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Male half of couple here. Our first experience was about three years ago now. Looking back, we were lucky to meet such an amazing couple on our first time. We started in the May or June of that year because Nat had her first bi experience on New Years Eve of that year and it had been playing on her mind rather ever since. She suggested swinging as a good way for her to meet bi ladies and also it meant I wouldn't be left out.
Anyway, we put an ad on Dirty David I think it was (before the profile thingy they have on there now) and our first reply was from a couple who lived in deepest North Wales. They couldn't send us a photo, as they didn't have a computer and were getting a friend to answer emails for them. Now, if we had a reply like that these days, it would probably have spelled timewaster or pic collector or something. Anyway, we gave them our phone number and talked to an extremely bubbly Welsh lady and her partner. As they lived a fair way from us, we arranged to meet them in Llandudno in Witherspoons. We were soooo nervous going into that bar, which was massive bearing in mind we had no idea who we were looking for.
Luckily they knew us and grabbed us as we got into the door. They turned out to be a super couple, very attractive, friendly and totally sex mad. After a couple of hours chatting over drinks, I and the other lady got back from the bar to Nat and the other guy to find they had made all the arrangements and the other couple were coming back to our house! That was so exciting, that first time, for both of us, the drive back to our house.
Well they stayed for most of the weekend and we even all slept together in the same bed that night, luckily we have a king size but even then it was "cosy". We were their first couple too, and we still see them after three years. They are among our best friends now and helped us move house when we came to live in Chester.
Anyway, we put an ad on Dirty David I think it was (before the profile thingy they have on there now) and our first reply was from a couple who lived in deepest North Wales. They couldn't send us a photo, as they didn't have a computer and were getting a friend to answer emails for them. Now, if we had a reply like that these days, it would probably have spelled timewaster or pic collector or something. Anyway, we gave them our phone number and talked to an extremely bubbly Welsh lady and her partner. As they lived a fair way from us, we arranged to meet them in Llandudno in Witherspoons. We were soooo nervous going into that bar, which was massive bearing in mind we had no idea who we were looking for.
Luckily they knew us and grabbed us as we got into the door. They turned out to be a super couple, very attractive, friendly and totally sex mad. After a couple of hours chatting over drinks, I and the other lady got back from the bar to Nat and the other guy to find they had made all the arrangements and the other couple were coming back to our house! That was so exciting, that first time, for both of us, the drive back to our house.
Well they stayed for most of the weekend and we even all slept together in the same bed that night, luckily we have a king size but even then it was "cosy". We were their first couple too, and we still see them after three years. They are among our best friends now and helped us move house when we came to live in Chester.
i was thinking that it may be a good topic for others to read what your experiences are. This is a great site and many may have not experienced what you have, so if your willing to share please comment on your first swinging experience.
unfortunately i cannot comment as i have not met with other couples only single females, however i am still looking for my first experience with another couple! lol
Chris[/quote
Hi Scot_etc;
Already a place for this in Swingers Stories... have a look there..
Cheers
Paul
unfortunately i cannot comment as i have not met with other couples only single females, however i am still looking for my first experience with another couple! lol
Chris[/quote
Hi Scot_etc;
Already a place for this in Swingers Stories... have a look there..
Cheers
Paul
Sex God
Hmm I was thinking about posting something like this myself. I'd say let's not restrict it to good experiences, but tell us about the ones where you've lost your nerve and not gone through with it or changed your mind and pulled out as well.
The reason being that there have been a few posts over the last couple of months from people who are worried they will get trapped into a situation and feel pressured to go along with anything.
I think we should also use this thread to highlight the fact that you can always say no if you're uncomfortable with any situation you're in.
Sorry for the serious post. Normal clap-trap will resume shortly.
The reason being that there have been a few posts over the last couple of months from people who are worried they will get trapped into a situation and feel pressured to go along with anything.
I think we should also use this thread to highlight the fact that you can always say no if you're uncomfortable with any situation you're in.
Sorry for the serious post. Normal clap-trap will resume shortly.
Hey all,
Well believe it or not I started to reply to this thread this morning and as I got to the end of the story I lost it
, so here gos again.
Our first swinging experience, we came to the UK in 1997 on a 2 year working holiday from Zimbabwe, there isnt a swinging scene there so we were like reall green. We signed up on AOL and spent alot of time in the chatrooms where we got our first exposure to the scene. After a while we met a lady on line and she was great, her partner never really seemed to come online. One day she figured that we werent from UK and asked if she could call and chat as she loved the South African accent. I sent her our phone number but thought that we would never hear from her. At that point I still thought that the swinging scene was a joke and that no one really made contact, all talk you know what I much to my amazement she colled 5 mins later and we chatted. She asked if we had ever been to Bristol and Bath, thats where they were. I said no and she said we should come spend the week end, she chatted to Mrs B for a bit and they made arrangements to go down the next week end.
