo ads any more and hardly ever get my time wasted nowadays.
Hope you get some encouragement from this.
:)
Good luck!
ES
When I used photoads I used to get timewasters (it's almost inevitable) but there are serious people out there too and you will find some. :P
It's just a numbers game really and the timewasters usually end up wasting more of their time than yours. :twisted: :twisted:
I don't bother with the photo ads any more and hardly ever get my time wasted nowadays.
Hope you get some encouragement from this.
:) Good luck!
ES
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just get known in here ...............and get ya self to a munch.....and you will be on ya way
Hope this helps
Debsxxxxxxxxxxx
Yes i have to admit munches are the best way to get know, tho they are social nights they are great fun and u get come back from them from the people u have met
Quote by duncanlondon
Have you read the Count of Monte Cristo?
He spends 15 years digging a tunnel to esacpe, but ends up in someone else's cell.
FFS!! I was just about to read that and you've spoilt the ending !!!
:x Right, I'm going to read this Titanic book instead - Now FFS, don't tell me what happens!!
:? :? :? 
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Quote by Sgt Bilko
Right, I'm going to read this Titanic book instead - Now FFS, don't tell me what happens!!
You mean you don't know about the Ice Berg, I bet the ship sinks.
John
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Quote by Debbiewebs
Right, I'm going to read this Titanic book instead - Now FFS, don't tell me what happens!!
You mean you don't know about the Ice Berg, I bet the ship sinks.
John
oo he does now :twisted: :twisted:
I hope I didn't spoil it for him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :doh: :doh: :twisted: :twisted:
John
:wink:
I have watched that film 100's of times but you think by now they would not keep making the same mistakes ! Anyways at least your not just looking for females so thats an advantage and like people say if ya don't buy a ticket you can't win the lottery which reminds me I must get round to putting my ad up sometime... 
Quote by DaveC
I have only just started using this site and have been trying through ads with a photo to arrange a meet with like minded bi-guys. I am rapidly becoming disillusioned because of the number of time wasters and idiots that seem to get off just making replies with no intention of a follow up.
Are there any long time users that can give me advice as to how long I need to be advertising before attracting genuine replies?
Suppose I am just naive in expecting people to have the same intentions and honesty as me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dave
Hi Dave
Good to have you here , Sorry to hear you have had some replys from the retards, I bet the first thing they do after waking up each mid-afternoon is to extend thire stubby, urine-soaked leg from the end of the bed and switch the computer on with thier big toe. Then they go take a big shit in the bucket in the corner, farting like a foghorn at the cat as they hobble thier pegged legs past it, while contemplating if they should waste the time of Internet strangers before or after they have a breakfast can of Pork N' Beans, topped off with a big, fat slice of warm spam.
I suspect that they are, in fact, replying to you as a man/woman who hasn't had a mans/ womans touch since the midwife slapped them at birth. There are a lot of good ppl here so stick wiht it Dave ;)
regards
Oni
I've never had a photoad, actually, that's not true, I had one, but that one didn't count.
I'll start again, I've never had a serious photoad and I don't recall replying to anyone elses photoads (correct me if I'm wrong anyone), so I have never wasted any of my time there, but maybe this helps, I joined at the end of June 2004, the first time I had sex with anyone from the site was towards the end of August, that was after the NW Munch.
By the way, if you concentrate on timewasters that's what you'll get.
Chris
I'll start again, I've never had a serious photoad and I don't recall replying to anyone elses photoads (correct me if I'm wrong anyone), so I have never wasted any of my time there, but maybe this helps, I joined at the end of June 2004, the first time I had sex with anyone from the site was towards the end of August, that was after the NW Munch.
By the way, if you concentrate on timewasters that's what you'll get.
Chris
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Quote by marmalaid
I joined at the end of June 2004, the first time I had sex with anyone from the site was towards the end of August, that was after the NW Munch.
Yeah but how many have you shagged since Marms? Are you in treble figures yet???
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Serious answer...
Timewasters are everywhere, not only on swingers sites.... they are part of life. When you've advertised for a while I think you get a "feel" for replies that are piss takes, or otherwise someone who is errr.... shall we say... less than genuine. That's what your delete button is for. Yes, it's annoying but an occupational hazzard
. If you get obvious scams, please forward the details on to a mod for course. Quote by bluexxx
Yeah but how many have you shagged since Marms? Are you in treble figures yet???
No, since then there has only been one woman, she knows who she is and that she is oh, so special!
:love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love:
Quote by marmalaid
I've never had a photoad, actually, that's not true, I had one, but that one didn't count.
....
Chris
I am deeply concerned for the toad :shock:
I don’t think it really matters what type of toad it was (treetoad, greentoad, hornytoad, or photoad) it is still an innocent creature.
To make this worse you say you had it but it wasn’t serious and it didn't count - as if you are wiping a mistake out of your history. How do you think it will make the toad feel reading that?
You obviously (by what you have said) never intended to take the toad seriously, but, did you tell the toad this at the time? Did the toad know it was all just a bit of fun? Did the toad fall for you?
You know full well what the dialogue between me and the photoad would have been.
Chat-up line: I haven't had you yet. (I'm still waiting for the time someone says "Oh yes you have...")
Whilst undressing: I'm not your Prince Charming, I don't want a relationhip.
When naked: You're not going to fall in love with me are you? (Other party usually laughs, says "Fuck off" or both)
After sex and on seeing the glint in her eyes: I warned you not to fall in love with me, you have, haven't you?
:? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :?
But I like Blue, she's special in a special way...
Chat-up line: I haven't had you yet. (I'm still waiting for the time someone says "Oh yes you have...")
Whilst undressing: I'm not your Prince Charming, I don't want a relationhip.
When naked: You're not going to fall in love with me are you? (Other party usually laughs, says "Fuck off" or both)
After sex and on seeing the glint in her eyes: I warned you not to fall in love with me, you have, haven't you?
:? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? But I like Blue, she's special in a special way...
Sex God
Quote by marmalaid
You know full well what the dialogue between me and the photoad would have been.
Chat-up line: I haven't had you yet. (I'm still waiting for the time someone says "Oh yes you have...")
Whilst undressing: I'm not your Prince Charming, I don't want a relationhip.
When naked: You're not going to fall in love with me are you? (Other party usually laughs, says "Fuck off" or both)
After sex and on seeing the glint in her eyes: I warned you not to fall in love with me, you have, haven't you?
But I like Blue, she's special in a special way...
Run for the hills Blue (or kick his ass) before he lures you into a false sense of security then asks you to dress up as a toad wearing a gnome hat to satisfy his increasingly strange fetishes! :shock:
:scared:
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Quote by marmalaid
But I like Blue, she's special in a special way...
I'm only special cos you've never shagged me (yet)
Sex God
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