Now then, it goes a little something like this:
being the generally mild mannered chap... not overly aggressive, assertive or domineering in his general demeanor, I had a thought 'pop'into my mind the other day... (a sexual one, please decide whether to read on now, whilst you still have the chance)... that quite took me by suprise.
Very out of character. I shocked myself.
"Surely not lp, how could you even think such a thing.. dismiss it right away, bury it... say not one word to a soul"
so here I am:
:shock:
not too many details, but of late I've been very lucky to be in conversation that has at times explored sexual boundaries and posibilities.
The conversation has flowed freely and easily, scenarios explored, plans made..you know the deal. All very nice, all very saucie and exciting.
but back to this *thought*. Well, from no-where it came, along the lines of some BDSM related play, and more specifically the preperation for an evening out, that may make, for the purposes of the evening, the Lady accompanying me my "possession" for the night, and very obviously "marked" in such a manner as to make it obvious to all that this was the case, and in an overt sexual manner no less!
Role-play may fit as a description of the preperation, and ensuing evening, though it was the manner and approach of this RP that shocked me.
I never actually believed I might be the kind of person to have 'certain' thoughts that could quite easily be considered by some as 'degrading'. That's why I decided to put them to one side, deny them.
However, I brought those very thoughts to the person with whom I'd been chatting, indeed the 'inspiration' for the thought... and it seemed not to shock overly, but rather excite!!!
Now it seems all the more exciting and posible for being exposed... the 'shame' explored, and posibilities expanded upon.
tell me... have you ever shocked yourself with an idea for play that 'came out of no-where' and took you by surprise?
Did you follow the thought to a logical conclusion... or bury it?
Have you something that you might like to bring out, blinking in the cold light of day into the friendly and supportive 'circle' of SH?
lp
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Filthy Thoughts!!! the shame.
Sex God
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tell me... have you ever shocked yourself with an idea for play that 'came out of no-where' and took you by surprise?
Did you follow the thought to a logical conclusion... or bury it?
Have you something that you might like to bring out, blinking in the cold light of day into the friendly and supportive 'circle' of SH?
lp
Erm... yes.
I shock and surprise myself constantly with regards to fantasies and ideas and interests.I have on a number of occasions acted on these impulses. :twisted: Others I have buried... or maybe not buried exactly, more shelved, until the right person, time or otherwise fortuitous occasion comes along.
When I have acted on them, to a large extent I have been plesantly surprised. I think it is this that encourages further thoughts and random exploration ideas to keep popping into my head... if you go so far, then you are encouraged to go further by your own sense of personal satisfaction and pleasure.
I so ain't saying what though... :shock: You might think I'm a right perve...
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tell me... have you ever shocked yourself with an idea for play that 'came out of no-where' and took you by surprise?
Did you follow the thought to a logical conclusion... or bury it?
Have you something that you might like to bring out, blinking in the cold light of day into the friendly and supportive 'circle' of SH?
lp
Erm... yes.
I shock and surprise myself constantly with regards to fantasies and ideas and interests.Same here ... I rarely act on them
ops: but I'm going to try and start writing some of them down and submitting them as stories 
Callie
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.....and then I think what the hell
Exactly!!!
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Doubt it will now
You never know. Must try harder!
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I so ain't saying what though... :shock: You might think I'm a right perve...
We might, but you're amongst friends here, and :looks around: no-ones watching, go ahead.
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I rarely act on them
Callie
Noooo!
Act them out first... to validate your theories!!!
lp
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I rarely act on them
Callie
Noooo!
Act them out first... to validate your theories!!!
lp
Hmm my daring isn't that strong at the moment, I'm easing myself back in gently!
And for some of them you need a willing partner and a lot of trust ;)
