first post

4 Jan 2004

hi there
im a newbie to this forum, my first post
ive been looking at the other parts of the site mostly the ads for couples or women seeking guys, ive even posted one myself on the guys looking for women, ive also sent a lot of emails to people advertiseing but i have had very little responce and those who have responded have either bailed out or i do fit their requirements sad

now i really do not want to put the message across that i am upset or confused about the fact that people do not find other people attractive (namely me), and i totally understand that members are not going to meet up with people that they do not find attractive
looking through the pages of this forum there seems to be quite a few guys but not a great deal of women? surprised

, the threads on "meet up" forum are mostly from guys and slip off the board with no posts so i know this is a problem for most of the single guys on here so i thought id throw up a thread to say hi smile

to all of the girls and couples on this site and let them know im here!
happy new year and good luck for 2004
regards, frankie

4 Jan 2004

A warm welcome, Frankie from Kent! Have fun in the forum!
There have been similar posts to yours and the advice, though it remains the same, is pretty damn good from the forum members.
The more you post here the more people will get to know you and you them. Keep it polite, but join in the banter - they are a brilliant crowd in here and all are worth getting to know.
As for responses to ads, give it time. The responses will come to you, and if people don't reply back or back out of meetings, don't take it to heart. (They might have genuine reasons or not, but not everybody says.) Just keep with it.
All the best
Sappho xxx

4 Jan 2004

Welcome! As has been said before on this forum many times, there are many more single guys looking to hook up than there are couples or single females. This is true, not only on this site, but throughout the swinging and dogging scene generally. All you can do really is be patient and honest and sooner or later you will achieve success. As far as this site is concerned, you really do get out of it what you put in. Many of us on here have no time for those who think that swingers by definition are easy lays. Some of us are, but ALL of us expect to be treated with respect. That's all us tarts ask for really, oh and a big dick wink

:wink: :wink:

4 Jan 2004

hi saffo/blue
yes its not easy writing emails or this thread without sounding like spam eh!
and its even harder trying to "get to know" someone over the internet, i go on a few other forums that are car related and i can tell you that when you meet someone at a club meet who you thought you knew quie well are actually very diffrent from what you thought they would be, we all have a "persona" on the net and this is what we get to know rather than a person mabey
regards, frankie

4 Jan 2004

Hi Frankie
As another single male i agree that there is a lot of us.
As in life we need a lot of patience and above all be yourself be polite and hopefully the genuine replies will come.
Listen to the advice given by the knowledgable, kind people here.
Enjoy your time with us.
:haha: :haha: :haha: :haha:

4 Jan 2004

Hi Frankie and welcome!
I will not repeat the excellent advice offered above, merely endorse it.
I hope you find what you are looking for. In the meantime, relax, join in and have some fun.

4 Jan 2004

Welcome from me too.
Nothing to add except:
If you get stuck, annoyed, confused or worried then ask a Mods, the regulars and the 'once-in-a-whiles' - the answer/help will be out there. Never failed yet.
Be patience and polite.
:high-smile: wave

4 Jan 2004

Hi Frankie and welcome wave

I too am a newbie in these parts, but Ive just thrown myself into it, created a role for myself (Head of Security (Northern Division)) and I'm really enjoying myself. So much so that I am not looking for anything from this site other than to continue to have a laugh with the people I have met here and those I have yet to meet.
So, let me check your ID Card then jump aboard !!!!!! lol

:lol:

4 Jan 2004

And WHO checked your ID Bilko??????????
Show me please.........
lol

:lol:

4 Jan 2004

Hiya Frankie,
Good luck in finding what you're looking for. I'm relatively new the forum too and everyone is nice and helpful. My advice of the day is.. be patient. :lickface:

4 Jan 2004

Quote by Jags
And WHO checked your ID Bilko??????????:

It was Wilma....................At least that's what she said she was doing redface

ops:

4 Jan 2004

Quote by Sgt Bilko
And WHO checked your ID Bilko??????????:

It was Wilma....................At least that's what she said she was doing redface

ops:

Did she ask you to cough???
Think she MIGHT have been lying to you - all in the best possible cause though.

:rotflmao:

4 Jan 2004

Quote by Jags
And WHO checked your ID Bilko??????????:

It was Wilma....................At least that's what she said she was doing redface

ops:

Did she ask you to cough???
Think she MIGHT have been lying to you - all in the best possible cause though.

:rotflmao:
That may be the case but I'm surprised we didn't hear the scream from here when she stamped his pass as valid !
Carpathian

4 Jan 2004

Hi One Guy and welcome,
I'm pretty new to the site too (and pretty good looking and pretty good in... only joking), and all I can do is echo the comments of all the other people!
Sit back, relax and join the fun! After a short while you actually forget your on a swingers site and just log on to see what everyone has to say/been up to etc, I guess now, after a couple of weeks on the site, meeting someone would be just be a bonus.
Anyway, they're my views, yours may be different! All that said tho, there is a certain amount of naughtiness in the forum off certain members, not mentioning any names, but some more than others! Isn't that right Blue!!!
Well, I'll stop going on now, have fun and enjoy!
M biggrin