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With all this love in the air.. can anyone remember their first 'love'? when I say love I mean all kinds (depends the age at the time) like the valentine sense or the first rush of really liking someone and what age were you? what can you remember of that person - can you remember what they looked like?
Mine was the age of 9, he made me a home made Easter card with a five pence piece stuck inside (back then they were big 5p's! :shock: ), in this card he put loads of kisses and told me he loved me. I cannot remember what he looked like.
My mother found the card and put it in the bin - she said I was too young for love :cry:
By the time I was 15 I had never ever received a Valentine's Card and every girl in the class always received one, so together with my best friend I bought and wrote one out and she left it on my desk. Everyone was so excited for me to have received the card. That afternoon, my so called best friend told my classmates what I had done. :cry: :cry: :sticky:
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The first girl i remember liking was called Ruby, we went to playgroup together. I remember she had really red lips and the most beautiful eyes. Thats all i remember about her.
My first love was a girl called Gemma. I was in *love* with her a long but she eventually broke my heart. Shes a bitch now rolleyes I think i was 14 at the time.
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Mine was at around 10 years old at middle school when a boy told me he was only going to chase me during kiss chase in the playground. I had my first proper snog with him 4 years later.
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I was eight (I think confused ) well in junior school anyway when I fancied the first boy. He didn't get to be my boyfriend coz he couldn't decide on me or my twin :cry:
he never did decide between us as he decided to ask our best friend out :twisted:
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I had my first proper boyfriend at the age of 15. We lasted for 3 and a half years, and eventually I left him for someone else. He used to write me long letters full of doodles and I used to read them before I went to sleep at night.
We remained friends after the split. He moved in with me and my current fella for a while. We all got on well. Eventually, he moved back to Nottingham. After remaining single for 10 years, he now has a child with his new girlfriend. He's still my best friend and knows me better than anyone else. You only have that kind of friendship a few times in your life if you are lucky. I wish him all the love in the world and thank him for being there.
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are you toying with me Jaymar with all this love stuff lol
i would say i have females friends that i remember from 15-16 (late blommer but that another story)
first love was first G/F we dated for about 9 months till she left me because i gave her so much more confidence than we first got together. (did get a really great letter from her and her mum as before we met she had real relationship problems which i help her get over)
hmm i wonder what she is doing now smile
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Mine was Stormwalker redface I met him for the first time when I was 5. He could do things like catch slow worms and knew exciting games like murder in the dark worship He was my hero and still is
Love
Fire xx
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Mine was Stormwalker redface I met him for the first time when I was 5. He could do things like catch slow worms and knew exciting games like murder in the dark worship He was my hero and still is
Love
Fire xx

I was a lot faster then surprisedops:
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Mine was Stormwalker redface I met him for the first time when I was 5. He could do things like catch slow worms and knew exciting games like murder in the dark worship He was my hero and still is
Love
Fire xx

Awwwwwww how sweet is that kiss
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My 1st love i nearly married but split up due to me being a way in army for so long, we both married other people and now split from them, but we text every day still and are best mates but dont meet up
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Mine was Stormwalker redface I met him for the first time when I was 5. He could do things like catch slow worms and knew exciting games like murder in the dark worship He was my hero and still is
Love
Fire xx

And then you met up again and fell in love or were you in touch all that time? Either way, that is so romantic to have met you loved one all those years ago and end up being together :inlove:
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Define "in Love". dunno
Looking back, I was never really in love with the man I married, I loved him, yes but that "bells ringing, breathless, heart stopping thing" never really happened. That lasted 15 years. Then serious relationship No 2 came along. I met him on here in 2004, wasn't looking, just one of those things that happenend, thought I was "in love" still sometimes do but again, I didn't have that "bells ringing, breathless, heart stopping thing". Cannot recall anything pre aged 18, playground crushes and such like lol. Guess, all in all I've never really been "in love" I've loved but that's different smile
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No body can Varca, that's the thing... being "in love" is a different experience for each and every individual. That's why I put in my post "in love" as being what ever feeling you had from years back. I couldn't sit here and tell you that you love your partner the same way as I do mine, it's bound to be different, unique to you only. wink
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are you toying with me Jaymar with all this love stuff lol
i would say i have females friends that i remember from 15-16 (late blommer but that another story)
first love was first G/F we dated for about 9 months till she left me because i gave her so much more confidence than we first got together. (did get a really great letter from her and her mum as before we met she had real relationship problems which i help her get over)
hmm i wonder what she is doing now smile
aaw bless ya - certainly not kiss
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Quote by varca
Define "in Love". dunno
Looking back, I was never really in love with the man I married, I loved him, yes but that "bells ringing, breathless, heart stopping thing" never really happened. That lasted 15 years. Then serious relationship No 2 came along. I met him on here in 2004, wasn't looking, just one of those things that happenend, thought I was "in love" still sometimes do but again, I didn't have that "bells ringing, breathless, heart stopping thing". Cannot recall anything pre aged 18, playground crushes and such like lol. Guess, all in all I've never really been "in love" I've loved but that's different smile
Fire and Stormy worship Ohhh so lovely kiss

