First party tomorrow night...

14 Jul 2006

We're going in. biggrin

Made contact with hosts - who sound great. We know what we're wearing, where we're going... The place looks ace...
Very nervous, though. I'm sure we'll be given the tour and made to feel at ease, and all. But - it's equally exciting and scary to be stepping into totally new territory like this. smile

We'll post something on how it went sometime on Sunday, but for now - wish us luck. :D

14 Jul 2006

Good luck sure you will have great time,we still bit nervous over trying party xx

14 Jul 2006

good luck but i tell u now there will b no turning back ull have such a good eve ull never look back but good luck xxx

15 Jul 2006

Hope you had a good night..
xanaisx

16 Jul 2006

We're back and... it was okay.
The venue was terrific - lots of play areas, all absolutely spotless. Incredibly friendly welcome and a superb first-timers' tour. smile

An initial slightly weirded-out feeling disappeared very quickly, as we got talking to one of the owners who made it absolutely clear how he wanted the place to keep its reputation as a no-pressure party and explained the differences between couples-only and single-men nights.
After an hour or so, the atmosphere seemed to slowly shift from a big house party to something more sexual.
Wandering around, we'd been passing another couple regularly and saying hello. After sitting down and watching a movie, the couple passed by and went into a nearby play-room, and we both watched - and listened.
Feeling horny, we went to find a play-room we'd seen earlier - with a sex-swing. But it was taken, so we sat down in the really relaxed living-room area - where another couple came over and we got talking.
It was their fourth party and we chatted about how it was our first time and our likes/dislikes. She said she was bicurious - and, sadly, because my wife had decided she'd be more into play with men than women, it was a tiny bit awkward and the chemistry didn't really kick.
I think we'd picked a really busy night for our first party - there must have been around 100 couples there! - and, just at the point where I wanted to start to approach a few couples and chat, my wife just wanted to get me in one of the rooms... biggrin

But they were all taken - with sort of informal queues milling around outside. sad

So we drove home and... :D :D
I dunno. I'm not disappointed, because I knew the first time would be a bit of a test-the-water process. We're both smart, confident people, but for some reason, didn't feel hugely comfortable instigating conversations - probably because it was /so/ busy, and, from snatches of conversation, there was a definite sense of it being mostly a hardened swingers night.
We'll definitely go again - there were some great-looking women/men/couples there and I am a bit pissed off that we weren't more blatant.
But I'm sure the confidence will come as we go to more parties, though...
Thanks for the words of support, by the way...
:D