Might be a bit far for you, but there's the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar held during the day on the 3rd Sunday of every month. Google it, and see what you think.
Have no fear Mr AndyWalker.
The fetish scene is generally very accepting of poeple doing and being whatever they please, as long as it is within the bounds of there own rules.
NO means NO is what you'll hear nearly everywhere.
On the fetish scene... it very much rings true.
if you both wanted to sit in a corner wearing banana skins and reading the Times, I'm sure it would be fine.
there should certainly be noooo pressure to anything you wouldnt want to.
if you find a place that youre comfortable enough with to try, come back in here afterwards and tell us all just how wonderfull it was.
lp