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Finding a Life Partner on Swinging Heaven ?

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Sex God
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hi
i joined this site purely to have sex and lots of it, i wasnt looking for a life partner
however i met gary via here and fell in love and we now live together and are getting married in the future smile
wasnt what i was looking for at all but im so happy and so in love and hes truly wonderful :)
and we have the most fantastic sex/love life too :)
Sex God
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Several people have found life partners here, when they only came to find swinging partners / play mates.
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Quote by danne-gary
hi
i joined this site purely to have sex and lots of it, i wasnt looking for a life partner
however i met gary via here and fell in love and we now live together and are getting married in the future smile
wasnt what i was looking for at all but im so happy and so in love and hes truly wonderful :)
and we have the most fantastic sex/love life too :)

I joined the site for the same reasons and am so glad I did....had a few meets then met danne :)....best thing I ever did she is truly wonderful....and I can't wait to be her hubby :)....will be some sort of do at chams I bet :)....love you lots danne xx xx xx xx
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Indeed yes, I met Caroline through swinging, perhaps not off this site, but certainly through swinging........and last November, we got married.
So love certainly can, and does, blossom amongst the swinging fraternity. smile :)
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I must admit allso it worked for me a while back
sadly it didnt work out and we met from another site
theres allways hope xx
Sex God
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There has been more than 1 wedding born from meeting on this site....
There's always a chance :-)
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hmmmm I too know several people that got together through this site - it really does happen ( to other people!)
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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I think that if you come onto the swinging scene expecting to find love you'd be setting yourself up for heart ache. But, yes it does happen and i personally know 2 couples who've met on the scene and fallen for each other with marriage on the horizon. And isnt that just wonderful? smile
Warming the Bed
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I met Mr M through swinging.. at Chameleons to be precise. We swapped numbers & I didn't think much of it.
Now.. I have moved almost 300 miles to live with him and we are expecting our first little bundle of joy next year :inlove:
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Quote by Mandm09
I met Mr M through swinging.. at Chameleons to be precise. We swapped numbers & I didn't think much of it.
Now.. I have moved almost 300 miles to live with him and we are expecting our first little bundle of joy next year :inlove:

Congrats!
Warming the Bed
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I met Mr M through swinging.. at Chameleons to be precise. We swapped numbers & I didn't think much of it.
Now.. I have moved almost 300 miles to live with him and we are expecting our first little bundle of joy next year :inlove:

Congrats!
Thank you kiss
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I found the love of my life on here, he was the first guy i met and i thought he was fab I just see him and it just gets better and better each time we meet
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Yes, some of us end up not getting rid of our meets!!!!!!!! rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :twisted:
Sex God
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Yes, some of us end up not getting rid of our meets!!!!!!!! rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :twisted:

*hijack*
Lovely to see you around hun. kiss
*end hijack*
Sex God
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It helps if you have magpie tendencies...... rolleyes
Sexlightened
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you could try a couple up method where 2 people get together for mutual fun together you could allways end up finding a lifetime partner that way
trying to get a vanila person to try out the swinging side of fun may not be the best way
Sex God
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Quote by well_busty_babe
Yes, some of us end up not getting rid of our meets!!!!!!!! rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :twisted:

You dragged him off to a beach and married him!!
lol :lol: :lol:
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Quote by Sarah
Yes, some of us end up not getting rid of our meets!!!!!!!! rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :twisted:

You dragged him off to a beach and married him!!
lol :lol: :lol:
and then try and give him away or swap him lol
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I joined this site for a bit of fun and to make friends, which I have to say I've made loads of great friends and the fun has been amazing.
However I meet someone off the site who after a while we decided to become boyfriend/girlfriend and made plans for the future.
However 18 months down the line I found out he was actually married when I meet him, he'd been seeing other single females when he was married and seeing me and telling them much the same thing that he was seperated and waiting for the 2 years to be up to get a divorce. He was giving false names, had 3 different mobile nos, 4 different email addresses and meeting other couples as well. Turned out one of the couples and one of the single females had threatened to report him to his work for his actions. Unfortunately one thing lead to another and I had to report him to the police.
As you can see from the other posts people have found love on here and are very happy and in vanilla life you are still going to get the relationship that work and those that done. Basically life is to short and I intend to make the most of it now.
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is it possible to find a life partner on a site like this? Has anyone? XX Gail

Life-partners? Depends how you define it I suppose, but I'd have to say dunno in our case, seeing as how neither of us are dead just yet! lol ;)
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Yes, some of us end up not getting rid of our meets!!!!!!!! rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :twisted:

I know, I know. Bit of fun you think, arrange a meet, get stalked relentlessy afterwards, and end up moving in together cos the cost of petrol 3 nights a week and the phone bills for the other 4 pretty much pays for an 'ouse. :roll: It's not so bad really is it? ;)
N x x x ;)
Sexlightened
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ONLY two year Hotgirl.
I have been single a lot longer Mmmmmmmmmmm to independent & fussy for my own good lol. Yes i agree you i do miss the cuddles or turning over in bed in morning & watching your partner sleeping, sharing box tissue over sloppy film & yes guys need tissue they just don't admit it lol
At end day when right guy comes along does it matter where you meet them?
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Thanks for the replies - never expected so many to respond. Lovly to hear about love blossoming. Yes, I realize that SH (or any swing site) is not the place to come looking for love and certainly, one doesn't look for strings. On the other hand, after 2 years of being single and 'aving loads of fun, one sometimes misses coming home to someone (or waking up with someone) bot I have to say, I'm addicted to the lifestyle smile LOL - not good for monogamy!! So if not SH where does one find a partner who'd be ok wiv the lifestyle? Sorry it's early AM and I'm rambling
xGail
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Yes, some of us end up not getting rid of our meets!!!!!!!! rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :twisted:

You dragged him off to a beach and married him!!
lol :lol: :lol:
And what a day that was - fab!!
I'm not sure why I'm here now though. confused
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I think you can find "life partners" in any walk of life but swinging has an edge over other activities because of it's intimate nature. However, you're more likely to find someone if you look in the right places, for example . ;-)
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I'm not sure why I'm here now though. confused

So your pals who aren't in your "real life" world, can stay in touch? kiss
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I wonder how many really ARE in a relationship but pretend they're only swinging partners and vice versa? dunno
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...or how many specifically use one as a hook to find the other?
lp
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Not as many as you'd like to think :dry:
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I've always thought that you're most likely to find love when you're not looking for it.
I think that's the reason for people finding each other on here.