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female self pleasure vibrator or not?

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vibrator or not and how often?

Im with you Heather, introduced the beads first but then got persuaded to purchase a much loved butt plug by Simon. You just cant beat a DP first thing in the morning last thing at night a swift half hour here and there during the day. redface
Its all his fault :shock: honest everyone Simon got me hooked and its even better when he's over to play :twisted: :twisted:
i have had a few vobrators, i keep losing them though.
one moment they are in my hand, the next the are gone never to be seen again.
i keep meaning to get the potholers group to have a look for them for me.
i dont belive in wasting money on all the fancy dildos and butt plugs, why go and buy one.. we all have a table leg at home! i find it works fine, only probelm is u have to be quite flexible for the DP stuff... good job i have a big ass.
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I voted for toys but since then I think I have squeezed my Rabbit to death - the little ears are still flicking but the wee pearls are no longer going round and round - it is only a month old do you think I should send it back????
The girlfriend uses one most of the time and we both find that it increases our excitement, but another question, what is best for women, tickling or plunging ????
Just to put a slightly different slant on it... how great is someone else doing it to you? Cos I think I actually prefer stroking girls to a climax more than actually shagging... but with all the amazing Rabbit-relations you can get these days, one feels somewhat at a disadvantage!!
I'm longing to try out the following, you see: legs apart, woman between them, her back against my chest, and my arms around her while I touch her... I reckon that would rock, but haven't yet had a chance to try it...
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Just to put a slightly different slant on it... how great is someone else doing it to you? Cos I think I actually prefer stroking girls to a climax more than actually shagging... but with all the amazing Rabbit-relations you can get these days, one feels somewhat at a disadvantage!!
I'm longing to try out the following, you see: legs apart, woman between them, her back against my chest, and my arms around her while I touch her... I reckon that would rock, but haven't yet had a chance to try it...

Firstly :- Dont be put off my different toys...the real thing is always the best. I for one love being stroked to climax, but hey i am a girl that can't truely go without a cock.
Secondly:- WOW It nice to see expression of imagination. That position is Fab, it would get me rocking thats for sure. Its the rubbing and stroking of the pubic bone that gets me every time.
xxx Cass
...and of course you can do some serious caressing of other parts from that position too, before you get anywhere near the soft sensitive bits. In fact, it's ideal for at least an hours teasing...
Excuse me, I have to lock myself in the bathroom...
We'd vote for toy 99% for playing.... By hand is too difficult (though sounds like that is just us confused sad :( :( )
And is it only us that thinks "how the heck do you find the time to play that often?!" If only!
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Toys don't bother me, to be honest.
I see them as fun and all part of exploring pleasures.
Hopefully Mrs. Easy doesn't see them as a replacement for me either. :huh: :uhoh: lol
Was definitely a fingers gal until my partner used a toy on me for the first time...omg...now i'm a believer....lol....i do find it more exciting playing with toys together, like when he uses the vibrator or the erm...how shall i put this?....clit stimulator, on me. Toys have been a very happy discovery. My partner also REALLY likes to watch me use them and help out.... biggrin And this definitely doesn't take away from my wanting his cock, quite the opposite!
p.s. Marya, I think that frequency/dependency is a myth....lol
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How do the guys feel about toys? I've only met one who isn't intimidated by them.
M xx biggrin
PS How often - Sometimes up to 5 times a day, sometimes nothing for weeks!!

I have never been intimitated by toys. I find it quite a pleasure to watch and assist.
Without toys, how else would you try DP between just the two of you?
And at my tender age, I recently found the joys having vibration put to various parts of me lol
Besides which, they also give me the chance of a slight breather if needed or even a stop gap while I have a cup of tea before repeating.
I think we all agree that masturbation is hard to beat! Nothing like being taken firmly in hand!!!
I wonder whether anyone here has had any first hand experience of the American fucking machines???
They seem awfully effective!!!!
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I think we all agree that masturbation is hard to beat! Nothing like being taken firmly in hand!!!
I wonder whether anyone here has had any first hand experience of the American fucking machines???
They seem awfully effective!!!!

Interesting question, apparently from what I have read there are some Sybian machines in the UK and also some Venus 2000 machines (the machine for guys). As I mentioned in another thread in the USA a number of Swinging Clubs have purchased Sybians . . .
Personally love the those jelly vibrators, soft and a bit squiggy but hard enough to do the job! :P - Emx
By the way whats a Sybian???? :shock:
Hi Emma n Dave , a link was posted earlier , its a mechanical fucking machine I suppose the GTI has a 6th speed on the bean flicker. Girls seem to like them . biggrin
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Hi Emma n Dave , a link was posted earlier , its a mechanical fucking machine I suppose the GTI has a 6th speed on the bean flicker. Girls seem to like them . biggrin

Bean Flicker. Bean Flicker. Which emoticon says -I'm pissing my pants.
It's just as well you can't see me sat in my truck giggling like a girly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Get a grip. Not heard that one before.
Bean flicker
Now I re read the postIi think I accidentely made it up as a compound noun from the phrase to flick a girls bean .
The moderators on this forim are very kind to an old poster like me.