No body can Varca, that's the thing... being "in love" is a different experience for each and every individual. That's why I put in my post "in love" as being what ever feeling you had from years back. I couldn't sit here and tell you that you love your partner the same way as I do mine, it's bound to be different, unique to you only. wink
I'm told it'll just sneak up on me one day... maybe when I stop dodging those cupids arrows lol. You're right I'm sure, each experience is different and we content ourselves in many different ways biggrin
I'm sure it will, you are beautiful and deserve to be loved and in love :kiss:
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well heres mine lol, i was plagued by a girl in school, sending me love letters in all the class`s and everyone new what was happening, and i was really not into that kind of thing then, in those days it was really just boys stuff you know what i mean guys, but she has turned into such a beautilfull babe now, and i wish i could see as much of her now, as i ever saw of her then
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well heres mine lol, i was plagued by a girl in school, sending me love letters in all the class`s and everyone new what was happening, and i was really not into that kind of thing then, in those days it was really just boys stuff you know what i mean guys, but she has turned into such a beautilfull babe now, and i wish i could see as much of her now, as i ever saw of her then
r1rider

Oh no there's that 'babe' word... Louise over here!.. lol Seriously tho, I love it when you have the duckling to swan thing going on with a woman (or man to be fair) and they grow up to be so damned attractive that the people who ridiculed them at school are left with their tongues hanging out.. :grin:
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Ahhhh my first 'real' love, I remember her very well indeed. I still see her from time to time.
I was 15 when I met her; she was 22 and a friend of the family.
I was completely besotted with her for almost a year and had resigned myself to the fact that nothing would ever happen between us. After all she was several years older than I was, straight (or so she thought lol) and a policewoman. Although I was very mature for my age I had only just turned 16.
But those feelings of not being able to eat or sleep and being so excited when she came round are easy to recall, I still have a soft spot for her in a way.
To cut a soppy and tumultuous story short - after months and months of lusting after her we finally got it together, what a night that was. :inlove:
We were together for 2 years and then she moved away due to work and I was in a band so couldn’t move with her, I was utterly shattered inside. We tried the long-distance relationship but it just didn't work.
I've never had my heart broken since and don't fancy ever feeling that way ever again, it took me a very long time to get over her.
We ended up sharing a house a few years later when she moved back to the area. It wasn't weird at all as we were very good friends and the sex was still good. :lol:
I haven't seen her for a while now but my mum always gives me an update if she has been around to visit.
One legacy from our relationship though has been my fetish for policewomen in uniform ever since.
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my first love was a girl called ester she sat next to me in class,she used to touch me under my desk,wot a wonderful feeling its was,we were both 7 or eight at the time,it all stopped one day when she moved away,i broke my many years later standing at a bar,i heard a voice behind me and a rattling noise,i turned round and there was ester,holding a charity tin and wearing a salvation army uniform, redface
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Mine was Stormwalker redface I met him for the first time when I was 5. He could do things like catch slow worms and knew exciting games like murder in the dark worship He was my hero and still is
Love
Fire xx

And then you met up again and fell in love or were you in touch all that time? Either way, that is so romantic to have met you loved one all those years ago and end up being together :inlove:
I married someone else who lived nearer and Stormy went to live abroad and we finally got together when he got back to England and I ran away to Cornwall from my very unhappy marriage. When he was out of the country, even though I was married to someone else I felt like part of me was missing :cry:
Love
Fire xx
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me or my twin :cry:

you mean there's two of those bums? wink sillyhwoar:
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