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After being on the site for ages now and lurking about on the forums not being able to get onto the chatrooms (no javascript on our computer and it wont dowload from flash site :cry: ), me and Miss SRNE (Rachy) went to our first munch/social at the pink triangle in newcastle last night and it was great!!
At first we were very nervous walked into the pub looking for "swingers" (what do they look like :shock: ) and were a little worried as everyone in there looked like NORMAL PEOPLE :shock: not a stereotypical swinger in sight biggrin . We stood around not daring to ask "are you a swinger from SHeaven?" in case we recieved a swift slap from the non swinging clientelle of the pub!
Anyway, then a lady walked over to us and asked that very question :shock: "thank God you asked that" we thought as i had been wondering how i could find a way to casually drop it into the conversation with the people around us without offending should they not be from the site. It was non other than the hostess with the mostess Mrs necpluk who put us at ease straight away and introduced us to eveyone (thanks honey passionkiss ).
From there on we had a great night, didnt get round to chatting to everybody as we were far to pissed to coherently string a sentence together without fear of embarrasment but the folks we did chat to were ace and very very friendly, big thanks to Bloke2005 (top man) and of course necpluk for organising it and giving us a chance to meet a few of the people we have chatted to on here!!
For other user who have not been to a munch and are nervous or unsure we definately cannot recomend it highly enough, if all the others are that good we may be vieing for the title of munch groupies pretty soon!!
Next time though i will possibly NOT wear a tank top lol , the blonde lady i was speaking to (sorry your name has disapeared from my memory in a drunken haze redface but mail us and we'll chat u were a top bananna wink ) advised me of my fashion faux pas :wink:
SteanRachy..xx
lovely post, glad you had a fab time biggrin
For other user who have not been to a munch and are nervous or unsure we definately cannot recomend it highly enough,

:thumbup:
Quote by Darkfire
lovely post, glad you had a fab time biggrin
For other user who have not been to a munch and are nervous or unsure we definately cannot recomend it highly enough,

:thumbup:
Agree with Darkfire, and glad Srne enjoyed the social.
Got to admit to still being nervous when going to a munch or social though redface
Glad you had a good time. :thumbup:
Choon :notes: to leave all his tank tops behind fer Notts munch!
We going to our first in january and i'm counting the days :bounce: and i also scared :scared: at the same time lol
redface
Tank top? dunno
we've got our first one lined up for march. already nervous, excited and really looking forward to it.
it's a big step to take. it's all well and good writing posts and flirting in the chat room but to meet REAL swingers well that's some thing else!!!!
so for those of you going to the bristol munch - please be kind to us,,
h & c
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we've got our first one lined up for march. already nervous, excited and really looking forward to it.
it's a big step to take. it's all well and good writing posts and flirting in the chat room but to meet REAL swingers well that's some thing else!!!!
so for those of you going to the bristol munch - please be kind to us,,
h & c

no need to worry h n c we thought all kinds of stuff as well, but when we got there it was great, far better than expected, sure you will have a fab time and everyone was nice at the pink triangle meet an im sure it will be so at yours!! biggrin
hiya was nice to meet yas glad u enjoyed the night, nice add btw!!!
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We going to our first in january and i'm counting the days :bounce: and i also scared :scared: at the same time lol

Ooooo you get to meet Meeeeeeee!! :lol: :bounce: :bounce: :twisted:
Glad you had a good time.
Nerves happen more before the event than during it. Once you get there, nerves just seem to float away when you realise how friendly people are smile
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We going to our first in january and i'm counting the days :bounce: and i also scared :scared: at the same time lol

Ooooo you get to meet Meeeeeeee!! :lol: :bounce: :bounce: :twisted:
:shock: please be gental with me im fragile :lol:
Yes, lose the tank top... in fact, lose the lot and come naked next time - you are almostperfect :rascal:
But seriously, it was a pleasure to meet you both last night - although parts of it are a complete blur I do remember having a semi-intelligent conversation about something, before Billie Piper stole the show with your lovely girlfriend lol
:giggle:
x
i should be going to my first which it the not quite valentine munch, im now a single guy and have never been nervous going into social situations of any kind but this will be different. but from all i read and chat in forum im sure i will be made very welcome.
You may have just convinced us to take the plunge and put our names down for our first munch too.
Great to hear these comments, so glad you enjoyed yourselves....
.....a fab site.......and fab people (mad but fab) :inlove:
Mrs Grif x
I'm going to my first munch in Notts in 2 weeks :shock:
Scared? Me?
Fuck aye ! :scared:
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I'm going to my first munch in Notts in 2 weeks :shock:
Scared? Me?
Fuck aye ! :scared:

Hmmm sassy your going to notts :rascal:
redface
Tank top? dunno

Ahemmmmmmmmmmm!
Will someone purleeeeeease enlighten me?????? lol
One of these, Winchy. Apparently they're all the rage lol

