Hi All
Wife and i are going to our first club this weekend , we have talked and talked about
limits and boudaries etc and think we have covered evrything , open question to all of you who are regular club goers what in your opinion would make for a successful first time at a club?
Many thanks A&S xxx
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First time at club nerves
the only advice i can give, is sit back, take in the atmosphere, relax andmost important of all, take your time, dont feel as if you need to rush into anything, dont be pressured.
chat to others that are there, get to know some people.
we have all had our "first times" and it's to be expected that you will feel nervous,
have fun at the club, i hope you have a wonderfull time.
chat to others that are there, get to know some people.
we have all had our "first times" and it's to be expected that you will feel nervous,
have fun at the club, i hope you have a wonderfull time.
Hi A and S
We are not regular club goers but have been to three in the last couple of months. My first experience was extrememly nerve wracking, but once we had got there been shown around and soaked up the atmosphere the nerves diappeared.
Everybody is very polite and friendly and you are never "pounced" upon. We have been when single males are at the clubs and their behaviour has never been less then perfect.... so my advice, go, take a deep breath and enjoy.
At our first attendance we didn't play with others but changed this on the susequent two occasions, so do not go with too many expectations....
Have lots of fun
Sarah (and Andy) x x x x
We are not regular club goers but have been to three in the last couple of months. My first experience was extrememly nerve wracking, but once we had got there been shown around and soaked up the atmosphere the nerves diappeared.
Everybody is very polite and friendly and you are never "pounced" upon. We have been when single males are at the clubs and their behaviour has never been less then perfect.... so my advice, go, take a deep breath and enjoy.
At our first attendance we didn't play with others but changed this on the susequent two occasions, so do not go with too many expectations....
Have lots of fun
Sarah (and Andy) x x x x
Just go and have fun, i think if you set to many rules you can't enjoy yourself cause i find many new couples spend all night keeping a eye on each other to make sure their rules don't get broken, of course we all need some rules but i think its best to just go, be yourself, relax and have fun 
you may be better going on a couples only night
you may be better going on a couples only night