Well the next week end we took the coach to Bath and her hubby collected us from the terminal. We got to the house and chatted and got to know each other a little better and then that night after the kids had gone to bed we sat with the lights turned down chatting and drinking wine. Next thing my mrs and our new friends were snogging and gropping and I sat there like an idiot still not getting the message. After a bit they moved over to me and started on me. I couldnt believe it, I was in heaven. We spent a few week ends together.
It was great but then we went back to Zim and by the time we came back circumstances had changed. We never had the chance to do it again as My mrs sort of fell out of the scene but recently she has started showing more interest so I am holding thumbs.
Anyway that our story I do hope I havnt bored you all to death.
Zim :taz:
Well believe it or not I started to reply to this thread this morning and as I got to the end of the story I lost it
, so here gos again. Our first swinging experience, we came to the UK in 1997 on a 2 year working holiday from Zimbabwe, there isnt a swinging scene there so we were like reall green. We signed up on AOL and spent alot of time in the chatrooms where we got our first exposure to the scene. After a while we met a lady on line and she was great, her partner never really seemed to come online. One day she figured that we werent from UK and asked if she could call and chat as she loved the South African accent. I sent her our phone number but thought that we would never hear from her. At that point I still thought that the swinging scene was a joke and that no one really made contact, all talk you know what I much to my amazement she colled 5 mins later and we chatted. She asked if we had ever been to Bristol and Bath, thats where they were. I said no and she said we should come spend the week end, she chatted to Mrs B for a bit and they made arrangements to go down the next week end.
Well the next week end we took the coach to Bath and her hubby collected us from the terminal. We got to the house and chatted and got to know each other a little better and then that night after the kids had gone to bed we sat with the lights turned down chatting and drinking wine. Next thing my mrs and our new friends were snogging and gropping and I sat there like an idiot still not getting the message. After a bit they moved over to me and started on me. I couldnt believe it, I was in heaven. We spent a few week ends together.
It was great but then we went back to Zim and by the time we came back circumstances had changed. We never had the chance to do it again as My mrs sort of fell out of the scene but recently she has started showing more interest so I am holding thumbs.
Anyway that our story I do hope I havnt bored you all to death.
Zim :taz:
Quote by zimwolf
Hey all,
Well believe it or not I started to reply to this thread this morning and as I got to the end of the story I lost it
Our first swinging experience, we came to the UK in 1997 on a 2 year working holiday from Zimbabwe, there isnt a swinging scene there so we were like reall green. We signed up on AOL and spent alot of time in the chatrooms where we got our first exposure to the scene. After a while we met a lady on line and she was great, her partner never really seemed to come online. One day she figured that we werent from UK and asked if she could call and chat as she loved the South African accent. I sent her our phone number but thought that we would never hear from her. At that point I still thought that the swinging scene was a joke and that no one really made contact, all talk you know what I much to my amazement she colled 5 mins later and we chatted. She asked if we had ever been to Bristol and Bath, thats where they were. I said no and she said we should come spend the week end, she chatted to Mrs B for a bit and they made arrangements to go down the next week end.
Well the next week end we took the coach to Bath and her hubby collected us from the terminal. We got to the house and chatted and got to know each other a little better and then that night after the kids had gone to bed we sat with the lights turned down chatting and drinking wine. Next thing my mrs and our new friends were snogging and gropping and I sat there like an idiot still not getting the message. After a bit they moved over to me and started on me. I couldnt believe it, I was in heaven. We spent a few week ends together.
It was great but then we went back to Zim and by the time we came back circumstances had changed. We never had the chance to do it again as My mrs sort of fell out of the scene but recently she has started showing more interest so I am holding thumbs.
Anyway that our story I do hope I havnt bored you all to death.
Zim :taz:
Now thats was good to read.....I enjoyed the story....
Our first was with a good m8 of ours, asked him if he wanted to join in, and he said no, which was fine, then went out with a load of friends on night, he was there, askedme if the offer was still open (which it was), and he came back with us, and the rest is history. I was surprised i didnt feel a bit jealous, we still use those thoughts when we our own our own in bed...
Then my turn with another F this time....Was well surprised the wife made a move on her, and she responed!!!I was in heaven, and so were they....wow....what a night...No regrets so far, and looking forward too more...
Berto
i was thinking that it may be a good topic for others to read what your experiences are. This is a great site and many may have not experienced what you have, so if your willing to share please comment on your first swinging experience.
You can find some info on this behind the pearly gates under a thread called advice needed.
If a friendly moderator sees this perhaps they could post a link!!!Mrs RSAB2 xxx