Mal
cool
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm going to my first munch in Notts in 2 weeks :shock:
Scared? Me?
Fuck aye ! :scared:

Sassy! lol stop it hun, it'll be fine, you'll love it, and kick yourself for being a wuss within 10 minutes of being in there! kiss
Quote by winchwench
redface
Tank top? dunno

Ahemmmmmmmmmmm!
Will someone purleeeeeease enlighten me?????? lol
I turned up wearing a tank top and shirt, blissfully unaware that it is the subject of much piss taking and tom foolery in the chatrooms surprisedops:
Me thinking i was looking hot to trot while being the subject of some (very friendly) ribbing :lol:
I can take it iv got broad shoulders wink
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redface
Tank top? dunno

Ahemmmmmmmmmmm!
Will someone purleeeeeease enlighten me?????? lol
I turned up wearing a tank top and shirt, blissfully unaware that it is the subject of much piss taking and tom foolery in the chatrooms surprisedops:
Me thinking i was looking hot to trot while being the subject of some (very friendly) ribbing :lol:
I can take it iv got broad shoulders wink
Hence the tank top? :lol:
And here was me thinking it was a "hanky in the pocket" type code!
Quote by winchwench
redface
Tank top? dunno

Ahemmmmmmmmmmm!
Will someone purleeeeeease enlighten me?????? lol
I turned up wearing a tank top and shirt, blissfully unaware that it is the subject of much piss taking and tom foolery in the chatrooms surprisedops:
Me thinking i was looking hot to trot while being the subject of some (very friendly) ribbing :lol:
I can take it iv got broad shoulders wink
Hence the tank top? :lol:
And here was me thinking it was a "hanky in the pocket" type code!
No wench but there was some discussion about a SHeaven handshake for first time munchers and regs alike so you didnt walk into a place thinking about how you might broach the subject of wether or not they were from the site!! :shock:
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I can take it ....

I DO hope so wink
Do excuse the hijack........but, Im bored- so out of curiosit I just Googled "gay hankey colours"
FFS!!
How the hell is anyone supposed to remember that??
How to spot a gay guy- he's the one with a reference book under his arm the size of war & feckin peace!
:shock:
Hijack over!
Quote by winchwench
redface
Tank top? dunno

Ahemmmmmmmmmmm!
Will someone purleeeeeease enlighten me?????? lol

innocent
Quote by Darkfire
I'm going to my first munch in Notts in 2 weeks :shock:
Scared? Me?
Fuck aye ! :scared:

Sassy! lol stop it hun, it'll be fine, you'll love it, and kick yourself for being a wuss within 10 minutes of being in there! kiss
You know im sure i posted in here now its gone.
Anyway went to my first munch in Sept which was yours Dark and i was bricking it before hand but you are right once i got there it was great and since i have been to one more and two socials. Like opening the floodgates really :lol:
And im going to Notts in Jan, the NW in Feb and the Bristol in March and i can't wait :lol:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
redface
Tank top? dunno

Ahemmmmmmmmmmm!
Will someone purleeeeeease enlighten me?????? lol

innocent
I know what they look like ya dopey bint rolleyes
But seriously.....what fine examples of manhood!
Proof indeed that men can pose without their cocks out! :giggle:
Hi Srne
Before November we had been to a couple of socials organised by ourselves - just friends mostly, not open to all.......... more invitation only socials.
We went to our first Munch in November gone. It was Pussygalore's and although we didn’t really know what to expect, we were happy to find lots of people we knew. We had a great night.
Our next experience was at Wigan. NWC's Christmas Munch. This time we really didn’t know what to expect. We barely knew anyone, but of course we had chatted to people in rooms etc, but hadn’t met them face to face.
We had booked a hotel, so that bit was fine.
A couple we did know (Ian and Dawnie) that were going sent us a txt and asked us to join them in the bar for a drink, where we met a few of the people who were going that night (thx u 2 for that). That simple act of friendship made us feel a little easier about the evening. We organised getting a taxi and Dammie and LHBcame with us (lovely people).
And so onto the Munch.
We walked into the hall and received a great welcome from Gingerjolee. She gave us our badges and we headed straight for the bar, got our drinks and found a seat near some of the people we had met that afternoon.
Laff took it all in his stride, but I was in awe all the people who are on the same site as us. I think I was scared because my mouth was open most of the night. Then Fabiocame over and sat with us for a while and relaxed me. He found some friends of ours and after that the evening was fun. I danced with and chatted to a few more people, then before I knew it, it was time for us to get our taxi back to the hotel.
Thanks to all who we met and made us welcome - a little late but we appreciated it and still do.
Were off to our next Munch in February - “North West Munch” - and we cant wait. I have bought the dress!! (this time I’m not going in jeans and a nice top - its PVC all the way) so if anyone is going to this 1 please feel free to come say hello to us.
Ramble, ramble, ramble - sorry if u got bored half way through but I never know when to stop.
ah happy endings they make it all worthwhile biggrin