My hubby and I are looking for a first FFM 3sum and, since he is the only person I have ever been with, I am understandably a little nervous (he has never done this either but has had other partners before mwe.) Does any one out there have any first time advice or stories that they would be willing to share, particularly about FFM 3sums? Thanks xx
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yes i agree with naughtynymphos1
the first couple i met the lady was bi and she knew what she wanted but let me take things at my own pace.
i diddent go there intending to play with the lady, but i did know that she wanted to play with me, but she diddent push it in anyway.
it turned out to be a fantastic time and we met over and over again ;-)
the first couple i met the lady was bi and she knew what she wanted but let me take things at my own pace.
i diddent go there intending to play with the lady, but i did know that she wanted to play with me, but she diddent push it in anyway.
it turned out to be a fantastic time and we met over and over again ;-)
Sex God
Quote by Whitfield
My hubby and I are looking for a first FFM 3sum and, since he is the only person I have ever been with, I am understandably a little nervous (he has never done this either but has had other partners before mwe.) Does any one out there have any first time advice or stories that they would be willing to share, particularly about FFM 3sums? Thanks xx
Agree with NN's response. Would just like to say good luck, and that it's not just first-timers who get the jitters
Sex God
Good luck - just remember that jitters can get you at any time - that's what makes it so exciting!! :twisted:
Sex God
:shock: Mrs Pete loves first timers :P
(cough) sorry about that, but have to disagree with the majority here, our second time was with a bi-curious fem. omg the nerves were so highly strung on both sides :scared:
all of a sudden mrs pete took the bull by the horns (so to speak) and kissed her :shock:
it all went uphill from there :twisted:
my advice? stay within your comfort zone, have no expectations, and make sure the person you are meeting also has no expectations. Tell them if you have any taboos, and just enjoy the company. If something is going to go further, then trust me it will
If it doesn't, 
so what, you've had a night out and made a new friend, nothing lost there.
good luck and I hope it all works out. :thumbup:
(cough) sorry about that, but have to disagree with the majority here, our second time was with a bi-curious fem. omg the nerves were so highly strung on both sides :scared:
all of a sudden mrs pete took the bull by the horns (so to speak) and kissed her :shock:
it all went uphill from there :twisted:
my advice? stay within your comfort zone, have no expectations, and make sure the person you are meeting also has no expectations. Tell them if you have any taboos, and just enjoy the company. If something is going to go further, then trust me it will
If it doesn't, so what, you've had a night out and made a new friend, nothing lost there.good luck and I hope it all works out. :thumbup:
Sex God
I'd just like to say that our first meet was with a bi-curious lady and I too was bi-curious and Stormy was ..well Stormy (shy and reserved)
BUT the meet was fab. What did it for us was alot of MSN and posts on here first, then a nice meal and after which a nice hotel room had been booked which Stormy and I loved and were happy to stay in with or without company.
Yes we were nervous and had the jitters, but it's amazing what a massage can lead to!
Love
FIRE xx
BUT the meet was fab. What did it for us was alot of MSN and posts on here first, then a nice meal and after which a nice hotel room had been booked which Stormy and I loved and were happy to stay in with or without company.
Yes we were nervous and had the jitters, but it's amazing what a massage can lead to!
Love
FIRE xx
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
As we all now know, im a virgin.
So I'd qualify as a first timer
Honest Guv!
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Mrs. Pete :shock: Mrs. Pete ffs where is that woman? Mrs. Pete come quick, look what I have found :giggle:
Quote by Pete_sw
As we all now know, im a virgin.
So I'd qualify as a first timer
Honest Guv!
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Mrs. Pete :shock: Mrs. Pete ffs where is that woman? Mrs. Pete come quick, look what I have found :giggle:
Well now Wenchy is forcing me to become a repeater....
Wenchy if you're a virgin then my c*ck is real! :shock:
Sex God
Quote by Kiss
Well now Wenchy is forcing me to become a repeater....
:
Winchester, or Anne Summers? :lol2:
