First time 3some

28 Jun 2005

We've had loads of responses to our photo ad and have narrowed our choice to 3 guys who we hope to meet at least one in the next week.
This is our 1st 3 some so we would be grateful for any advice.
Things like condoms - odviously he'll have to wear one whilst shagging Paula but what about blow jobs.
Were are the best places to meet.
How do you break the ice.
Are there any unwritten rules we should be aware of.
Thanks

28 Jun 2005

blow jobs are nice
not in your or his home if your un comfatable
a large cafe or public house with beer gardens are good
usually with an ice LOL sorry couple of beers raunchy film
discuss no no s from the off if your bi and you come onto a str8 guy it may end in tears

28 Jun 2005

nick and paula,
U should only do what u feel comfortable doing............. !!!
There are no rules............ U make them yourselves !
Happy Hunting

28 Jun 2005

Well if you're anything like me you'll wait for someone else to take the inititative rolleyes

:lol2:
Relax, meet somewhere public for that all important first drink, then just go with the flow if it feels right.
Good luck, enjoy and don't forget.......
We want to see the piccies. :twisted:

28 Jun 2005

We would always meet first in pub etc and then go away without doing anything.
That way there is no presuure on anybody, builds up the anticipation and gives everyone the opportunity to back out if it doesnt feel right!

28 Jun 2005

Dont serve food with garlic until after.

28 Jun 2005

Quote by vodka_babe22uk
and make sure you have a key word that your partner knows if you feel uneasy at any time you say it then he can call a halt
and most of all enjoy yourselves

Make sure the other person is aware of this as well, and understands that it could be called off at any time. If he knows where you stand it'll save any awkwardness if you do decide to cancel.