first meet - and a little problem

28 Jun 2006

I have just had my first meet off this site. Was careful and everything, followed all advice about telling people where I was going etc.
And it was fantastic!!!! Really enjoyed myself, looking forward to doing it again!!!
Anyway, my little problem is pushy men.
I've got 10 people on my MSN from this site. Most brilliant people - my instincts about them are good up to now. However, 1 person is doing my head in!!! I arranged to meet him for a quick drink. However, unluckily at work that day, I fell off a ladder and dislocated my shoulder - was silly, stretching too far, wobbly base, you know the rest!!!
Being the polite person that I am - I left this guy a text saying really sorry in casualty etc etc, thinking nothing more off it. Get home from casualty - 6 hours later - nightmare!!!! - 5 emails, 2 text messages. Oh thats sweet I thought wanting to make sure I'm ok. No - can you still come round? Oh I really want to see you.
Turns on my msn and he's there - bombarding me with messages getting to go round. I'm on a completely different planet, due to the morphine when they pulled my arm back in, and he's wanting me to go round.
In the end I blocked him, so now he's just texting me all the time. Sorry this is a long one,
Infact its so long I forgot what my point was!!!!
confused

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28 Jun 2006

Send him a polite but firm text letting him know that you think he's being a bit too desperate and asking him to back off a bit... if he doesn't back off tell him if he texts you again you'll report it... and if he texts again after that follow through with it... your phone company should be able to help... and good luck
Now this is the reason a number of swingers I know have a different phone for their swinging activities... you only switch it on when you want to like your msn and it doesn't interfere with your "everyday" life

28 Jun 2006

That's a bummer!......just tell him not to text you anymore and that you are no longer interested!

28 Jun 2006

It sounds to me like you have had a narrow escape. There is something seriously wrong with a man who is more interested in getting his leg over than the fact that you have just spent half the day in casulty !!!
I personally stop all contact at the first sign of pushy behaviour, there are too many decent men around to put up with arseholes
I hope your shoulder gets better soon xxxxx

28 Jun 2006

Quote by redangel
However, unluckily at work that day, I fell off a ladder and dislocated my shoulder

Can't really say much more than whats already been said but you can have a belated :therethere: from me as I dislocated my shoulder a while back and it fookin hurt like hell :crazy: :cry:

28 Jun 2006

Tell me about it - was nearly sick when the doctor pushed it back. Not the pain - they gave me morphine - but that horrid noise it made. Urggghh

28 Jun 2006

Quote by redangel
Tell me about it - was nearly sick when the doctor pushed it back. Not the pain - they gave me morphine - but that horrid noise it made. Urggghh

I was ard me no pain killers I just bit the back of my hand :shock: :hunk:
of course thats bollox I cried like a little girl I was in that much pain redface

In my defence there was other injuries including broken ribs 3 of. :cry: