I've read on here about various subjects, foot fetishes being one of them, Although I Myself (John) don't share that particular fetish, I do have a liking for women with very short hair, would I describe this as a fetish??? It all depends I suppose, when I swing with other ladies, to be honest, I love it, no matter their particular hair type or whatever, but if the girl has short hair, I guess I just love it that bit better, I know that we all have our likes and dislikes, but wondered what other types of fetishes, that members also have on SH, and how do they meet these needs, does their partner participate or encourage??? do they absolutely hate it and threaten your dangly bits with sharp objects??? hope this provokes a meaningful debate, :bounce:
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I've read on here about various subjects, foot fetishes being one of them, Although I Myself (John) don't share that particular fetish, I do have a liking for women with very short hair, would I describe this as a fetish??? It all depends I suppose, when I swing with other ladies, to be honest, I love it, no matter their particular hair type or whatever, but if the girl has short hair, I guess I just love it that bit better, I know that we all have our likes and dislikes, but wondered what other types of fetishes, that members also have on SH, and how do they meet these needs, does their partner participate or encourage??? do they absolutely hate it and threaten your dangly bits with sharp objects??? hope this provokes a meaningful debate, :bounce:
My fetish, (well one of them) is men with long hair, h/b wont grow his
(hair)Trouble is nowadays if they have long hair their young enough to be my sons :( And just ifthey are that bit older they have either had their cut or its all dropped out :( :( :(
Sex God
My partner, bless her, positively encourages my fetishes but then how do you define a fetish? 
Is it an obsession?
Is it deviant behaviour (at least set against the publicly proclaimed so called moral values of the society we live in)? :shock: :shock:
No doubt one person's fetish is another's poison! :twisted:
My fetish? Er..........................which one? Hmmmmmmmmmmmm, hard to answer :undecided:
I am obsessed though with the idea of catching someone picking their nose at precisely one minute and 29.5 seconds before 6am on the 23rd July 2011, but it's got to be a sunny morning, ok?
Now is that an obsession or a fetish? :confused:
:grin: :grin:
Is it an obsession?
Is it deviant behaviour (at least set against the publicly proclaimed so called moral values of the society we live in)? :shock: :shock:
No doubt one person's fetish is another's poison! :twisted:
My fetish? Er..........................which one? Hmmmmmmmmmmmm, hard to answer :undecided:
I am obsessed though with the idea of catching someone picking their nose at precisely one minute and 29.5 seconds before 6am on the 23rd July 2011, but it's got to be a sunny morning, ok?
Now is that an obsession or a fetish? :confused:
:grin: :grin:
Sex God
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Im just putting the date into my outlook now, can you make it about 8ish though???? 6 is a bit early for me
Oooooooooooooooh! No, no!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
It's gotta be precisely the time I said FFS!
:roll: Now does that qualify as a fetish or an obsession or just plain sad or what? :undecided:
:lol2: :lol2:
Quote by foxylady 123
I've read on here about various subjects, foot fetishes being one of them, Although I Myself (John) don't share that particular fetish, I do have a liking for women with very short hair, would I describe this as a fetish??? It all depends I suppose, when I swing with other ladies, to be honest, I love it, no matter their particular hair type or whatever, but if the girl has short hair, I guess I just love it that bit better, I know that we all have our likes and dislikes, but wondered what other types of fetishes, that members also have on SH, and how do they meet these needs, does their partner participate or encourage??? do they absolutely hate it and threaten your dangly bits with sharp objects??? hope this provokes a meaningful debate, :bounce:
My fetish, (well one of them) is men with long hair, h/b wont grow his
(hair)Trouble is nowadays if they have long hair their young enough to be my sons :( And just ifthey are that bit older they have either had their cut or its all dropped out :( :( :(
You should meet me one day foxy, I have hair for now... (Not thinning.. yet) as for fetishes, is swinging a fetish? Many people would say so, or redheads a fetish? Or oral sex? Shaving, outdoors, uniforms? All of these some would say are normal, others would call a fetish, and I would find interesting :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by Eagerslut9ha haaa got ya ,lol gona shut me curtains gona shut me curtains gona draw me blinds and pick me nose behind<<<<<sung to some silly tune
My partner, bless her, positively encourages my fetishes but then how do you define a fetish?
Is it an obsession?
Is it deviant behaviour (at least set against the publicly proclaimed so called moral values of the society we live in)? :shock: :shock:
No doubt one person's fetish is another's poison! :twisted:
My fetish? Er..........................which one? Hmmmmmmmmmmmm, hard to answer :undecided:
I am obsessed though with the idea of catching someone picking their nose at precisely one minute and 29.5 seconds before 6am on the 23rd July 2011, but it's got to be a sunny morning, ok?
Now is that an obsession or a fetish? :confused:
:grin: :grin:
Sexpert
Well my 2penny-eth would say (after a little thought what I would consider a fetish would be anything involving other materials or particular circumstances or actions outside of the "norm" accepted and cooperated in by the rest of society. Sure, what's accepted will change over time, but only if it's commonly practiced would it lose it's "fetish" status.
I'm not saying it's bad to have a fetish. It's good to have variety and different interests. If it gets as far as being an obsession, when you don't function normally without it or it has to be a certain way for you to enjoy it, then that may be unhealthy.
Using a little common sense of course - I'm sure there are loads of silly things you could come up with to describe perfectly ordinary situations that wouldn't be called an obsession/fetish.
PVC, leather, rubber, uniforms, redheads, doing it outside, bdsm are all fetishes. Just thought of another one - heavy cummers. That doesn't involve anything else but it could still be a specific interest and could be called a fetish in my mind.
I'm not saying it's bad to have a fetish. It's good to have variety and different interests. If it gets as far as being an obsession, when you don't function normally without it or it has to be a certain way for you to enjoy it, then that may be unhealthy.
Using a little common sense of course - I'm sure there are loads of silly things you could come up with to describe perfectly ordinary situations that wouldn't be called an obsession/fetish.
PVC, leather, rubber, uniforms, redheads, doing it outside, bdsm are all fetishes. Just thought of another one - heavy cummers. That doesn't involve anything else but it could still be a specific interest and could be called a fetish in my mind.
