After the disappointment of a fake last week, this week we have a time and hotel arranged for a meet. Both of us are looking forward to meeting the guy we have picked but are both still concerned about std's. He'll wear a condom for sex but what about blowjobs. Some advice please.
i have never used a condom for a blow job, to be fair if u expect him to put a condom on surly u should cover up b4 he goes down on u? other wise its a bit onesided not sure how that would work to be honest lol Its each to their own i suppose but i have never cought anything from giving unprotected oral, if u that nervous just don't do it or tell him to cover up but as i said b4 if u ask him to cover up u can't expect him to go down on u unprotected
Quote by nick & paula After the disappointment of a fake last week, this week we have a time and hotel arranged for a meet. Both of us are looking forward to meeting the guy we have picked but are both still concerned about std's. He'll wear a condom for sex but what about blowjobs. Some advice please.
Blowing is ok, but dont suck too hard, knew a gal who nearly choked on 2 extra marbles in her mouth once :shock:
Quote by nick & paula so u can catch std's from blowjobs
Yes you can. And if you need to ask advice about this sort of thing IMHO you are not ready for meeting people - you need to do some more homework so you can make informed decisions about something that could seriously effect your life. You only have choices if you are aware of the options!
I have to agree with Polo Lady on this one..... you do seem a little unprepared..... take your time... read up on std's.... types and how they are contracted..... I would think that you've probably done a lot of talking and thinking about this first meet.... make sure that you have set your boundaries and that you stick to them.... and if anyone isn't enjoying the experience..... stop.... Only my opinion.... for what its worth..... equi-princess xxx
If you have doubts about blow jobs ask him to wear a condom if he's genuine & wants to play with the pair of you he will except your wishes At the end of the day its your game & your rules :P Hope you have fun .
Nick n Paula - Firstly to say good luck and have fun but secondly I completely agree with Polo and Equi - check out for some useful tips. People on SH have a broad spectrum of opinion on use of condoms etc etc so although its great that u'r seeking advice you really ought to use your own judgement. have fun, HertsGuy30s
Quote by nick & paula After the disappointment of a fake last week, this week we have a time and hotel arranged for a meet. Both of us are looking forward to meeting the guy we have picked but are both still concerned about std's. He'll wear a condom for sex but what about blowjobs. Some advice please.
Not a worry now. I think we had another timewaster. We had the time and place sorted and he's just email to say he can't make it, we've sorted everything out and we're really looking forward to it. i did read the 'information' section on the site about sexual health and that has answered a lot of our questions. Thanks everyone for your advice. Now we just need advice on avoiding timewasters.
Everyone comes across timewasters guys but do bear in mind that some people do have genuine reasons for calling off meets, and as someone once said to me in our lifestyle you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince and/or princess. Good luck with your search though guys
Quote by steveup4itinberks If in any doubt at all... put 2 condoms on his little man to be sure to be sure
i think you may find the 2 condoms are not as safe as one,if you were meant to use two they would but it on the box You are definitely not supposed to use 2 condoms. They will rub against each other, causing friction and increasing risk of breakage.
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