Feel good post (yes I do have a soul) A thanks to the girls.

20 Aug 2004

I won`t embarrass you all by saying this at the munch (and possibly whilst pissed) but I really wanted to say a personal thanks to some of you girls out there........
Calista, Jas, Clare, Dreamer Helen, Busty, Angel Chat, Heather, and probably more I`ll be embarassed I forgot.
Thankyou for allowing me to be so relaxed around you all.
I don`t have a good track history with girls. After having a terrible time at an all girls school, and being alienated by becoming a mum early, I eventually moved into a small-minded esate where I was often the victim of many of the bored under stimulated gossiping mothers there. I rose above it and earned the label arrogant. Needless to say most of my friends are men.
For years Mars and I have discussed the idea of me enjoying bi sex, but in the back of my mind I haven`t been able to envision this happening, simply because I`ve learnt to feel threatened by other women; until now.
Now I don`t feel the least bit intimidated by the idea of playing with some of you girls. I envision a fun relaxed `girly` time with all of you, regardless of the occassion.
This is new to me, and I`m loving it. :love:
At 32 years old, this is long overdue!
Ok, now I`ll redeem myself by posting somewhere suitably crass redface

Venusxxx

20 Aug 2004

venus!!! i know exactly what you mean . . . i went to the all boys schools . . . i wore short trousers and a cap . . . . . i live on the same estate i think . . . where i am "that fookin' poof"!!! most of my local friends are women . . . .
welcome to SH! that is surely the point of being here . . . kiss

n x x x ;-)

21 Aug 2004

All that Venus said goes for me to,( not the bit about the girls school ( if only :twisted: )),
But i will not be pissed so i will most likely will thank evryone, (and i will not mind playing with some of you girls or anyone else for that matter biggrin

:twisted: :twisted: ).
I think i can say for both of us that we are so exited its going to be great just to meet everyone, not long now, im to exited to go to bed ( but it wont interfere with anything wink

).
See you all soon.
Love Mars

21 Aug 2004

So Venus you really can be nice lol
Clare will post her own reply but i can tell you she is really happy at what you also became a mother at quite a young age and the gossips in her village said that it was the only reason we got married,even though she was only about 3 months pregnant when we got people can be so small minded.
I can't wait to meet you later,as well as should be a great night.

21 Aug 2004

Venus hun,your sooo easy to like that its not even a chore being nice to you lol

I know how you feel a bit though,ive always got on better with blokes than women and on here i feel like i get on with everyone equally.
Its sooo nice to see a thanking post hun kiss

21 Aug 2004

Venus.........
I can identify with much of what you've said, and agree with the sentiments of how relaxed and welcoming this forum is. It's lovely to know you've made a difference without even trying or realising - especially in this kind of situation biggrin

Looking forward to meeting you in person. And you can have a real life hug later biggrin

21 Aug 2004

You go girl!!!
The forum has really helped me to feel welcome and good about myself, gald there are others who feel the same.
Mrs RSAB2 xxx

21 Aug 2004

Venus i think in some way or another most us females can relate to what you say.
I to was married at 20 and had kids young whilst most of my friends were single and enjoying themselves. We live in a street with families and old people,and i get on better with all the kids than adults as i am shy and they think i am a snob as i dont talk untill spoken till
F x