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Fetish - When did you first get yours?

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Do you remember the first time you had the self realisation that you have a fetish?
Personally speaking, I can remember that I liked the look Latex / Rubber pic’s that would appear magazines, when I was growing up. As I got older became more interested. There always seemed to be something deviant about it and those who would wear the clothing. It felt as if I was drawn to it just by the idea. Then when I was 18, I though I’d give it a try and have never looked back.
Does anyone have their own experiences that they wouldn’t mind sharing?
Lips wave I so wish i had a fetish :sad: but i dont unless you can call 30+ cups of the immaculate brew they call coffee, a fetish
I really like thigh length boots on fems - but going so far as fetishist confused I'm not so sure.
Must be both sides of the coin to have one though.
sad erm CHOCOLATE?? wink shrugs shoulders coz i cant find my emoticon lol does that count other than that no love pepps x
Mine occurred round about 7 to 8 years when I was just waking up to sexual feelings. I made my own things to wear (eventually cross dressing and latex etc) peeped up ladies skirts (voyeurism), bi tendencies with other boys. As I was institutionalised (boarding school), females were mature and in a significant role, so I continue to find that a sexual association.
Am I being boring in saying I don't think I've actually got one?? I've got fantasies and things I like to *cough* act out...
Is swinging a fetish? dunno
As a boy flicking through my bros penthouse i recall thinking !I wish they shaved the gosh darn pubes off. Twenty years on and lo it was thus thank u lord.
Tesco's; £4:99... bargain.
lp
I dont have any fetishes :shock: :shock: :shock:
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Am I being boring in saying I don't think I've actually got one?? I've got fantasies and things I like to *cough* act out...
Is swinging a fetish? dunno

Care to share? redface lol
I could be wrong here (I know, unlikely) but as I understand it the term "fetish" refers to an inanimate item, such as boots, stockings, spectacles etc. The "Fetishist" struggles to muster any enthusiasm if the "fetish" item isn't involved in play.
So no, I don't have any!
by the strict definition that Winchy has used then no.. I don't have one. I can 'get it up' without it.
But.. I do lurve wedding dresses the more 'traditional' the better. ( Dawnie if you send me that feckin' scary photo again I will hunt you down)
It stems from an incident that happened with the headmasters daughter in the headmasters bedroom in the headmasters wife's wedding dress :twisted:
Wor lass has promised me a day wedding dress shopping. We just need to find a wedding dress shop that will leave us alone in those huge changing rooms for a few minutes. Damn customer service. rolleyes
Dek has a fetish for tarty gear stockings and shoes just dress up in general if using wenches definition he seldom takes the urge unless them items are present and involed in play
i dont have any..
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But.. I do lurve wedding dresses the more 'traditional' the better. ( Dawnie if you send me that feckin' scary photo again I will hunt you down)

I might just have to send it to you again to see what you'll do when you hunt me down and catch me :giggle:
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But.. I do lurve wedding dresses the more 'traditional' the better. ( Dawnie if you send me that feckin' scary photo again I will hunt you down)

I might just have to send it to you again to see what you'll do when you hunt me down and catch me :giggle:
Please don't .... honestly that picture took the real edge off my pleasure with regards to wedding dresses for some time. Infact we have to talk about something else now.
So, Dawnie in a wedding dress...... mmmmmm did you wear a traditional dress when you married Ian ? Have you got pictures? :twisted:
and please don't be flirting with me Dawnie.. you are straight remember ? rolleyes
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So, Dawnie in a wedding dress...... mmmmmm did you wear a traditional dress when you married Ian ? Have you got pictures? :twisted:

I did wear a traditional white wedding dress and I do have pictures but sadly I think you'd laugh your head off rather than finding them fun :rascal:
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and please don't be flirting with me Dawnie.. you are straight remember ? rolleyes

I can't help myself redface
You bring out the worst in me and its brilliant :giggle:
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So, Dawnie in a wedding dress...... mmmmmm did you wear a traditional dress when you married Ian ? Have you got pictures? :twisted:

I did wear a traditional white wedding dress and I do have pictures but sadly I think you'd laugh your head off rather than finding them fun :rascal:try me.
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and please don't be flirting with me Dawnie.. you are straight remember ? rolleyes

I can't help myself redface
You bring out the worst in me and its brilliant :giggle:
The worst.. but I thought that the thing I did with my tongue was bringing out the best in you ? dunno
I adopted a mongrel fetish, it was sitting there all forlorn, I took pity on it.
It's now nearly house trained and I treat it to red meat once a month.
H.x
As my handle implies - plimsolls, since the age of six.
Plim smile
Not sure if this is a fetish or not :undecided: but I like a nice chunky black watch on the wrist of someone who I'm in a clinch with (if it's a man obviously) dunno don't ask me why though, havn't a clue!
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Dek has a fetish for tarty gear stockings and shoes just dress up in general if using wenches definition he seldom takes the urge unless them items are present and involed in play
i dont have any..
tbh tan think they would look better on you that dek like lol
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Not sure if this is a fetish or not :undecided: but I like a nice chunky black watch on the wrist of someone who I'm in a clinch with (if it's a man obviously) dunno don't ask me why though, havn't a clue!

how about a chunky black wrist cuff?
lp
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Dek has a fetish for tarty gear stockings and shoes just dress up in general if using wenches definition he seldom takes the urge unless them items are present and involed in play
i dont have any..
tbh tan think they would look better on you that dek like lol
they do :lol: :lol:
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Not sure if this is a fetish or not :undecided: but I like a nice chunky black watch on the wrist of someone who I'm in a clinch with (if it's a man obviously) dunno don't ask me why though, havn't a clue!

is that so you don't have to count the seconds out loud until it is all over?
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Not sure if this is a fetish or not :undecided: but I like a nice chunky black watch on the wrist of someone who I'm in a clinch with (if it's a man obviously) dunno don't ask me why though, havn't a clue!

how about a chunky black wrist cuff?
lp
lol It's me that wears those cool
Quote by splendid_
Not sure if this is a fetish or not :undecided: but I like a nice chunky black watch on the wrist of someone who I'm in a clinch with (if it's a man obviously) dunno don't ask me why though, havn't a clue!

is that so you don't have to count the seconds out loud until it is all over?
redface bugger...foiled smile
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redface bugger...foiled smile

there's another one, right there!
lp
Now stop it LP you're just getting over excited lol
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Am I being boring in saying I don't think I've actually got one?? I've got fantasies and things I like to *cough* act out...
Is swinging a fetish? dunno

Care to share? redface lol
haha nope! lol
(well not here anyway! surprisedops: )
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redface bugger...foiled smile

I'll get the lard......
and the turkey.........
mmmm clingfilm........
H.x
and there was Fire saying I was overexcited before!!!!
lp