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Feel I''ve been cheated on here..

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Before on your home page you could look at peoples profiles that have been viewing your advert.
Now you have to pay extra money for this...
My question is WHY?
Ita all part of the extras package...
May have to be renewed once a year dunno
If I'm correct - you get the 'Extras' package free for a month when you join and then it's up to you as to whether or not you pay to ugrade to it after the month has expired.. being able to see who has viewed your profile is part of this package.
I guess if seeing who has looked at 'you' is that important, then you'll pay biggrin
Quote by Steve
Ita all part of the extras package...
May have to be renewed once a year dunno

I only became a paid member a few weeks ago & I could see who was viewing my adverts up until yesterday, seems strange to me..
Quote by Reggie2006
Ita all part of the extras package...
May have to be renewed once a year dunno

I only became a paid member a few weeks ago & I could see who was viewing my adverts up until yesterday, seems strange to me..
We posted at the same time - read up biggrin
You Can't actually see who has viewed your adverts, even with the extras package, although you can see who has viewed your profile.
Quote by HJ

You Can't actually see who has viewed your adverts, even with the extras package, although you can see who has viewed your profile.

You know what I meant
Quote by Reggie2006

You Can't actually see who has viewed your adverts, even with the extras package, although you can see who has viewed your profile.

You know what I meant
Jesus - someone got out of the wrong side of the bed... oh, and you're welcome! confused
Quote by R6_biker

You Can't actually see who has viewed your adverts, even with the extras package, although you can see who has viewed your profile.

You know what I meant
Jesus - someone got out of the wrong side of the bed... oh, and you're welcome! confused
wink
So has the cheating occured on the Adverts or the Profile?
Just like to know the full facts! :giggle:
Sam (the nosey one in the corner) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I tried to see who had viewed my profile within a couple of days of joining, and was told I needed the extras package. But I'm wondering what difference that particular extra might make? I dont see it matters if someone has viewed your profile, its whether they reply to it surely?? biggrin
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I tried to see who had viewed my profile within a couple of days of joining, and was told I needed the extras package. But I'm wondering what difference that particular extra might make? I dont see it matters if someone has viewed your profile, its whether they reply to it surely?? biggrin

I agree re:- what difference does it make?
Mind you if your nosy it is interesting :D
Quote by Lost
I tried to see who had viewed my profile within a couple of days of joining, and was told I needed the extras package. But I'm wondering what difference that particular extra might make? I dont see it matters if someone has viewed your profile, its whether they reply to it surely?? biggrin

I agree re:- what difference does it make?
Mind you if your nosy it is interesting :D
Hmmm, yeah, I suppose you could then see who is looking at you, so you could PM them as if they are looking at you, you probably match the kind of person they are looking for. Its genius... off to get extras!!!!
lol
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But, if you "were" what they were looking for, "they" would have messaged you.

But they might be shy! :lol2:
Snap, and being the idiot I am - I've just paid for the second year running!
DOH rolleyes
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I purchased the extras, wasn't very long before I realised I'd just burned 25 quid.
Your profile reads very well, you shouldn't have any problems! :thumbup:
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I get loads of views every day, but my ugly body and wee cock means they never message sad
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Before on your home page you could look at peoples profiles that have been viewing your advert.
Now you have to pay extra money for this...
My question is WHY?

do you feel cheated or have you changed your mind of the service,you knew perfectly what you were signing for,extra gives you other advantages on the site so i dont see why you think you are short changed....have you just looked at my profile after reading this??
There is an assumption that if you look at someone's profile, you are interested in them. I have a shit memory and I use chat, if someone talks to me I look at their profile, even though I may have looked at it ten or so times before. It doesn't mean I'm interested, it just means I'm reminding myself of who I'm talking to. I have a stilted conversation with someone and then they mail me asking if I want to meet on the grounds of me looking at their profile. If I'd wanted to meet I would have made it clear(ish) while chatting. I don't think knowing who'e looked at your profile is all that important, but if you want it - you have to pay for it. Simple as that, it's not cheating you that you now have to pay for it, it was a bonus that for a short time you didn't have to.
H.x
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There is an assumption that if you look at someone's profile, you are interested in them. I have a shit memory and I use chat, if someone talks to me I look at their profile, even though I may have looked at it ten or so times before. It doesn't mean I'm interested, it just means I'm reminding myself of who I'm talking to. I have a stilted conversation with someone and then they mail me asking if I want to meet on the grounds of me looking at their profile. If I'd wanted to meet I would have made it clear(ish) while chatting. I don't think knowing who'e looked at your profile is all that important, but if you want it - you have to pay for it. Simple as that, it's not cheating you that you now have to pay for it, it was a bonus that for a short time you didn't have to.
H.x

I'm kinda the same as I'm quite a visual person and like to know/remember/see who I'm speaking to.
In fact sometimes when I'm in Chat and have closed down the main site window I'll open any random profile just be able to navigate to the Forum again... how sad would that be:
"Thanks for looking at my profile... I wasn't, I just clicked on it to get back to the Forum!"
PS: Are they nice wellies in B&Q? wink
Quote by H-x
There is an assumption that if you look at someone's profile, you are interested in them. I have a shit memory and I use chat, if someone talks to me I look at their profile, even though I may have looked at it ten or so times before. It doesn't mean I'm interested, it just means I'm reminding myself of who I'm talking to. I have a stilted conversation with someone and then they mail me asking if I want to meet on the grounds of me looking at their profile. If I'd wanted to meet I would have made it clear(ish) while chatting. I don't think knowing who'e looked at your profile is all that important, but if you want it - you have to pay for it. Simple as that, it's not cheating you that you now have to pay for it, it was a bonus that for a short time you didn't have to.
H.x

How true this is. There have been times when I've been chatting to people over and over again and thought oooh I haven't even looked at their profile.
I look at profiles for a number of reasons, I'm sometimes nosy, sometimes perving redface and othertimes looking to see what people say about themselves. None of these factors automatically mean that I want to meet the people I'm checking out.
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PS: Are they nice wellies in B&Q? wink

No. I got my nice wellies from a well known auction site, they have a 3" heel. biggrin
H.x
Quote by H-x
No. I got my nice wellies from a well known auction site, they have a 3" heel. biggrin
H.x

BCA? :twisted: